Like a male colleague, in order not to affect his mood at work, go to work during the day, just like ordinary colleagues with him, or avoid him a little and send him text messages at night.

= =! Your situation is similar to mine! After working for more than a year, I fell in love with a female colleague. I know he has a boyfriend. I don't think I'm a mistress if I'm not married anyway. After that, it was like her confession was rejected. After that, I still maintained a normal colleague relationship as always. I insisted on attending her wedding in July this year. I like her other colleagues, but they all say I have a big heart. Now she is still in her previous unit, and I resigned after attending her wedding (but I found that now think about it, which girl can promise again when she has a boyfriend? But it's too late now! In my opinion, say it if you like it, so as not to regret it. Forget it if you can. It hurts if you can't forget it! After all, there are not many opportunities for people to contact each other after drinking tea!