What should I do if my favorite girl blacked out my WeChat?

How to solve the problem of girls blackmailing us?

1, disconnect

Breaking diplomatic relations means completely breaking diplomatic relations with the target, including WeChat, phone calls, text messages, meeting, playing games together, and even being together.

Girls pull us black because they are extremely bored. Therefore, at this time, we use disconnection to disappear to the greatest extent, so that girls' emotions can be released themselves.

Compared with freezing, disconnecting is different in that it has no time limit.

For example, the freezing plan is to freeze for seven days, so after seven days, we will restart the chat or contact with girls as planned.

However, disconnection is different. Not counting time. In other words, as long as Xiao Yi doesn't pull us out of the blacklist, we won't take the initiative to contact each other for a day.

But what needs to be emphasized here is that disconnection is not suitable for all situations.

During the period when girls' emotions dissipate with time, they cannot be stimulated in the middle. Therefore, we can't be sure whether the girl's mood has recovered during the planned freezing period.

However, when our WeChat and phone were blacklisted by girls, girls' attitude towards us was absolutely credible. So after several comparisons, we still adopt the method of disconnection rather than freezing.

2. Create N new scenic spots.

During the break-up, Brother Dao Leige gave his brother who wanted to catch up with the girl a task, which consisted of eight groups of life presentations.

Playing games, drinking, smoking, etc. At home when she is lazy, get rid of the bad habits she knew before and spend her time building her own life.

The reason for doing this is to show a man's change in front of girls. All attraction comes from change. If we are the same as before, there will be no difference, and girls will not have different views on us in their hearts.

Because it can output another point that attracts girls, called chat humor.

Humorous chatting can also attract girls, and, in the eyes of girls, it is a hundred times stronger than playing games.

3. The importance of getting closer when dating.

Many people don't know how to make proper physical contact with girls on a date.

The problems here are roughly divided into two categories:

One is because we haven't reached the stage of ambiguity, so if we act too urgently at this time, girls will think that we will be casual.

On the other hand, many times we are in an ambiguous stage with girls, but we always become very cautious when dating, as if afraid of our own recklessness, and girls ignore us from now on.

Therefore, at this time, we must not be timid and boldly move closer.

The choice of dating place is also particular. Try to choose some quiet scenes that can create a world of two people.

Girls tend to be shy when there are many people, but when there are many people, we can only move near some basic parts (such as shoulders, back, hands and waist).

After listening to Brother Lei's patient teaching, a brother chose a western-style food +KTV dating method.

One thing to mention here is to make good use of your own advantages in the process of courtship. Every boy will have some advantages, such as singing better. In addition, the light and environment of KTV are more suitable for us to get closer.

1, the importance of being calm in time

The reason why girls choose to pull us black is nothing more than an abnormal dislike of our behavior.

We all know that girls are emotional, so girls have shown great anger at this time, so we must not provoke girls again during this time.

We need to calm her down, let the girl get rid of this extremely boring mood, and wait until her mood returns to stability.

If we choose to keep in touch with girls when they are emotional, it will not only be beneficial to our sniper, but also very likely to anger girls again and increase the difficulty of our sniper.

2. Find an alternative attraction.

Many times, the problem lies in having an unavoidable competitor.

What makes girls have a headache is that two men are equal and should compete with their competitors with the same advantages. For example, if he sends flowers, you also send flowers.

Attract girls from other angles, so as to avoid each other's best points, because girls are not stupid, just want to pick her up by sending flowers, and she knows your purpose.

3. Make an appointment to establish a relationship.

I have known girls for some time, even a little ambiguous at best, but many brothers have never mentioned a single date.

Many times dating can play a role in pulling up the relationship between two people (of course, this refers to the premise of mutual attraction).

Therefore, once you regain the attention and attraction of girls, you need to invite them in time, otherwise it will be meaningless to miss the time and delay.