Classic quotes from Hu Jianyun, the gold medal mediator

"Gold Medal Mediation", which is broadcast on Jiangxi Satellite TV at 10:05 every night, aims to mediate disputes, resolve conflicts and promote harmony. It brings together the most authoritative team of gold medal mediators and observers to use unique perspectives and point of view, allowing the audience to see a different TV mediation program. In the program, what Teacher Hu Jianyun said was thought-provoking for many people. Next, 365 Quotations and Lines Network will introduce to you Hu Jianyun’s classic quotations from "Gold Medal Mediation".

"Gold Medal Mediation" Hu Jianyun's classic quotations

(1)

Marriage is essentially a "struggle" between one man and three women. If a man wants to handle the relationship with his wife, mother, and mother-in-law well, he must have three new things:

1. A punching bag—no matter what, he must let his wife’s anger come out first, and then he can hear his wife’s anger. Make sense.

2. Fire extinguisher - you have to coax a good woman, including using so-called coquettish sweet words, flowers, diamond rings and other expensive things, don't be too stingy.

3. Recorder - accompany your wife to "scold" the family members. Hey, it's just a scolding along with her. In terms of action, it won't go too far.

If you have these three things, you will be a good husband, and your wife will not be able to let you go and will love you very much!

Mother-in-law, you must have a deep love for your younger generation and be patient in waiting. Children grow up.

Daughter-in-law, you must be kind to your elders and respect them with kindness.

If the mother-in-law worries too much about the younger generations, she will definitely be sad...

(2)

Tell a story about a quarrel between two families. :

It was all the mistakes made by the wife. The first husband was very angry and said to his wife: Let me tell you where I went wrong... My wife said how could I be wrong? The quarrel became more and more fierce, and the quarrel lasted for 19 years.

The wife of another family made a mistake. The husband asked the wife, how could you do this? The wife said I was right and it was you who was wrong! The husband said he was right. It was really my fault. I admit that the mistake was I was wrong, it doesn't matter, I admit my mistake to you. When my wife heard this, she thought, no, no, it's my fault. As a result, they dealt with quarrels like this for the next 19 years.

Two families, two lives, just one or two sentences. Therefore, I really want to create a quarrel class for primary and secondary schools. How to quarrel is an art. Husband and wife have been practicing sleeping together for hundreds of years, but because they don't quarrel, it's a pity that they forget all their affection and love for each other when they quarrel, and throw each other into an invisible place.

(3)

Beauty or handsomeness need something to support it to achieve the effect, and that is temperament. If a person has no temperament and no connotation, no matter how beautiful or handsome he is, he will be in vain.

People often use a lot of words to say all kinds of bad things about others, but rarely use a few words to praise others' good qualities.