I just broke up with my ex-boyfriend a few days ago, and then I lost sleep. Can I scold him?

See if you still have an emotional foundation. There may be two reasons for your insomnia. First, you think that your boyfriend broke up, and you can't adapt to this rhythm, and now you are dependent on your ex-boyfriend. Second, you have feelings for this relationship. You think it's a pity to break up like this. You can't bear to part with each other. But it is unwise to scold your ex-boyfriend at this time for the following reasons:

First, if the other person is angry, it may hurt both of you. If the other person is angry, if you scold him again, it is easy for him to go to extremes. For boys, once their emotions get out of control, it is easy to go to extremes. So you shouldn't scold him at this time. There are countless cases in which the emotions of both sides are out of control and lead to tragedy. Last year, in front of a civil affairs bureau, a newly divorced couple swore at each other, but the boy lost control and hit the girl with a car, and the girl instantly fell in a pool of blood. Therefore, don't scold him at this time, so as not to cause tragedy.

Second, if you choose to scold him, you will completely lose your feelings in this emotional game. This is a game between two people. If you love him, you should find the right time and opportunity. If you don't like him, you will lose the first step after breaking up, which will only make the other person's impression of you worse, and if others see you scold your ex-boyfriend, it may further affect your next relationship.

Third, people should rely on reason to solve problems, not emotional reality. Many people are immature, and solving emotional problems is a sign of immaturity. No matter who you are, you should be rational when you encounter problems, improve your reason and control your emotions at all times. When you really rely on reason to detect other people's emotions to solve problems, it shows that you are a person with high emotional intelligence and can take the initiative in any interpersonal relationship.

If you still love your boyfriend, you can find a way to get back together. If you scold him, even if you get back together, there will be irreparable scars. The charm of girls lies in intellectual beauty, and swearing will only make people disgusted.