Girlfriend actually wrote to her ex-boyfriend.

First of all, she doesn't value you more than her ex-boyfriend. They don't rule out that they want to be ordinary friends after breaking up, but can mature men and women establish pure friendship? Maybe you have your own answer.

Second, there may be many reasons for their breakup, some of which are because of helplessness at that time. Today, it is not completely ruled out that the two of them may get back together. You are only a temporary "substitute" between them. There is no doubt that you feel sympathy for your situation.

Third, I have an ex-girlfriend who has been dating for three years. She has a lot to do with your reflection, but you are different from me. The ex-girlfriend I know often contacts me to reflect her current boyfriend's situation or her thoughts and so on. Although I don't report the idea of getting back together, it's quite interesting to listen to the story of "good friend" like a friend, so I am physically aware of all kinds of tastes in your heart.

Having said that, I'll give you a suggestion: First, if you are patient enough, just turn a blind eye, muddle along and make a living (of course, this is not easy for most self-respecting men). Second, break up, break up immediately and find a good woman who is loyal to you!