My boyfriend said he had hurt his ex-girlfriend before, so she sent him a text message. He was embarrassed to answer. What should I do?

For your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, whether it's ugly or beautiful, you must first understand, but,

You still need to explain.

This is ok, but please make clear your current situation and role first.

For your past, it must have ended for some reason.

Now that we are together, please respect me.

This kind of contact is meaningless and necessary. She needs to grow up by herself. After all, you can't take care of her forever, can you? '

And so on.

Show your tolerance and open-mindedness, but let your boyfriend know that it is unnecessary!

My boyfriend also told me what XXX talked to him before. I was very uncomfortable, but I should defend my self-esteem and rights when I meet him in the future!

Come on, female compatriots!