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How to confess

1. Boys confess to girls

Hello! Dude, I've been through this before. I've been through this stage like yours. It's really interesting and confusing. Let me listen to what I have to say.

After reading your situation, I analyzed it. In today’s world, if you want to successfully pursue a girl! You can’t use conventional methods! Especially now, you all have a misunderstanding. You all want to confess before you think something is wrong with you, and then wait for others to "admit" it after confessing. I'm right, right?

It's easy to fail this way, brother. Especially if the other person has no feelings for you. In fact, you can kiss her first before confessing your love! In this way, the other party will feel fresh and exciting. If it is the first kiss, it will be even more heart-wrenching!

Now you must be fast, accurate and ruthless when chasing your child. I mean the most critical time, listen to me, I’m calling you word by word. You can’t play your cards according to the routine, like usual. The logic of chasing girls is outdated!

I will tell you some of my experiences and my understanding below. Hope this helps! !

My experience: When you like a girl, you have to calm down first and don’t think too wonderfully.

The next thing you have to do is to find opportunities to slowly get close to him when everyone is doing activities together. Be careful, don't hang around her all the time, otherwise people will be disgusted. What you have to do is to improve yourself in all aspects and increase your capital. For example, playing the piano, hip-hop dancing, computer programming, singing well, writing beautifully, calligraphy, etc., of course the most important thing is a career! ! ! If you build your career well, make more money, and study well as a student, you will gain more attention. The competitiveness is also great!

I sincerely share my experience and hope you can learn the essence from it! In short, it is "to pick up girls, haste makes waste, desire does not get what you want, stay away from her, step by step, and finally win her heart! Also, don't let the teacher hang around her, you have to accumulate capital! Do you understand, women don't like that kind of thing?" The person who hangs around her all day long!

The next step for you is to develop slowly, ask her out slowly, and then unconsciously try to share your little secret with her, so that the two of you become You are good friends who talk about everything. Finally, on a certain day, when there are fewer people, you chat together again. You try to ask her about her boyfriend and girlfriend, and then give him a hint. At that time, don't be brave. Xiao, it’s best to go have a drink. If you think you have a good grasp, you can ask her, for example, what kind of person do you think I am, etc., and then take advantage of his hesitation to kiss her directly, and it’s settled and confessed. That will happen later. You can talk about it when you are making out, haha.

This is how I succeeded. In short, this is something that cannot be rushed. Only when you finally succeed will you feel the progress of your time. I finally paid off when I came here. It felt so wonderful! Haha, I might as well share the process of my confession: What I said to my girlfriend when I confessed was: X, you know, at the right time, I can There are not many opportunities like this in life when you meet the right person. The person I meet now is you. I hope you can give me a chance to love you well, and then my girlfriend won’t even think about it! Just thinking about it, he threw himself into my arms and refused to get up!

(Of course we were chatting very ambiguously at that time. I felt it was the right time, and I had to seize the moment! Don’t be too hasty, because When a girl likes romance, she will never forget it! It’s better to kiss her if she hesitates! Of course, I don’t think it’s a big deal after all! The price of your happiness is too small for a slap!

In fact, confession is just a formality. The correct sequence should be: Only when you have actually become your girlfriend can you confess your love to others, and it will be a matter of course. . Many people don’t understand this issue and always think that someone agrees to be their girlfriend first and then whatever happens. I can only say that he is very, very “simple” and very, very “stupid”.

Is there ever a time when "you have no choice but to express your feelings"?

Yes, for example, a third party appears, or the relationship between you and the girl is not mature but the two of you may be separated for a period of time. The confession at this time is an immature confession, and the risk is very high. It is similar to the serious situation when playing Go. The lagging side is forced to release the "winner's hand". If it wins, it wins, and if it loses, it can only say " All bad luck is natural."

Don’t say the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confessions" appearing on forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment, and even a kind of responsibility.

Haha, and do you know what the highest level is, that is, a man doesn’t even ask a woman “are you willing to be my girlfriend” until he goes to bed with her? In the end, the girl gets anxious: “ Why don’t you ask me to be your girlfriend?”

I wrote it all myself, from my own experience, I hope it can help the original poster! I’m so exhausted from writing... Ha, I didn’t expect it to be quite a lot. No matter how much I can help you! ! ! According to my method, the success rate is very high and it is very effective! Girls all like excitement, haha

I wish the poster can pursue happiness as soon as possible! ! ! ! Have a happy life!

If you have any questions, please leave a message and I will be happy to answer them for you! !

Second additional answer...

Brother

Don’t let her notice it so quickly, otherwise some girls will hurt you if they don’t do their best. Positive.

Look, whatever you do to improve your strength will be useful in the future... What do you think?

2. Girls confess to boys

Boys When chasing girls, boys confess their love to the girl they like. However, as the trend of the times changes, there are no so-called absolute unchanging rules of the game. How should girls confess to boys? If girls still believe that "as long as a woman waits quietly, Prince Charming will fall from the sky", the bumpy road of love can be Foresee...

The number of leftover women in modern times is increasing. Have girls become bad? Are boys' demands getting higher and higher? In fact, no, in this extraordinary period, as long as girls take more initiative, they will have a chance to get closer to the prince charming in their hearts.

First of all, whether to express your feelings or not is the most basic question. Are you worried that he will reject you because of other reasons, or whether he will reject you because he doesn't like you. If it is the former, and you are confident in your future, you can try to tell him your thoughts and tell him that you can face problems with him, etc.

If it's the latter, then you won't be happy if you force yourself to do it. However, the purpose of confessing is to have no regrets. Think about whether you should give it a try.

If you fall in love with a young man, you should work hard to pursue him. However, due to the shyness of a girl, it is inconvenient to express it frankly to the other person. So how can you convey your feelings to the other person skillfully? How should a girl confess her love to a boy? Please refer to the following method:

Write him a letter first, hand it to him in person, and test it out. If you have fun, go on a date, chat online, or call on the phone. If you feel comfortable writing a letter If it is inconvenient to send a letter, try to find out his phone number or @@ number, and express your feelings online or via text messages.

Use body language flexibly to express indirectly: for example, smiling and making eye contact are good ways to convey your goodwill and goodwill. The key point of eye contact is to wander, staring directly at the other person, which may be misunderstood. You should look at each other, look away, look at each other, look away, look at each other... Then it may be his turn to take action.

Use a third party to express: Sometimes if it is really difficult for a girl to speak, you may use good friends around you to help you express your love, such as: "xxx likes you often", "xxx says you are nice" Pinhao is a cheerful and honest person, I hope my boyfriend is like this." You use your friend's words to express your feelings, so it's very realistic and the other person can't see any flaws. If he is a smart person, he will feel your love and be attracted to you.

Try to suit the boy you like: How should a girl express her feelings to a boy? You must first explore the interests and hobbies of the boy you like.

For example, if the young man likes literature, he will go to the library to borrow books. You can see clearly what kind of books he likes, borrow more similar books to read, and then find the right opportunity to chat with him for a few words and change the topic to the content of this kind of books, and naturally you can have a very interesting conversation. After a period of contact, if you feel that you like it, then continue; if you feel that it is not suitable (don't be fooled by words such as "love at first sight"), then downplay the relationship and slowly withdraw from the love network. There is no harm to either party.

I hope the poster can be successful with the confession~~

I hope the poster will adopt it. Thank you, it is not easy to do it by hand.