Ruoyun Zhang sends text messages and videos to his birth mother.

For this first public appearance, Tang Yixin chose a one-shoulder dress decorated with black flowers. The meatball head looks youthful and beautiful, especially its slim and well-proportioned. It has completely recovered to the excellent state before pregnancy, including the fine lines exposed by Tang Yixin. It looks exactly the same as the pictures of the live activities, which shows that she has made great efforts to make a comeback after childbirth.

After the hot search on Tang Yixin's postpartum comeback caused a hot discussion among netizens, Ruoyun Zhang was also the first to publish a document to spread dog food. He exposed Tang Yixin's modeling drawings and wrote a confession to his wife, saying, "This is my wife and the mother of my children. I respect and admire her, because she accompanied me through a difficult time. I love her as much as she loves me. "

Ruoyun Zhang's Weibo, in addition to showing love, undoubtedly means showing off or declaring sovereignty. Of course, no matter what factors are involved, at least his starting point and the effect he wants to convey are good.

However, no one expected that a simple Weibo in Ruoyun Zhang aroused strong resentment from the outside world.

Many netizens said that when Ruoyun Zhang called Tang Yixin "my wife" or "his mother", there was a deliberate prejudice against women. These netizens believe that when men, including Ruoyun Zhang, describe women, they always confine themselves to the role of wife or mother, and they can't see that they are independent people.

Netizens also began to analyze word for word, and various labels were hit on Ruoyun Zhang's face, such as:

"Sorry", "Dad's taste", "rustic" and "deliberate" are also problematic. Calling a wife and child's mother demeans women and doesn't treat them as independent individuals. I love you as you love me. I feel that he doesn't have much love for her.

Some netizens even maliciously speculated that Ruoyun Zhang must have done something wrong, and this Weibo may have been sent to apologize to his wife after the man cheated. ......

In addition, together with the topic of Tang Yixin's postpartum figure, it is also interpreted together. It's completely objectifying women and treating women as tools for men to watch. ...

Seeing this, I had an idea in my heart: I'm so green ... I can't even call my wife. Do we have to change Weibo to Ruoyun Zhang?

This is the actor Tang Yixin, whose masterpiece is Empresses in the Palace, my legal partner and the biological mother of my own child. The above remarks only state objective facts and do not express stereotypes about women's identity?

Is this necessary? Is this the only way to respect women? Is this the only way to show your love for your wife?

Moreover, apart from Li and Luo Yan on the other side of Huang, these two couples happened to "hit the gun".

First, Huang Lei sent a message to share her life during the National Day. In this article, Huang Lei called Sun Li "Miss Sun", and when she came back from business trip, she would bring special products to "Miss Sun" and revealed that they would hold another wedding on the 30th anniversary.

Huang Lei's speech didn't objectify women, did it? Another wedding can also be understood as respecting your wife enough?

But even so, netizens can still find the irony that Huang Lei doesn't really love his wife, because true love won't let his wife have children all the time, and let her daughter please the powerful and pretentious. ......

Seeing this, people feel inside: this? When did Huang Lei let his wife have children? Is it Huang Lei's business to have a baby? Also, when did Huang Lei's daughter curry favor with the powerful? What's going on here?

However, while we were still surprised, Luo Jin on the other side was reported to have talked about his wife Tang Yan giving birth to a daughter for the first time in an interview. As a new father, he revealed that he was calm when he held his daughter in his arms for the first time, and said, "At that time, the mood was calm, because she didn't suddenly jump out, and you were prepared."

This time, the comments of netizens once again refreshed everyone's three views. "This is hard to say." "Really don't feel bad about your wife?"

These accumulated hundreds of bad comments clearly emphasize the value of women, which undoubtedly highlights a kidnapped theme-women's rights.

Indeed, in the process of modern society, women's rights have been neglected too much, which has caused key discussions, and topics such as male supremacy and female materialization are the most common topics in controversy. However, what is the meaning of feminism? Is it a tool used by women to measure who is right and who is wrong? Is it a sharp weapon to suppress the contradiction in making of a man? Isn't true feminism the pursuit of true "equal rights"?

And what do these things have to do with the right to peace?

Whether in Ruoyun Zhang, Huang Lei or Luo Jin, have they really discriminated against women? What can these so-called netizens who pursue women's rights do after making these remarks, except to show the direction of "overcorrection", "black and white" and "extreme left and extreme right"?

It is a good thing that women's rights can be valued, and it is also social progress that equal rights are discussed more. But perhaps, sometimes we really have to think carefully about whether the feminist rights you are pursuing and promoting are real equal rights or hegemony that has already changed.