"I don't have to marry you even if I'm pregnant." Did the Phoenix man who didn't want to give a bride price suffer a loss?

Phoenix Man not only made no loss, but also gained a girl’s youth. Xiaoyi and Xiaocheng were introduced to each other by their classmates and fell in love. The two fell in love for more than four years before they met their parents and prepared to get married. The groom’s parents suggested that the bride price should be smaller, and just give him 66,000 yuan as a formality. The woman's parents had no objection, and the two got engaged and lived together. However, because Xiaoyi was pregnant, the man couldn't think of the money for the bride price, and even the wedding had to wait until after the child was born to be held together with the full moon wine. This made Xiaoyi very angry and didn't want to get married. 01. The man: Pregnant = a white wolf with nothing

After the man found out that Xiaoyi was pregnant, he was very happy. Xiaoyi’s mother-in-law also said that she would raise a baby for her and hold a wedding as soon as the epidemic is over. However, Xiaoyi's belly was getting bigger day by day, but the man didn't mention anything about the wedding or the bride price. After Xiaoyi asked, Xiaoyu said that she couldn't wear a wedding dress because of her big belly, so she should wait until the child was born to do it together and get the certificate first. Xiaoyi compromised. As a result, Xiaoyi's mother-in-law-to-be said that if the child spends money, the bride price will not be given. This made Xiaoyi very angry. Children have to spend money, so shouldn't they be given more money as gifts? The key is that Xiaoyu is also on his mother's side. 02. You don’t have to get married even if you’re pregnant

Xiaoyi has clearly seen the character of Xiaoyu and Xiaoyu’s parents. This is a typical Phoenix man. When Xiaoyi decided not to get married, Xiaoyu also said that no one would want Xiaoyi if she didn't get married. It’s ridiculous, it’s already 2021, how come no one wants a woman who has been pregnant? In this era of imbalanced male-female ratio, as long as she is a woman, someone wants her.

Xiaoyi's parents fully support Xiaoyi's decision. Instead of getting married in silence, it is better to break up early. If you marry into a family that doesn't even want to give you a bride price or hold a wedding, you will only suffer hardship. The man's parents still felt that they were being too careless to show their appreciation. Anyway, their son was not at a disadvantage, he was in a relationship, and he didn't spend much money. However, I am afraid that no one would really want to marry such a man. 03. Marry not a Phoenix man

Phoenix men are men like Xiao Yi who have no ability themselves and just want to take advantage of the woman. For Phoenix men, marriage is a transaction that allows them to escape poverty or achieve transcendence across classes.

Marriage must be useful to them. Except for his wife, Phoenix Man loves everyone in his family. If the other party needs to spend their own money to get married, the Phoenix man is usually unwilling to do it. So, instead of marrying a Phoenix man, wouldn’t it be nice to find a normal man?

Xiaoyi’s child was finally aborted. Fortunately, he was only four months old and could still be aborted. Although I feel sorry for the child, if I give birth to this child, Xiaoyi's life will not be so easy. The child is innocent, but it is Xiaoyu and his family who are wrong. They mistakenly believe that the child can tie up the woman. They think that as long as the woman is pregnant, they can get a ready-made wife back without spending a penny. Pregnancy is a happy event and should not be used as a bargaining chip. This is unfair to the child and even more unfair to the pregnant woman.