I sent a short message to a girl I like yesterday, and the content of the short message is more than that. . She called me,,,

Dude, actually, the person who knows her best here is yourself. You should be good at finding problems from her words, but it is very difficult for you who are at a loss now, so listen to me as a bystander to analyze.

First of all, you said that boys who make jokes can do it. Sometimes they think it's funny or exciting, so they share it with her to adjust the atmosphere. This is understandable in itself, and she shouldn't have been particularly opposed before, because if she was disgusted, she wouldn't have played such a joke with you before (maybe half-truths).

Then, since she was not disgusted before, why is she suddenly so disgusted today? I think it must be some kind of stimulus. There may be two kinds of stimuli here: 1. According to her superficial meaning, she doesn't like you to tell her like this. She likes to see a positive you. I used to know you were joking, so I joked with you, but now I feel that you always take jokes seriously, and if you don't take them seriously, you will open them. She also has a degree, and when you reach that degree, it will naturally explode. 2, this reason is inferred by myself, you must sit still. She used to joke that she was an escort. Even if it's not true, it's probably related to the waiter. You know that being a waiter may be harassed (or maybe she saw it, probably), but she just has a little shadow in her heart. As a result, you hit a gun today. As soon as you make a joke, she remembers the harassment before. As for women, they rarely look at the problem alone. Naturally, she took it out on you and thought you were tarred with the same brush. For example, she said that she was angry when she saw it, and there was something wrong with morality. Besides, your explanation is not very clever, saying that she was impure before. Some girls admit that they are impure. As long as they are related to yellow, they will try their best to clean it up. And you not only remembered it, but also sent it to her when she needed to prove her purity most, alas! She naturally flew into a rage.

At this point, the cause analysis is completed, and the next step is the countermeasure. Here, a few people who blindly make ideas under a little criticism should not misuse their own ideas according to the actual situation. Remember Zhao Kuo's theory of an armchair strategist?

In fact, no matter what the reason, if she is not stupid, she must know that you like her from all the signs before. Besides, she is willing to talk to you, and now she is still angry with you, which shows that she still takes you seriously. So a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. If this matter is handled properly, your relationship may have a great breakthrough. Want to break through? If you like, let's take a look at the countermeasures.

Countermeasures: 1. The first reason is that you have to change yourself. She went out to work part-time and got in touch with society earlier. People start to make money, and as a result, you are still making jokes here to satisfy the temporary pleasure. How could she be willing to give her life to you? According to her meaning, she needs a positive boy. You have to prove by your actions that you are not a loafing boy. Oh, it's time to talk about men. You must have a sense of responsibility and dedication. Of course, it's up to you. If you don't understand anything, please feel free to consult and leave me a message. I will go to Baidu or QQ every day. 2. The second reason, don't disturb her for the time being, do you know to add fuel to the fire? Calm her down first. What you have to do is to comfort her later and prove that you are not the same kind of person as that kind of person, not with words. Oh, you made a language mistake. There are many ways to do this. Please find out the best way for her, such as stabilizing her first, asking her to have a meal to forgive you (maybe you are not wrong, but you have to admit your mistake, do you need me to explain), and just pretend to say something casually and ask her to forgive the impulse. Or you can pick her up from work every day, which is more convincing.

Throw a brick to attract jade, talk less; Please forgive me for any disrespect.

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