A married man keeps sending me messages saying ambiguous things, so I told him to stop. His wife found out, blamed me and scolded me. What should I do?

You always lead your boyfriend's words to:

For example, he said: Do you take a bath before going to bed every night? I didn't want to offend you by doing this.

You answer: wash! Yes, my boyfriend is a neat freak.

He asked, I'll take you with me on my next business trip. ......

Your answer: you said this trip, I remember it. My boyfriend and I have always wanted to travel together. Everyone must follow me.

After coming down twice, he got the news.

There is no harm in your style. Let him know your attitude.