My wife used her mobile phone to contact her ex-boyfriend behind my back.

Personally, I think, first of all, you are a good person, and you have the ability to support your family. You attach great importance to feelings and are loyal to your wife. So you can't allow others to defile your feelings.

What makes you angry is not that your wife contacted her ex-boyfriend, but that she cheated on you and contacted you without letting you know, treating you like a fool. There is no denying that what your wife has done at this point is inappropriate, but you can't just think that your wife has betrayed you, and even think of it further. She may be afraid to tell you the truth because she is afraid of what you think.

It is immature for your wife to do these things. As her husband, you have an obligation to help her and teach her that there is nothing wrong with being mature. Now that you're married and have children, you can't always talk about divorce hurting people. This is not only irresponsible for one's own children, but also a crime against parents. Is it easy for parents to help you start a family? You still have to deal with this matter with a peaceful mind!

To tell the truth, since your wife contacted that person behind your back, it means that in her mind, the other person must have some advantages that you don't have, such as handsomeness, humor and elegance. . . . . You must figure out what to do in order to prescribe the right medicine. Even if you are inferior to others in some respects, don't be discouraged. Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages. What you want your wife to understand is that as a responsible person, you can't be too greedy. People who want everything often get nothing in the end. He doesn't think you are Andy Lau, and you don't think she is Chris Lee!

It is wrong to take care of your wife the way parents take care of their children. The people who take care of her can't control her heart. You should spend more time with her. If you really like her, learn the plot in the movie and buy her some small gifts for birthdays and festivals. When there is nothing to do, the family of three will travel and sing karaoke or something. If she likes these things, you have to do them to keep her heart. If you don't do it, if someone who deliberately plays with feelings does these things and steals your wife's heart, you will regret it.

To say the least, after all you have done, she still doesn't understand and won't go on the road. Then you can't hurt others. What you do will only hurt people who really care about you. People like her don't deserve to be your wife, the mother of your children, and you don't deserve to be sad for her! You should let her parents know what her daughter is like! In case someone speaks for this greedy woman when you get back at her in the future.

Being a new father should be steady, about how to get her phone information. Still have to hide it from her, so that you can observe whether your efforts have any effect in the future!