What if my son rebelled?

Rebellious children should communicate patiently, relieve stress and respect trust.

1, patient communication.

Children in rebellious period are difficult to communicate, and most of them don't listen to their parents and teachers. Parents and teachers should be more patient when communicating with them. Children in this period will inevitably make some mistakes. Only a little more patience, serious communication with children and knowing what children are thinking can we teach children well.

2. Relieve stress.

Many parents and teachers only know how to give their children pressure to learn, but they don't communicate with them. They don't know their psychological state, heavy study assignments and exam rankings. They only know that they want to enter a good school, but they don't care about their psychological endurance. In fact, children are not less stressed than their parents. If the mental stress is too great, it is not conducive to their growth.

3. Respect trust.

Teenagers' spiritual growth and desire for autonomy are denied by their parents and teachers, and their rebellious psychology will increase. I will show you an idea that you think is impossible, and parents and teachers should not only see the shortcomings of their children, but also pay attention to their advantages and trust them. Let them do what they should let go.

The age of rebellious behavior of teenagers is about 14 years old. In learning, students with poor grades are more rebellious than those with good grades, and in gender, there are more boys than girls. Rebellious teenagers often do some extreme things, regardless of the consequences, and constantly confront their parents and teachers.

For the rebellious behavior of teenagers, most parents and teachers will either beat or scold their children if they don't listen to discipline. This is not desirable, parents and teachers are very angry. If they educate their children with emotions, they will only make them more rebellious.

Some parents and teachers see unruly children who are still rebellious after several times of discipline, so their rebellious behavior will become more and more serious. If they are adversely affected, they will easily go astray and embark on the road of crime.