I asked my blind date why it took so long to reply to me. He said that he was not distracted when playing and answered slowly. What does he mean?

From your description, we can see there are three possibilities. 1 The possibility is that the man you are dating has other things, so he will say that he is playing, can't be distracted, can't reply to you or reply slowly. The second possibility is that he is really playing, and he is very focused. From this point, we can also see that his mentality is not mature enough to grow. The last possibility is that this blind date doesn't like you very much. You always take the initiative to find him, which makes him a little annoyed. That's why he made this excuse. The purpose is to make you give up chasing him. From the above, we can see that no matter what the possibility, he is a little unsuitable for you.