The missing female nurse was killed by her ex-boyfriend How terrible is the predecessor?

After investigation, the lost female nurse was killed and the murderer turned out to be an ex-boyfriend. This news is not only embarrassing, but also deeply regrettable for the disappearance of this young life as beautiful as flowers and jade. However, if we come to the conclusion that "how terrible my predecessor was", I'm afraid it can only be said to be a very extreme statement, a serious one-sided generalization, or even "one leaf can't see the forest".

Now the divorce rate and breakup rate in China are so high that people nowadays have too many exes. But with so many predecessors, will each of them become the killers of their predecessors? Of course not. This is just an example.

Emotion is the most difficult thing to ponder and deal with in the world. Two people from different families and different growth environments will inevitably have conflicts in their outlook on life, values and world outlook. As the saying goes, "three views are different", and the old saying goes, "Don't try to find a solution if you have different aspirations!" So it is normal for two people to be together and break up if they don't get along. We can't label "ex" as "terrible" just because they have become each other's predecessors.

Of course, feelings are selfish. Indeed, some people are narrow-minded, extreme-minded and love to go to extremes. They will hold a grudge against each other because they can't get feelings, improvise because of excitement, or deliberately murder each other because of the abnormal psychology of "I want to destroy if I can't get it". But in the final analysis, it is still related to personal temperament, and those "predecessors" should not be allowed to take the blame.

The harm caused by emotional problems does not only happen between ex-husbands, even current and even married couples will have such and such situations because of emotional problems, and some will even fight and even kill each other.

Therefore, this happened not because he was an ex-boyfriend, but because he was himself. We can't label a group just because of a case.

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