My husband felt depressed about my obedience and careful care, and joked that I was a nanny. He doesn't care and value me more and more. What should I do?

You spoil him too much. That's what men do. The nicer you are to him, the more he will take it for granted.

It's not that you can't be nice to your husband, but you should also pay attention to the way to be nice to him. To what extent, you can't follow him in everything, which will lose yourself and put yourself in a very passive position.

You don't want this either, do you?

You should have your own opinions in everything, and don't care too much about some small details of life. Some men will think you are wordy. When you were a child, you were nagged by your mother. When you get married, you will be nagged by your wife. He will feel very annoyed.

Of course it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. People are such strange animals. If you are too kind to him, he will feel bad. You are not good to him, and he feels bad. Women must master this judgment.