My wife wants to divorce me because I found out that her relationship with her brother-in-law is not normal. An ambiguous message began to beat and scold her. She was divorced and her marriage was not

My wife wants to divorce me because I found out that her relationship with her brother-in-law is not normal. An ambiguous message began to beat and scold her. She was divorced and her marriage was not divorced. According to the verdict, she is not completely innocent. Not necessarily physically cheating, but at least playing with my brother-in-law, they have a good feeling and closeness, and they are psychologically cheating.

Sometimes you can perceive their psychological goodwill, but you can't come up with enough evidence to grasp the handle. Instead, you were hit back by her. You are just, but now you have fallen behind. In fact, you are innocent and helpless.

The solution, since she is not cheating physically, and you don't want to divorce, especially the temporary simple psychological affection and closeness, is not a matter of principle. Pull her back.

First, highlight the word "slow", that is, ease contradictions. Although you have been wronged, you should admit your mistake, ask for forgiveness, show your suspicion and misunderstanding, bless her, give her a "innocence" and "face" and go down the stairs. Don't push her to the opposite side by intensifying contradictions. Let's tie her up first. After a while, the contradiction passed and the rescue went out automatically.

Second, highlight the word "heart", that is, attack the heart first. A woman, you have her body, but you can't have their heart, which is quite a failure. Judging from the situation, she at least has no sense of freshness and action for you psychologically, and has already started to move on. Therefore, if you want to regain her heart, it is only a matter of time before you cheat. The specific way is to be kind to her, care more, and use more tricks to coax her to change her mind and behave better. In fact, the problem is not particularly serious, or it may just be that her psychology has changed recently. After living together for a long time, she felt bored and wanted to play something new. This is the normal psychology of people. The philosophy reflected in a joke is particularly profound: an emotional expert asked the old farmer the difference between love and marriage, and the old farmer replied: I slept with her today and want to sleep tomorrow, which is love; Sleeping with her today and sleeping with her tomorrow is marriage. I hope you can get inspiration from it.

Third, highlighting the word "divorce" is not divorce, but leaving the original environment, away from the original people, and changing to a new environment. Men have feelings and women have wishes, and they are exposed every day. It's strange that they don't wipe their guns and go off. After the conflict eased, I planned to take her away and exchange distance for isolation.

Third, highlight the word "space". If your wife is dating her marriage, then her sister is the direct victim. There is a fire in the backyard. It is impossible to sit idly by. You should skillfully let her sister know the causes of the conflict between you and your wife, the key third party and brother-in-law, so that her sister can be alert and play the role of supervision, prevention and isolation. Even if they stick together, you should play the role of a good wife and sister.

Fourth, change is a big deal. He fucked your wife and you fucked his wife. Anyway, they are sisters, and no one will suffer. Of course, this is extreme, but in history, there are no cases among celebrities at all times and in all countries. The game was thrilling and the heart beat.

Generally speaking, the problem is not big, it is a piece of cake, and the storm in the teacup. First, resolve the dispute at ordinary times, then pull the fight, pull the wife back, and separate the mandarin ducks. That's what men do. They must continue to fight. Your territory must be maintained.