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How to comfort a girl in a bad mood?

How to comfort a girl when she says she is in a bad mood? When we pursue a girl we like, we will inevitably meet her when she says she is in a bad mood. At this time, we need to comfort a girl in time. Here's how to comfort a girl when she says she is in a bad mood. How to comfort a girl when she says she is in a bad mood? 11. If a girl is in a bad mood, you can send it to her directly: I don't know why you are upset (showing concern but not prying into her privacy), and I don't know what to say to cheer you up (making her think that you are considerate of her and thinking about how to make her happy). I just hope you can quickly forget the unhappy things and continue to live a good life with a smile. Because, I like to see your smiling face (to let her know that you have a good impression on her, but this is not a confession, to cultivate feelings for you, and to make a confession as the basis), be happy every day, remember that someone has been paying attention to you, hehe. 2. When a girl is in a bad mood, take her to eat and drink, have fun, and go shopping in buy buy to buy ... This will be fine ~ so will I ~3. If a girl is in a bad mood, let her get angry, and by the way, play a bullied villain to make her happy. She will be fine after she loses her temper ... If she is unhappy, you will be OK with her quietly, and she will slowly get better. A more versatile starting point: You are a very smart girl and a very strong girl, so you are always too demanding of yourself. In fact, you are really great. Believe in yourself and come on! 5. Well, if a girl is in a bad mood, it's best to accompany her for a walk, shopping, chatting, eating, buying clothes and watching luxury goods. . . These are all the first choice for girls to relieve their depression! 6. If a girl is in a bad mood, you should try to get her to express all her dissatisfaction. Because a girl is different from a boy, her heart will be much better if you let her say it. At this time, you don't have to say anything comforting so quickly, just tell her everything. Then, you can take her everywhere to play. Anything interesting can be done, and you can go to a large shopping mall in the park. 7. Send some small gifts, some disgusting love words, praise her advantages and talk about interesting things. If a girl is willing to tell you that she is in a bad mood, in fact, you should also secretly rejoice, indicating that you are a special person in her heart (girls will not confide in unimportant people). At this time, your comfort is a key point. If you can comfort the girl, it means that the girl is willing to try to contact you. Then, as long as you don't play abnormally, you will generally have a good result. How to comfort girls when they say they are in a bad mood? 1. How to reply when girls say they are in a bad mood? 1. At this time, you should first ask what is the reason? At this time, you must enlighten him in time. It may be that he has a contradiction with others in his work or life, or that he has been targeted in some aspects. Then at this time, you must enlighten him in time, and listen to him talk to you. In the process of talking to you, you must echo him, so that his mood will gradually get better. 2. So if a girl tells you that she is in a bad mood, the first thing you should do is to reflect on whether some of her actions have made her unhappy. For example, if you are in contact with some opposite sex, he may see it and he is jealous, so he doesn't want to tell others. Just tell you that he is in a bad mood and actually have an opinion on you. See if you can understand it yourself. 3. Therefore, when a girl says that she is in a bad mood, she must first look for it from herself to see if she has made any mistakes. Then if not, enlighten him in time. Second, what are the warm-hearted words to comfort girls? 1. In fact, the warm-hearted words are mainly about what to see. If you really like this girl, you will definitely try your best to make her happy. And there are many warm words to comfort girls on the Internet. You can search online and combine them into your own language to create your own warm words. 2. The most important aspect of warm-hearted words is to learn to be considerate of girls. You can say that the baby has recently seen you unhappy, so who made you unhappy? Can you tell me, I will take you to a big meal? How can such a beautiful baby become a stingy person easily? If you are angry, it will not look good. Don't be angry, and so on. As long as you say it with your heart, girls like to listen. How to comfort girls when they say they are in a bad mood? 31. What questions to ask. Let your opinions be published only internally. Give her a chance to unravel her inner story. You can nod when you hear her head and make some short comments as needed. You may want to avoid telling her why she is angry with you. If so, please don't use it by force. Just tell her if she needs help, tell her that you like it, and then give her some time to cry. "How do you feel now?" "What are you unhappy about recently?" "I think I'm angry ... are you okay? What's wrong? " "If you need to talk to others, I'm here." 2. Expressing support can not be ignored. You needn't agree with her. When she is sad or angry, let her assure you that you will be there. Take her to a private space and tell her to cry. Let them know that you are on her side. "I am really having a hard time now. I'm sorry. " "I can't even imagine how I feel now. This must be very difficult. " "I'm sorry, I'm very angry. If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. " 3. Find out the problem and briefly express your feelings. Just by showing the other person that you understand their problems, you can help them calm down. But it must be short and clear. ""You deserve a promotion. Unfortunately, things did not go as expected. " "She is a very good friend. I am sorry for her movements. " 4. Avoid suggestions. For most people, it is difficult to solve the problems they face, so their emotions become strong. Don't give her a solution. Before talking, you may have considered the solution. In this case, if you give the same advice, it will only affect the severity of the problem. Instead, let's say, "It's really hard for this to happen." "I wish I could have an answer or a solution to tell you. I hope you remember that I am always by your side. " "What do you think will be next? "How do you want to solve this problem?" 5. Accept and sympathize with her feelings. It may not be easy, but letting her control the situation and emotions will help her control her emotions and emotions. Don't give her advice or position based on your experience, but let her have room to express her feelings. In particular, naming her emotions and saying the following will help her control her emotions: "I know you really want it. If I am like you, I will be really disappointed. " "You have the right to feel sad. If I were in the same situation as you, I would feel sad. " "When I saw you feeling depressed and angry, I thought I knew. I understand. A bit like that. " 6. Stay optimistic. This is really important. When you support her, please keep reminding her that things will get better and better. She may try to ask for your advice. Never have a negative attitude. Let your positive energy light up the atmosphere of the conversation, and her emotions will gradually accept your energy and gradually disappear. "You can express your feelings. You know, even those terrible feelings will disappear with time. " "Let's think of good memories together. ... do you remember the time? " "I know ... that's really bad. I will stay with you until things get better. " 7. Don't ignore her problems or look down on her. The reason for being adjacent to an emotional girlfriend is not to improve the situation, but to support her. Saying "no problem" or "I've had the same thing before" is like telling her that you won't take her problem seriously. Make sure to avoid using the following words: "Anyway, it's very kind of you. That's not worth your time. " The fact that her feelings have been intensified is that she thinks it is worth it. "I know exactly how you feel." Just as everyone is different, everyone's problems must be different. You will never know exactly how she feels. And she knows that. "You are really strong. Everything will be fine. " Sometimes people need time to show off their weak appearance. Don't let her show off her feelings just because she doesn't appear "weak" "I also know that this is terrible. What I have experienced before ... "Now this question has nothing to do with your past. Don't try to change the subject. Don't worry. If she doesn't want to talk, please wait until she does. When she comes true, arrange for her to take a bath and bring some delicious chocolates. She will find that you have worked hard enough for her. If you can't help her, suggest that she talk to her friends. Take her to a friend and tell her that you will bring her back when you feel better. Give her some sweet words and then kiss her.