Grassroots women

? Living in a small county town in northern Anhui, the women I meet at work are basically women at the grassroots level: left-behind housewives, female village committee members who work hard to deal with the elderly, weak, sick, disabled and pregnant, women in women's federation organizations female cadres, as well as a large proportion of disadvantaged groups struggling with unhappy marriages and domestic violence. They present the most realistic three-dimensional portrait of grassroots women in China...

I read a sentence: " As long as a person, whether male or female, works hard to live according to his own wishes, it is a victory. "I think this sentence should be given to the above-mentioned people.

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Different fates and circumstances have brought them different lives. Now times have changed, and they may still be unable to keep up with the pace of change even though they work hard. This kind of anxiety is related to Entanglement will make the group living at the grassroots feel at a loss and unwilling to accept the status quo. Sometimes I can’t help but wonder whether for most grassroots women who have difficulty changing their situation, if they are more insensitive and have a weaker self-awareness, life will be easier. ? But in fact, many people's mood changes are beyond their control, just like you can't stop the wind from blowing...

With the development of society today, the way out for most traditional women is still to find a husband. Give birth to a child so that you can have enough food and clothing for the rest of your life.

However, some women find that the life they have gained by overdrafting their "fertility value" is becoming blocked as they go. Conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, child rearing, and trivial matters between husband and wife, any one of them will become "stress." The last straw that killed the camel.”

When marriage is no longer a shelter for women’s survival, marriage is like gambling. The bet is on a woman’s vision and the character of the other person. If you make a mistake, you will be left empty-handed after divorce, and you will be separated from society. helpless and unable to earn custody of their children. Therefore, grassroots sisters must clearly realize a grim fact: marriage is no longer the only way out for women! Beauvoir once said, "Women are not born, but become acquired; they become weak because of change, but also become strong because of change." Only when grassroots women continue to create social value and achieve both material and spiritual prosperity can you have more choices and a broader life. May all female compatriots live a comfortable and worry-free life!