Demon messages from men's and women's pickets

What she means is that she has grown up, but you haven't changed-just immature in disguise. Girls are precocious than boys of the same age. She probably knows the pain of being a girlfriend and a mother.

In fact, the main reason why girls can't catch up is the low emotional intelligence. You can't give her a sense of security and satisfy her emotional needs. As a student, you can't show her feathers materially. How can people like you in this situation?

The solution is ... let go of your feelings for a while. You use your vacation to work on the construction site for two days, hand out leaflets on the street on weekends, and find a stall to help you work for two hours after school-it doesn't matter whether you make money or not, just talk about it first. Generally, there will be changes in one month and qualitative changes in two months. You will change your temperament because of your experience beyond your peers, and your personality will be relatively mature.

Then think about her as a whole and evaluate the possibility between you, so that you can make a decision more easily. Whether you chase her or not, it is better than not catching her now. At that time, if you couldn't catch her, you wouldn't go after her. Maturity is reflected in all aspects.

The above is a change in hardware, which means changing your own inner self; Another idea to change the outside world is to learn how people with high emotional intelligence speak. There is a Japanese variety show called Policemen and Policemen, and the host Tamura Chun is a classic object worth learning. Take time to watch that program, especially SP special programs, such as devil's short message, actress staying at home for one night, etc. It will correct your understanding of girls to a certain extent-girls are human beings, and the essence of not being good at interacting with girls is not being good at interacting with people, otherwise, girls are also very easy to deal with.