The correct way for girls not to reply to messages

1. Adjust the way you chat.

When a girl ignores you, you need to reflect on yourself first, review the chat mode between you, and quickly find a suitable one. Chat mode to regain girls’ attention.

When I ask about the background and help others sort out their chatting skills, I often encounter some boys who are prone to chatting to death. One sentence will put the entire chat content into an awkward situation and make girls angry. Then I won't pay attention to boys anymore.

Some straight boys only care about expressing their feelings and going straight to the topic when chatting with girls. Girls don’t even understand what kind of person they are? Some boys even want to "explore" the girls in depth without reporting their family status.

This is considered rude. Of course some girls will be angry and don’t know how to reply to boys? Naturally, there is no follow-up, and the message sent by the boy can only stay alone in the dialog box.

In fact, when chatting with girls, you need to find a suitable topic, set up a suspenseful beginning, arouse girls' curiosity, and sincerely introduce yourself.

During the chat process, boys also need to constantly adjust the chat topics and constantly introduce new ones. They should not talk about a topic repeatedly, let alone talk to themselves, without taking into account the feelings of girls.

If a girl can’t keep up with your rhythm and can’t feel your interaction, she will naturally have no interest in continuing to chat with you.

2. Control the frequency of chatting, not too frequently, so as not to bore girls

What men and women need to pay attention to during chatting is to control the frequency of chatting and master the rhythm. .

Some people will say that chatting is casual, why should we control the pace? Do you want the other person to like you and attract her?

Chatting with girls requires skills. It is not just a conversation, but talking about some innocuous topics. It requires in-depth understanding and progress step by step.

When you initiate a chat, you need to know what content you want to get from her and what you want to get from the chat.

Control the direction of the topic and don’t let it deviate too much.

When you bring up the topic, you have to ask a question or an opinion, control the pace, let the girl interact with you, and gradually discuss it in depth with her, so that you can gain something from this chat. More information about her.

It’s not that you talk too much, don’t care about the girl’s feelings, send her messages frequently, and don’t pay attention to the time, the girl will definitely not want to talk to you.

If you want a girl to talk to you during a chat, you must use your brain to chat instead of being absent-minded and chatting every sentence. In the end, I found that apart from some emoticons, the chat was just the word "hum ha", and there was no gain at all.

3. You need to put yourself in someone else's shoes and don't touch the negative side

When some boys are chatting with the girl they like, they always feel that the girl is cold and indifferent to them. I am already very cautious! But I still can't figure out the girl's heart. I don't know what the girl thinks?

If you use the word "a woman's heart is like a needle in the sea" incorrectly, you may get "cold violence" from her, and she will not want to talk to you for several hours or a day.

When girls chat with boys, sometimes it all depends on their emotions.

If you are in a sunny mood in the morning and you greet her in a timely manner, she may respond to your message seriously.

If she is in a bad mood, for example, she wanted to sleep in on a weekend morning but was disturbed by your text message or video, then she will only respond and ignore you.

Therefore, if you want to prevent a girl from being angry, you must find out some of her life patterns, find out her emotional ups and downs, know how to put herself in someone else's shoes, and don't touch her negative side.

In short, there are many reasons why girls don’t want to talk to you. If a girl doesn’t like someone, it can be seen in some small details.

You can also judge the reason why she doesn't want to talk to you by observing her status. Chatting with her will quickly arouse her interest.

4. Learn to let go and not pester

Some girls will naturally not pretend to be enthusiastic when chatting with boys they don’t like.

If you meet this type of girl, no matter how hard the boy tries, he will not attract the girl's attention, but will make the girl extremely disgusted and disgusted.

What boys should do at this time is to learn to let go, not to pester, not to please the other person deliberately, and not to stick their hot face to the other person's "cold butt".

Avoid emotional injury and save time to pursue the girl who suits you.