What are the reasons why girls don't reply to boys in a relationship?

It is estimated that many boys have encountered this phenomenon when chasing girls, that is, when chatting with girls by text messages, chatting with each other? Signal? Disappear, play? Missing? There is no reply, which makes many boys fall into a fog. I don't know why, so what are the reasons why girls don't reply to the news? In fact, the reason why girls don't return messages is very simple, and there are often these kinds.

first, for some reason

it is undeniable that everyone has a lot of things to do every day, and they will encounter many unpredictable things, that is, they may be busy every day and have all kinds of things to face and deal with. This is normal. Very few people can lie on their mobile phones and computers at any time all day, and they are bored with leisure and just concentrate on chatting. This possibility is very small, even if it has the probability and possibility.

And those boys who want to pursue girls, when they choose to chat with girls, they deliberately choose to chat with girls when they are particularly free and have plenty of time. They are carefully arranged and prepared, and they are completely prepared. As the other party, they are not necessarily as carefree as you, can synchronize with you, and can always chat with you. At this time, they may just take time to chat with you for a while, because they are busy.

Besides, what is the time when you chat with girls? Ready? The initiative under the premise, but for the other party, all this happened unknowable and unprepared, completely in? Unprepared It is not possible to give you an instant reply at any time, and it is normal that you may be chatting, have something to deal with and solve, have something to do temporarily, and often it is not up to people, so you need to interrupt your chat immediately.

Secondly, because you are attracted to girls, you often chat with them according to your own feelings. You imagine that the other person has a similar mentality to yours. Maybe you don't fully understand the girl's situation. Maybe your self-righteous way of chatting doesn't like or accept her, or you make an unintentional mistake by involving topics and questions that the girl doesn't want to mention, and the girl doesn't want to chat with you and continue to reply.

second, boring

as the saying goes? There are three things to say, and it is better to say it skillfully? It shows that language communication is a university question, which reflects a person's wisdom and level. In life, we call those who are good at communicating with others and have strong language expression skills? Can talk? Now there is also a popular online language that everyone is very familiar with called? Can you chat? It shows that chatting is very important, and chatting with girls is not only that, but it is also very important. If you want to have a continuous topic with a girl, but also to make her have interest and desire to chat with you, you must find a chat topic that the other person likes and is keen on, talk about something that she likes, arouse the other person's * * *, and make her interested and in chatting with you.

In addition, everyone likes humorous and funny chatting, which makes people feel that chatting is a very relaxed, pleasant and happy thing, and it is a very comfortable and enjoyable experience and enjoyment. And some boys don't pay attention to and care about this aspect at all when chatting with girls, or they don't have the advantages in this aspect, and there are problems in the way of chatting. For example, instead of chatting with questions and answers, it is disgusting to ask questions and answers continuously, or is it? Carrying bamboo poles into hutong, straight? , the expression of direct blunt, no fun.

Some boys feel good about themselves without finding a topic that arouses girls' * * *, and they are endless, boring and boring, and some even don't talk for a long time. As a result, they use a lot? Termination? Topic mode, so that the other party can't find the following or respond, and some also know the importance of humor, but they don't have this aspect? Cells? In order to create an atmosphere, pretend to be humorous and make girls think you are? Funny? 、? Clowns? , and then disgust, self-defeating, and so on.

Although there are different performances and forms, no matter which way or why, in short, girls feel that chatting with you is boring and boring, which is a complete waste of time and meaningless, even a kind of pain and torture. It goes without saying that she will continue to chat with you? She learned your clumsy and ridiculous chat mode, and will she reply to your message again?

third, no feeling

as the saying goes? There are a thousand cups of wine for every bosom friend, and more than half a sentence for lovers. That is, people don't want to have too much contact and communication with people who don't hit it off with each other and have different interests. In life, everyone will find that the more important you are, the more concerned you are and the better your relationship is, the more you like to communicate. Otherwise, why not? Talk about everything? Friend's words, and? We can say whatever we want. These are smooth and casual. When you talk to a girl for a while, the girl suddenly stops talking to you, or doesn't reply to your message, or even doesn't reply at all. Maybe she knows you, is familiar with your situation, and has no special feelings for you.

either through chatting with you, I find that I don't have much interest in you, and there is no need to continue chatting, or I'm not too cold about you, knowing that your interests are different, you don't meet your expectations and requirements at all, and generally speaking, you are not hers at all? Food? After a long chat, I know that there is no result in this way, and there is no value and significance in continuing to chat, and I don't want to leave you with too many fantasies and unnecessary expectations.

There is no need for you to continue in vain, and I don't want to have too much contact and involvement with you, leaving you with an imaginary space and room. I feel that chatting with you is useless, and I don't want to continue chatting, wasting energy and time in vain, but in order not to hurt your self-esteem and refute your face, I simply stop here, let you understand and understand it, and let you stop here.

Even if I feel disgusted and disgusted with you in my heart, I don't want to talk to you any more, so I can get rid of you and make a quick decision. Obviously? I don't want to talk to you? 、? Nothing to say to you? And? Don't want to talk to you? Wait, tell you clearly that I don't want to and don't have to give it to you? Tell me? At this time, you should be sensible, don't foolishly think and guess, and quickly know how to let go, stop doing hopeless and meaningless things, and find someone who can talk to you again.