"Seven tyrants said" Zhan Qingyun cried and said to Cai Kangyong: I worked hard, struggled and got everything except you.

In issue 15 of the sixth season, Qiba said the topic of the debate was "My other half has found a good job in a big city, should I give up everything and go with him".

Zhan Qingyun said that many articles have written about how she was admitted to Harvard from Guizhou, but there is no focus at all.

The shortcut to her growth is to constantly transfer schools, constantly let go of everything she once had, and let the environment reshape herself.

"Letting go is never the price of growth. Letting go is growth in itself. "

She said that she used to be a typical good child, good at waiting and patient. When I was in junior high school, I fell in love early, because I still wanted to take the Guiyang No.1 Middle School, and my teacher advised me to break up.

In high school, there was a man I liked very much, and I didn't need to persuade him. I know very well in my heart, at least until the college entrance examination. Later, I was admitted to a good university in a different place, and no one wanted to follow anyone. After graduating from college, I worked in a different place and didn't choose to start.

When she was studying in Hong Kong, one of her partners didn't want to go to America with her, so she broke up.

Many times she doesn't feel sorry, and she can survive alone. When studying in the United States is stressful and there is no time to cry; When a person learns to repair toilets and install furniture; I'm afraid of being robbed in the street, but I still have to consider how to ask my boss for leave when I make a statement.

Until one day, after visiting the supermarket, she walked alone in the streets of Boston and saw the fallen leaves all over the sky. She couldn't hold on any longer.

Why, should I leave you at the best age?

What is there in this world that we can't let go of? What road in the world is so difficult to walk?

Should we miss all the youth and autumn?

02

Zhan Qingyun tried not to cry, but the audience was already in tears.

She said it is difficult to let go of everything, but nothing in this world can't be achieved through personal struggle and hard work, except for people, except that person, except you.

It was this speech that moved Cai Kangyong's tears. He took off his glasses and began to wipe his tears.

He said that many people thought Zhan Qingyun's study at Harvard was great, but what was Harvard like later?

But returning to rationality, Zhan Qingyun's Regret and Cai Kangyong's What's Harvard are moving only because when you have everything, you get more than that person.

If her puppy love in junior high school was not admitted to Guiyang No.1 Middle School, or she failed in the college entrance examination and didn't go to Hong Kong, as an ordinary person, she didn't even have a chance to meet that person.

Once they get it, they will live side by side, washing in the daily necessities of life day and night. The fairy has also become the red cabbage moss she bought yesterday, saying that ice cloud will grow fat too.

At the end of A Chinese Odyssey, the Supreme Treasure wears a golden hoop and the sunset warrior kisses the unknown chivalrous woman. Others regard him as a dog.

At the end of Ex 3, Meng Yun stood in the street and shouted "Jia Lin, I love you" for ten thousand times, and was taken away by the police. Jia Lin bought a basket of mangoes and was sent to an ambulance because of allergies.

At the end of Later Us, people who passed the game saw Ian and Kelly together forever, while people who were still in the black and white world saw a full screen of "Sorry".

The Supreme Treasure will become the Monkey King only after leaving Xia Zi; Badon min will grow only if he leaves Jia Lin; Seeing Qing can only succeed if she leaves Xiaoxiao.

We shed tears because of the love story full of regrets, not to find the dead, but to meet ourselves better and cherish everything and people in front of us.

03

/kloc-when I was 0/7 years old, my love for you was nothing more than having someone to accompany you and eating a large cup of Xuezhi in the warmest sunny old alley in the afternoon.

At the age of 20, love is a morning and evening greeting sent by SMS, a missed call in the communication record, and a long kiss standing arm in arm under the street lamp after drunkenness.

At the age of 23, he flew to your city to see you, and you waited for him at the airport to recall all the good things between you.

At the exit, you rushed to each other unscrupulously, and he held you in his arms. You hang around his waist like a koala, and the airport where people come and go is fixed in the daily frolicking of your gentle years.

In a blink of an eye, I am 27 years old, and time is like a sharp knife poking at your mottled memories. You want to piece together good memories, but no matter how hard you try, you can't.

You run on the road of being hurt and being hurt, and then you grow.

When I grow up, the love in my eyes is no longer a cream, a warm heart, a long kiss under a street lamp, and a bear hug at the airport after a long separation.

You prefer it to be just an ordinary companion, better than a lunch that won't go bad for a long time. If you overheat the tea and let it cool, you can eat it. You don't have to wait for anyone and you don't have to worry about losing anyone.

The love that happened in this fast food era can be pulled away quickly without touching the heart wall that took a long time to make up your mind.

But it always gives people the illusion that everyone seems to tell love stories, holding hands and rushing by, and finally disappearing into the sea of people. In the end, time is wasted and love is indifferent.

You think that love can overcome everything, but you find that in the cruel reality, love is the most insignificant. Every feeling that you regret being apart or that you can't get, will become a good medicine to help you grow up.

When you live a wonderful life, your love will come.

04

In "Beijing Love", Zheng Wu said such a passage:

After ten years of marriage, I finally found that in fact, the first half of life is passion, the second half is affection, and all interventions are extramarital affairs.

what is love ? That thing is like a ghost. Everyone has heard of it, but no one has seen it.

Our life is an art full of regrets. The person who once wanted to explore the moon for you for nine days may have slept with someone else, and the person who once wanted to catch a turtle for you may have been caught in bed by someone else.

Some people don't end up together, not because they don't love each other, but because they know each other and torture each other. Finally, one of them was fed up with disappointment and chose to leave.

In the face of love, good times are like twinkling meteors in the night sky, polishing you and me, but fleeting.

The past you recall is nothing more than the cold silence behind the glory, the strength behind the bitterness and the cherish behind the bitterness.

Many stories written by others have happy endings. When they happen to us, there are always two flowers that are far apart.

In other people's stories, there will be a superhero to end everything and save the world, but in our lives, only we can save ourselves.

Love yourself and fulfill yourself is the most confident love.