"Your home is not down? Bridal gift plus 200,000. " The boy's answer made the girl panic. What happened afterwards?

Marriage should be the sublimation of love and the witness of their feelings.

Pure and beautiful love is the yearning for marriage, because it not only means that the two have become a real family, but also witnessed the best moments in each other's lives. Two people who love each other can't wait to get married early, because they are full of love and expectation for each other.

But in this era, love has become the extravagant hope of many people. Some people say that the pace of this era is too fast. It is no longer an era of "only loving one person for life", but an era full of "fast food love". When love no longer exists, then marriage is just a form.

I don't know how many people's marriages are trading, but it is suitable for the balance of resources. Nowadays, the bride price is no longer a pure blessing performance, but more a game between the two families. Therefore, we have seen many greedy scenes.

Marriage should be two families working together to help two lovers maintain a small family. However, many people pay attention to bride price and garage. When the purpose of marriage is not correct, it is equivalent to ruining their happiness.

0 1, acquaintance with Sue.

Zhang Feng is a very strong person. Due to poor family conditions, Zhang Feng studied hard. Through his unremitting efforts, he was admitted to a good university, found a good job, and finally settled down in the city. His parents and family were proud of him.

Zhang Feng was so absorbed in his work that at the age of 26, he didn't have a girlfriend. Parents are very anxious. Seeing that all the boys around them are married and the children haven't met yet, parents set out to arrange a blind date for Zhang Feng.

This woman is a relative's colleague named Su, who is similar in age and beautiful. Both of them felt good after meeting once, so they continued to get along.

After spending some time together, Sue felt that she was a trustworthy person. Zhang Feng has a sense of responsibility and responsibility. He is meticulous in his work and considerate in his life. And not picky that Sue is a good girl, so they started to fall in love.

02. Sue's willfulness after falling in love.

But Sue is a selfish and even materialistic girl. When Sue was a child, her family conditions were very poor, and her parents paid little attention to her, so she felt that she must have money from an early age, and everything else was fake. Maybe Zhang Feng was too kind to her, but she became headstrong.

Sue often "tests" her feelings for herself, but when she is angry, she will say that she feels insecure. Only in this way can she feel at ease.

The most fierce argument they had before was that Su Su said to Zhang Feng, "Today is my best friend's birthday. Let's go out for dinner tonight." When Zhang Feng knew this, he also told Su Ying: "Pay attention to safety and don't drink too much. If it ends late at night, remember to call me and I'll pick you up. "

To outsiders, Zhang's care for Su Can can be said to be meticulous. But I didn't expect that Sue didn't have a girlfriend's birthday. She has just made an appointment with her girlfriend to sing in KTV, and she wants to test whether Zhang Feng loves herself on a whim.

After going to KTV, she turned off her mobile phone. I waited at home until ten o'clock, but Sue didn't come back, so she began to call Sue's best friend.

In this way, those who couldn't contact their girlfriends stayed at home all night, while Sue played all night. The two men quarreled bitterly, but under the mediation of Sue, they gave in.

03. The two broke up because of the garage.

I didn't pay much attention to Sue's little waywardness. Zhang Feng won't be angry unless he is in KTV. He told Sue many times that we are all fine, working with peace of mind and making money. But Su Su said, "Then you must refuel. Friends get married, men have garages, you can't be less! "

Zhang Feng is very helpless about this. He has never been in love, and he doesn't know whether Sue is right or wrong. Simple and honest, he only thinks that it is right to work hard, and he wants the people he loves to live a good life. And the more self-forbearance, Sue even intensified, demanding that the house must be bought within five years, otherwise she would not get married.

They had a quarrel about it, and Sue broke up. Zhang Feng is also tired. I didn't expect so many things in love, so I agreed.

04. I heard that your house was demolished?

Half a year later, Zhang Feng's hometown was demolished, and he got a sum of money and a suite in the city. Zhang Feng made a plan, the money was used to manage money, the house could be lived with parents, and the small house he used to live in could be rented out.

At this time, Su Shi called and asked questions, explaining: "I was too ignorant before, and I have thought a lot in the past six months. It was my fault before. Can we start over? "

Zhang Feng is not a narrow-minded person. He still likes Sue very much, because Sue is an eccentric person who often brings him joy. If only he could not be willful.

After the reunion, I also thought it was time to get married, so I discussed the marriage. This time, Su said that the garage doesn't matter. After marriage, we can work together. The bride price is180,000. Zhang Feng has been in the city for many years, knowing that the bride price here is relatively expensive,180,000, which is much better than the conditions of a house in the previous five years, so he agreed.

Time goes by little by little. A week before the wedding, Sue suddenly called and asked, "I heard that your house was demolished? In that case, I think you should also pay more bride price. What do you think of changing the bride price to 380,000? "

Zhang Feng was angry at this sudden request. I didn't expect Sue to remember this house for a long time. It's really that "dogs can't change their habits". Zhang Feng stubbornly said, "In this case, you can't get married, and you know I'm rich. Since my family has money, why do I have to ask you? " Say that finish, zhang hung up the phone.

Hearing this, Sue suddenly panicked. She sent a text message in a hurry, saying that she was impulsive, not greedy for money or anything, but just wanted to see if Zhang Feng was willing to pay for it herself. Zhang Feng asked, "Did you get any results?" Sue was speechless for a moment and had to keep silent. This time, Zhang Feng couldn't bear it, and finally broke up, because he felt that they were really inappropriate.

Love should be pure, not playing tricks to test each other or coveting each other's money.

Sue may be true love, but her willfulness and unreasonable demands ruined her happiness.

We can have our own ideas, or we can use tricks to win the happiness after marriage, but there is no room for calculation in love. Happiness after marriage requires two people to be honest with each other. If one side makes small calculations, the relationship is doomed to be short-lived.