Useful tips for interpersonal communication

Useful interpersonal tips

1. If you want to really make others think you are generous and willing to make friends with you, it is not just to treat them to a 500 daily meal as soon as you meet them. In daily life, you treat him to ordinary meals for 10 times for 50 yuan. The enthusiasm when you first meet can easily make people think that you have a purpose. If you don't pay attention, he will think that you have changed. On the contrary, you treat him normally at first, and then There is no reduction, and he will feel that you are particularly sincere and treat him as a true friend.

2. When you bring a good friend to meet others, you can introduce that this is your good friend, but don’t say that he is your best friend. When others hear this, they will feel that you You don't care about him at all. If you don't intend to have a good relationship with him at all, then just say whatever you want.

3. When you bring something to someone else, such as water, breakfast, milk tea and other small-priced items, and someone transfers money to you, state the price generously and accept it. Don’t think it’s a few dollars. After you accept it, others will think you are careless. Believe me, he will feel uncomfortable if you don't accept it. No one is short of those few dollars, and no one is willing to owe you a favor just because of a few dollars.

4. When you ask someone a question and he only tells part of the question, you can look at him and remain silent. Usually, he will continue to finish the other part because he cannot bear the pressure.

5. What people can remember is often not the content of the chat, but the feeling brought about by the process of getting along. Now, do you think back to the details of the chat with your friend or lover when you first met? Do you still remember him? What specifically did he say? Few people remember it, but they remember very clearly how he made you feel at the time. Therefore, when getting along with others, don't pay too much attention to what you should say. Pay attention to what you should do and how to behave to make others feel comfortable and think you are good.

6. It is better not to send blessings than to send blessings in groups. During the New Year and holidays, if you don’t send them, others will not remember them. But if you send them in groups, you are reminding others in disguise that you do not take them seriously. . Even if you send "Happy Holidays XXX", it is better than sending it in bulk. If you want the effect to be more obvious, you can send a small red envelope after the blessing. It doesn't need to be too much, just mean it. Generally, if you send a red envelope, many people will not accept it. After someone takes it, they will exchange it for a bigger one. No matter what, you make the profit.

7. Does a truly powerful person get too involved in a chaotic circle?

If you have money, you will naturally have strength. If you don’t have money, you won’t be strong-willed in anything. At any time, you cannot just pursue stability without looking for new opportunities. Even if you have a stable job now, you must have your own Plan B. When I was in college, I earned hundreds of thousands by doing side jobs. Although I already have my own job, I still explore various ways to make money through side jobs after work. These scattered things can bring me a lot of income every month.

8. When others give vague answers to your questions or ask rhetorical questions, it means that others do not want to answer your questions, so you should not continue to ask. You ask your deskmate about your test scores. Considering that you did not do well in the test, your deskmate just says: "It's okay." At this time, if you ask again: "How much is it okay?", you will end up in embarrassment. It's you. You ask your friend if you like the boy in the next class, and your friend asks back: "Really?". At this time, if you ask again: "Why are you asking me, please answer me quickly." In the end, your friend will definitely not deal with you out of embarrassment. , I don’t even want to go alone with you next time.

9. If you want others to help you, you must let others know that you are prepared and understand the problem. You can first say that you have read xx information when asking questions, but there is still xx I don’t know much about the place. Doing this will make the person helping you feel like they're helping the wrong person. The more progressive you are, the more patient and careful the people who help you will be.

10. When you are thinking "Should I say this sentence?", close your mouth tightly. Ninety percent of you will regret it if you say this sentence.

11. Don’t break other people’s happiness, let alone slander other people’s hobbies. Someone tells you that his dad bought him his favorite hamburger. You ask what’s so special about hamburgers, and your dad takes you to eat KFC every day.

Someone tells you that they like a certain celebrity the most, but you think that’s it? You have such a bad taste, what’s the point of liking this? You’re not being outspoken, you deserve to have no friends.

12. Don’t judge others by your first impression. A person who wears leather shoes and a tie may often abuse his wife at home. A person who wears a vest and bare arms may always be filial to his parents, but his appearance is just Appearance, what you see is not the real him.

13. The way to make someone hate you quickly is to cling to him crazily, call him, or text him without giving him any space.

14. Don’t just find someone to complain about when something is too big. Not many people will really care. They will just find you annoying and full of negative energy.