How to ask out a girl you just met?

Boys all have this trouble. They want to ask a girl out to play, but they don’t know how to ask. They are afraid of saying the wrong thing and being rejected. Today, the editor will tell you how to ask a girl out to talk. Learning these tricks will make you a master in no time.

1. Preparation before dating

1. Notify the girl in advance

The most important thing about asking a girl out to talk is to notify the other party in advance. Making an appointment in advance is a sign of respect for the girl and shows that you value this date. The content of the notice should tell the other party the location and time. The more detailed it is, the better. Making an appointment first can also give the girl enough time to prepare, so the success rate of the date will be higher.

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2. Telephone invitation

If a boy is shy, he can also ask a girl out through a telephone invitation. On the other end of the phone, your voice may be calmer, less nervous, and more confident. If you really don’t know what to say, write down what you want to say in advance and then invite them over the phone.

3. Determine the time for the girl to reply

When asking a girl out to talk, you must remember to determine the time for the girl to reply. When you ask a girl for a date, she may not agree to you immediately, so you can make an appointment with her to give you a time to reply.

4. Make a plan for a date

To ask a girl out to talk, you must make a plan for the date. It would be particularly embarrassing if you didn't make a plan and you couldn't answer when someone asked you where you were going and what to do. It is best to prepare two plans and let girls choose. This is the best. Planning in advance can also control the date within your financial range, so you will be happy on the date.

2. Things to note on formal dates

1. Avoid topics that she is not interested in

Talk skills when asking a girl out. When you talk, you should look like you Very interesting and avoids talking about topics that don't interest her. Prepare some topics in advance to make her feel that you are a humorous boy.

2. Avoid showing off your wealth

When asking a girl out to talk, avoid showing off your wealth. Most girls worship money and like capable and handsome men. But you can't speak too directly in front of her. You can tell her through some side words that you are a capable and motivated boy. If you act more confident, some girls will like you more.

3. Avoid only saying nice things. Many men keep saying nice things when asking a girl out. This is wrong. It's okay to compliment her, but don't overdo it. A girl may be more delicate and cute, but you say her beauty is too exaggerated. Girls are not very good at doing this, and you say she does a great job. It would be too deliberate and hypocritical to just say nice things.

4. Respect privacy and ask a girl out to talk. Remember to ask her about her privacy. Especially when you meet for the first time, don't ask about a girl's privacy like checking her household registration. This is very impolite. Of course, you can't ask how many boyfriends the girl has had. Don't mention topics like the girl's income. You can start with Start with the hobbies of both parties.

(1) The purpose of the date is clear.

People are afraid of meeting each other, and trees are afraid of peeling off their bark.

Many times girls are very cold and pushy on the phone, but if you trick her out through hard work, she will have a great time.

The purpose of the invitation is to meet. As long as we can meet, we can say anything. All the girl's requests can be compromised. For example, the girl said: "I can't come back too late." "I don't like singing." "I'm not feeling well and can't climb mountains." How to respond to these excuses, what follows ( 7) It is specifically described in it.

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(2) Overcome the fear of dating.

Looking at the 8-cent number on the phone, she is so beautiful and rich. Can I catch her? Should I call her?

The otaku seems to be thinking There is an inexhaustible supply of fear. I'm afraid of striking up conversations, and I'm also afraid of asking girls out on dates. You can read how to overcome the fear before striking up a conversation

I remember how I asked the girl I liked out. I picked up the phone and put it down again. I kept thinking about whether the time was right and what I should say. I asked her out. Is her place suitable? Will she come out? What should we do when we meet...

The first question is, now that we have a phone number, do we want to contact her? The answer is always "Yes!" At most, the other party didn't answer the phone and didn't reply to the text messages. The loss was only a small amount of phone charges.

When should we contact you? The earlier the better! Especially in big cities. In a small town, it's possible that if you contact her again after a month, the girl will still remember the scene of you chatting up that day; but in a big city, the girl won't remember who you are the next day. My habit is to text or call a girl on the spot when we strike up a conversation, usually "I am the cheeky Ayue just now, your eyes can really speak. Let's go out for a cold drink some other time."

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(3) Keep the words short.

Invitation is not chatting. The trick to chatting with women is not to ramble on without beginning or end. Express invitations simply and clearly, but there is a special situation where invitations can be used as a means of maintaining daily contact. Invitations are the topic of communication. For example, if you invite her out to play or have dinner every now and then, even if the other party refuses, you can still use this method to harass her by calling her; every time the other party refuses, a rejection debt will form, and eventually you will make an appointment.

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(4) Lower your expectations.

As soon as you come up, you say, "Let's go get a room!" No girl can agree. You say: "Let's go shopping and have something to eat!" Many girls won't refuse.

Don’t make too many requests that are too far away at the beginning. Use the camel-in-the-tent strategy to make requests to the girl bit by bit. Although at first we just wanted to go out to have a meal and chat, once we had fun chatting, of course we could go to the park for a walk.

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(5) Stimulate interest.

Curiosity killed the cat! Girls are naturally curious.

If you invite a girl to dinner, there are two ways,

The first way is to tell her that there is a restaurant with a Western-style decoration, steak pies, and a very romantic atmosphere;

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The second way is to just tell her that there is a restaurant with a very romantic atmosphere. If she asks you what it looks like, you will know once you go there. It will definitely not disappoint you.

Obviously the second way can stimulate imagination and is more attractive!

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(6)Stick to the end.

Stick to the end, in other words, have a strong desire to meet.

If a girl refuses, insist on it at least three times!

I dated a girl for a month, text messages, phone calls, and invitations many times, and finally we came out.

At the end of this article, I will attach a post found on the Internet, which is the voice of a girl. Everyone should be inspired after reading it.

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(7) Pay attention to the tone of voice.

In fact, this point is more important than all the dating topics and dating skills mentioned above. To a large extent, girls come out to meet you not because of what you say, but because they are attracted by your magnetic voice. Infected by your enthusiasm, conquered by your strength and confidence.

If you can’t do it, just practice in front of the mirror, look at your expression, smile, record your voice, and listen to it yourself.

I experienced this very deeply during a date. I said in a casual and somewhat anxious tone: "Are you free tonight? I have something to talk to you about. Let's meet at the entrance of Jinguanghua Plaza!" It came out before I had time to think about it.

But as the old saying goes, it doesn’t matter what you say, what matters is how you say it!

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(8) Handle objections skillfully.

Here is a dating skill called "bite the end of the conversation." This technique is very useful. Once you learn it, you can also use it when shopping for bargains.

No matter how much the girl objects, you should do Tai Chi Push Hands based on what she said, counterattack with your strength, and use your strength to fight back. The specific steps are to show understanding and ask again.

For example,

You: "Let's go out to play in the evening!"

Girl: "I have to work overtime at night."

You: "It's so hard, your boss is so inhumane, I want to go to the Industrial and Commercial Bureau to report him! (To express understanding, stand in the same position - relieve stress)

Working overtime all day long, life can't be In this case, you have to give yourself a holiday (her excuse becomes your reason for inviting someone to her)

I know a place for late-night snacks that is cheap and delicious! What time do you get off work? ”(re-request – counterattack)