What are the hidden pains and tears behind Gan Ping's "forced marriage door"?

Gan Ping is a well-known singer in the 199s. She sang many familiar songs, such as Wet Heart, People Who Love You, Kissing the Mermaid, Big Brother, How are you? In 24, Gan Ping disappeared from public view after he married Li Bing, a famous football player. Now that more than 1 years have passed, what is the living condition of Gan Ping?

gan ping was born in xiangyin county, Hunan province in 197. After graduating from the provincial art school, he was assigned to Hunan Huagu Opera Theatre. In 1994, Gan Ping won the third prize of the National Young Singers TV Grand Prix, and later joined the Beijing Haizheng Song and Dance Troupe.

gan ping and Li bing met in 1996, when they were invited by an advertising company to shoot cola advertisements. Because she wanted to shoot the same scene, Gan Ping's height was too different from that of Li Bing, so the director found her two wooden boxes.

After the advertisement, Gan Ping learned that the tall and dark man who partnered with him was Li Bing, the first football player in China. However, since then, there has been no contact between them, and no contact information has been left.

in p>1997, gan ping flew to Chengdu. As soon as she sat down on the plane, she felt that the man around her seemed familiar. It suddenly occurred to her that this tall man had taken an advertisement with her. She smiled and said to Bing, "What a coincidence! When I met you, did you also go to Chengdu for business? " Seeing that it was Gan Ping, Li Bing quickly said, "I'm not doing anything, I'm going home."

Li Bing told Gan Ping that he lived in Chengdu, and his wife used to be a stewardess, and now she works in Chengdu. He also said that he had heard Gan Ping sing "Big Brother, How are you?" very early, and he was deeply impressed. Gan Ping told Li Bing that she went to Chengdu this time to visit a little girl named Xiao Jing. A few years ago, she adopted a child, whose family suffered misfortune, his mother was terminally ill and his father lost his labor force. In addition to supporting the family, she takes time out to visit Xiaojing every month and take care of her for a few days. Li Bing was moved by Gan Ping's love.

After that, the two met many times in the star football team and became familiar with each other. In 21, Li Bing invited Gan Ping to the dance, and Gan Ping went with another girlfriend. After watching the ball, Li Bing invited them to dinner. Gan Ping's girlfriend has something to leave early. Gan Ping doesn't want to be alone with a man. After all, he is a public figure, afraid of misunderstanding. When she took her girlfriend's hand and said goodbye, Li Bing said, "Gan Ping, why do you look down on people so much? Invite you to dinner and refuse. " Girlfriend said, Gan Ping, just stay. If you are afraid of being recognized, find a remote place to eat. Later, Gan Ping proposed to eat in Xizhimen small restaurant, and Bing agreed.

after they sat down in the corner of the hotel, Gan Ping ordered some light dishes and Li Bing ordered two bottles of beer. After drinking two bottles of beer, Li Bing's words increased. Gan Ping asked Li Bing with concern, have you recently returned to your hometown in Chengdu? Bing shook his head. Gan Ping said that you should always go back to see your wife. Li Bing suddenly jumped out: "I am divorced." Gan Ping was startled and smiled: "You're kidding!"

Li Bing said, "I'm really divorced. I hate to tell you, but you are my good friend. It doesn't hurt to tell you. " She asked inexplicably, "You seem to have been married for several years. Why did you leave?" Where are the children? Li Bing said: "Our life is floating, and some contradictions, such as the separation between the two places, eventually led to the breakup. The child was awarded to her mother and the house in Chengdu was given to her. " Gan Ping comforted Li Bing: You will definitely find another like-minded wife. Wish you all the best.

One weekend, Li Bing invited Gan Ping to play golf. Gan Ping asked, "Who else will attend?" Li Bing said: "There is no one else in the suburbs, only you and me." Gan Ping refused: "It's not that I don't want to go, but that I will play with you alone, which will attract a lot of suspicion and be bad for you and me." Li Bing quickly said, "Sorry, I didn't consider this."

In p>22, Li Bing left the national team. When he left Beijing, he said goodbye to some old friends. At the farewell party, he said to Gan Ping, "Sister Little Mermaid, don't forget to see your old brother when you go to Chengdu."

Soon, Gan Ping went to Chengdu to visit Xiao Jing, the "adopted daughter". After arriving in Chengdu, she called Li Bing, an old friend who came to see her. In the afternoon, Gan Ping went to visit Xiaojing with a big bag of newly bought clothes and school supplies, and Bing took the initiative to accompany Gan Ping. In Xiaojing's home, Gan Ping takes care of the children like a mother and the housework like a master. Bing looked very moved at one side. When he left, he told Gan Ping that you must be a good wife and mother in the future. Gan Ping's face was full of praise.

Shortly after Gan Ping returned to Beijing, Li Bing called her and expressed her kindness to Gan Ping. Gan Ping said with a smile, don't be ridiculous. We can only be good friends, not lovers.

In September p>22, Li Bing went to Beijing to do business and run sporting goods with friends. After he settled in Beijing, he called Gan Ping and she invited Li Bing to dinner. During the dinner, Li Bing expressed his affection for Gan Ping. Gan Ping said, we are together, can you stop talking about this?

In fact, Li Bing has long fallen in love with Gan Ping, her talent, her kindness and her gentleness. Gan Ping's refusal not only didn't scare him, but inspired his man's persistence and courage. In the pursuit of Li Bing, Gan Ping accepted his feelings.

they keep a low profile to avoid being followed by the media. Even in public, they kept their distance, so their relationship was never seen through by the media.

Famous singer Gan Ping: Restoring the truth of the "forced marriage" incident

Gan Ping is a good helper in Li Bing's business. He won the agency right of a Singaporean brand in China for Li Bing, and let Li Bing formally set up a company in Beijing. Gan Ping's investment in Li Bing's commercial activities met with many questions. In 24, they went to Guangzhou for a business activity. In the euphemism of some friends, Gan Ping admitted his love affair with Li Bing.

Soon, all the media in Guangzhou, large and small, used the headline "Gan Ping generously admitted his love affair with Li Bing", greatly exaggerating their feelings. Gan Ping doesn't care about media reports. Later, after the national media and some websites reported in succession, the taste of the whole incident changed. Some people confuse Li Bing's divorce with today's "love of Li Gan" to show their doubts. As a result, some media insisted that Li Bing's divorce from his ex-wife was related to Gan Ping, who must have a third party involved. Then, fans of Gan Ping also called and accused Gan Ping of being immoral and likable.

Gossip is so overwhelming that Gan Ping doesn't know how to face it at the moment. She just kept explaining to reporters on the phone: "I fell in love with Li Bing two years after his divorce. How could it be a third party?" But the worse it gets. Gan Ping is very painful and his life is greatly affected. Even if he sings on the stage, he can't sing.

However, the media did not give up the theme of "Li Gan is in love". Whenever Gan Ping makes public appearances, people ask about her and Bing. Later, Gan Ping dared not go out at all. In particular, the accusations of fans made Gan Ping's audience lose, and she couldn't bear the external pressure. After a period of consideration, Gan Ping decided to end this relationship and return her innocence.

gan ping and Li bing broke up. Although Li Bing is very painful, considering that Gan Ping has always enjoyed a good reputation in the entertainment circle, Li Bing now decides to respect Gan Ping's opinion because he has made her so notorious. That's how the relationship ended.

After breaking up, Gan Ping didn't want to take part in the performance, so she stayed at home and suffered from gossip every day. Li Bing can't bear to work. He makes people drink every day and is too lazy to do business. In order to get rid of this string of love, Gan Ping went out to travel. During her travels, she often receives messages of blessing from Li Bing, but she always deletes them quickly.

One day, Li Bing came to Gan Ping's residence and Gan Ping opened the door. Bing looked at Gan Ping affectionately and said nothing. Suddenly, he held Gan Ping in his arms and said, "Let's stop torturing each other. No matter how much pressure there is from the outside world, as long as we love each other, why should we care what others say? "

Li Bing's persistence and strength infected Gan Ping, who snuggled up to Li Bing's chest. She suddenly felt that with this chest as a backer, she couldn't bear any wind and rain. Li Bing said, "Let's get married." . It takes courage to get married at the forefront, but Li Bing's love is strength, and Gan Ping agreed.

In February p>24, Gan Ping married Li Bing. In order not to attract the attention of the outside world and the media, they did not invite friends, but only invited their families to get together and have a meal. The media soon caught the fact that Li Bing and Gan Ping got married. Therefore, a Nanjing media reported their love affair with the title "Li Bing divorced because of Gan Ping's intervention". The article also said that all the facts were told by a close friend of Li Bing in Chengdu: As early as 1994, when Gan Ping and Li Bing were advertising in Beijing, Li Bing was an assistant coach of the national team and enjoyed the treatment of one person and one room. The two met secretly. Later, Gan Ping asked Li Bing for a divorce and married her, but Li Bing never promised to marry Gan Ping.

Facing the distorted facts of the media, Li Bingbing smiled: "I have never been an assistant coach of the national team, and no one has lived in a house. It' s simply nonsense. " . Gan Ping and Li Bing can't stand this malicious hype, and want to take legal weapons to protect their rights and interests and get justice for themselves. They also invited lawyers and consulted on relevant legal issues. Later, friends reminded them: when you go to court, you are the target of state media hype. The two had no choice but to give up.

Gan Ping and Li Bing decided to use silence to deal with the hype. Li Bing decided to study in the UK for one year, away from the wrong places. Li Bing went to England and Gan Ping lived in seclusion. The hype finally subsided. At the end of 24, their daughter Li Zixuan was born. After becoming a mother, Gan Ping put family and daughter first and devoted herself to being a good wife and mother.

When her daughter grew up, Gan Ping was freed from the heavy housework. In addition to singing, volunteering and engaging in charity activities, she often "gets an electric shock" and participates in film and television dramas such as "Tongbai Hero" and "Heart is Heaven". Li Bing has been coaching in the club, successfully bringing Sichuan Anna Poorna team into the National Football League, and winning 15 consecutive games.

Over the years, Gan Ping fell silent. But she doesn't feel lost. She has a family, husband and daughter. She feels that her life is complete and happy.

In February, 22, Gan Ping and Li Bing were married for 16 years, and both reached middle age. When they come from the storm, they know how to cherish and help each other and live an ordinary and happy life.