What will happen if a boy is jealous?

Jealousy is not just for women. As long as they care about each other, like each other, and love each other enough, most boys will show jealousy. However, although some boys are extremely jealous inside and are full of jealousy, they still have to pretend to be smart and rational on the surface, and even show a nonchalant look in front of girls. , in order to maintain the face of a grown man, he doesn’t want a girl to laugh at him when she finds out, and he doesn’t want to let himself be jealous inadvertently. Usually, boys' jealousy will manifest in the following aspects:

1. Showing a strong desire to possess. If you talk to your boyfriend about another man who is better than him, usually the man's performance will vary depending on the person. On the other hand, most men will warn their girlfriends: "Don't talk to him." And he will interfere more and more strongly with you, whether it is work or your daily contact with a specific man. If you say that he is jealous, he will immediately put on a bad face and stop talking to you.

Comments: Jealousy is mostly caused by a lack of security and self-confidence, especially when there is a more powerful competitor in front of him. Out of self-protection, he thinks the simplest The method is to separate competitors from the women they like. Therefore, men who are usually gentle and gentle sometimes behave rudely and unreasonably.

2. They often pretend that the problem is none of their business. Sometimes, girls will try every means to test whether boys like them, so they deliberately praise other boys in front of boys. Usually boys will use words that are clear to bystanders. He uses his attitude to warn you: "He has bad intentions and evil intentions", and tells his shortcomings and privacy in a casual manner. Perhaps, you can't see any jealousy at all from his facial expression, and all you can see is just a look of indifference.

Comments: Sometimes men just want to save face and suffer. Often they are so jealous that they want to kill the other man, but they have to pretend to be indifferent in front of women. In fact, to see if a man is jealous, a woman only needs to see if his relaxed expression is fake. After all, the average boy does not have the acting talent of an excellent actor.

Comments: The vast majority of men will refuse to admit their jealous behavior because of their own face. Even if they are very jealous, they still have to pretend not to care on the surface, or even disagree with you. Talk again and show special indifference. In fact, this just reveals that you already exist in his heart, but he doesn't want you to see into his psychology yet.

4. Deliberately talk and laugh in front of you. Some men will force a smile, deliberately pretend to be relaxed in front of the woman they love, and will also be particularly chatty and cheerful in front of you. However, when talking, Among the topics, he will try his best to avoid people and things that can easily irritate him, or sensitive topics that can make him jealous. However, no matter how much he disguises it, his deliberate efforts cannot be perfect, so, Traces of jealousy will show up inadvertently.

Comments: Talking and laughing when you are jealous is obviously forced to smile. This is also one of the methods that most men who think they are very smart often use to cover up their inner uneasiness. They use talking and laughing Use this method to force yourself to forget your inner unhappiness, and also hope to achieve the purpose of diverting the other person's attention.

5. Some men who speak harshly and without mercy will usually feel very uncomfortable and subconsciously react when they see the girl they like or their lover acting very close to other men. People will have strong exclusive emotions and a strong desire to possess. Most of them will exude bursts of jealousy through different language expressions than usual. It is common to speak particularly harshly and show off their sarcasm and ridicule. The richness of the word language.

Comment: A wise man will find ways to cover up his gaffe after being jealous, or take other methods to understand a woman's heart more thoroughly and understand her loyalty to love.

However, it is really difficult to control your emotions when you are jealous. Saying some excessive words or making the other person feel uncomfortable is actually telling the other person your strong dissatisfaction.

6. Consciously avoid meeting you face to face. The more deeply you fall in love, the more jealous you will naturally be. The less confident a man is, the more he will have a strong desire to control his girlfriend. However, once If you feel that your girlfriend is no longer under your control, you will play a hide-and-seek game with her. She will try not to meet you and try to avoid being alone with you. In the words of a jealous man, this can avoid embarrassment. , and may even change jobs.

Comment: In real life, a man who is usually introverted and jealous will care a lot about your attitude towards him. He will try every means to imprison a woman’s heart and treat her as his private property. Therefore, once a man speaks sharply and harshly, it is usually a manifestation of jealousy. Crimes caused by jealousy or passion often come from this.

7. In the event of extreme physical conflict, there is a clear difference between men’s jealousy and women’s jealousy. Men’s jealous reaction is usually stronger than that of women, and they are more likely to go to extremes. If there is any suspicion, they will Fighting makes them more likely to engage in aggressive behavior, especially those who show strong retaliatory behavior towards other men who are too close to their sexual partners, and often even engage in irrational physical attacks.

Comment: The strong externalization of men's "jealousy" mentality is mostly caused by bad sexual passion. They often lose their minds and complicate matters that can be properly handled. The psychological root of men's "jealousy" is mainly their strong possessiveness (i.e., desire for exclusivity) and desire to control the other person.

“Jealousy” is originally a manifestation of selfishness. Since ancient times, women have been jealous, and men have also been jealous. Therefore, don’t think that men are all open-minded and have rough feelings. In fact, , Today’s men have already learned to be jealous, but they generally save face and cannot show jealousy easily. However, through careful observation, you can find clues. For example, he says some angry words from time to time, or suddenly ignores you, or pretends to be indifferent, but his acting skills are usually very bad, which makes discerning people You can tell at a glance.