What if my mother-in-law always withdraws the news?

Love and marriage are really irreconcilable, and I am one of the victims. But it's no wonder that others, who let me choose to compromise at a critical moment?

A year ago, my mother asked an acquaintance to introduce me to an object, and later it was my husband Xue Zifeng. To tell the truth, when we first met, I had no feelings for him. He took a fancy to me and has been chasing me ever since. My mother suggested that you are a 30-year-old old girl, and when you finally meet a young man who loves you, you should stop being picky. In my mother's opinion, marriage can be settled. She also took herself as an example, saying that she and her father had been quarreling all their lives, but they still had a good life.

After a long struggle, I finally made the final choice: convince myself to accept Xue Zifeng.

We got a marriage certificate after getting along for more than half a year, and we are going to hold a wedding under the arrangement of our parents. When I put on a white wedding dress and looked at myself in the mirror, I had an illusion of a dream. At that moment, I seemed to have a thrilling sense of happiness. Maybe that's life. I thought I married someone I didn't love, but I was suddenly moved by it at some point. I don't know if I think this is a false anesthesia, so that I can integrate into the upcoming marriage life.

However, through several contacts with Xue Zifeng's mother before marriage, I think she is a relatively strong old lady. Xue Zifeng is obedient to her and looks very filial. I secretly thought about it and was worried. I heard from my best friend that such a baby boy usually has no backbone and lacks interest in his future life. My mother laughed at my ignorance and boasted that such a son-in-law knew how to take care of his wife.

I remember the day when I accompanied Xue Zifeng to get the marriage certificate. I specially dressed up beautifully, so I should always treat such a special moment with great attention. When the staff handed us the marriage certificate and sent us the wedding wishes, Xue Zifeng gave me a smile. Sincere and happy expression is unforgettable. That night, Xue Zifeng took me to a fancy restaurant for dinner. He said, "it is my greatest happiness to marry a virtuous wife like you."

I don't know why, after listening to his words, I feel guilty. I feel very sorry for the man in front of me. So, I forced myself to comfort myself: treat my husband well, and I will definitely fall in love with him after a long time.

During the period after marriage, Xue Zifeng was very considerate to me, and I was not allowed to do housework at home. He took the initiative to do all the housework, saying that his wife was in charge of beauty and his husband was in charge of enjoying flowers and smelling incense. Unexpectedly, Xue Zifeng's immorality also makes people laugh. However, a few times, he was playing with his mobile phone. As soon as I passed by, he deliberately avoided it, as if afraid that I would see what he was doing. This kind of dishonesty is disgusting, but I respect him and don't blame him for being newly married.

This happy and peaceful life lasted for three months. By chance, I accidentally saw the news that my mother-in-law sent me by mistake and quickly withdrew it, only to know that I had been cheated badly.

This is an ordinary noon. I was having dinner with my colleagues when my mother-in-law suddenly sent a message. I happened to be playing with my mobile phone, so I opened it and looked at it. After listening to the voice in my ear, I was completely shocked. My mother-in-law said this: Zifeng, my mother has been entangled for a long time. You'd better tell her daughter-in-law about Lei Lei. If she can accept this child, you can continue. If she doesn't accept you, don't force it. I don't think your daughter-in-law is like a woman who leads a normal life. When she does nothing at home, she will only squeeze you, which will make you tired sooner or later. Mom loves you more.

Hardly had I heard the speech when my mother-in-law withdrew the news. I think my mother-in-law must have sent this message by mistake, because just last week, my husband and I changed our WeChat to the same avatar. My mother-in-law must have mistaken me for her son.

After listening to my mother-in-law's words, I froze, and the rice in my mouth was bitter and hard to swallow. My colleague was close to me and heard the voice. Her eyes widened in shock and she asked bluntly, "What is this situation? Where is the other grandson? "

I have never been able to calm down. I have known Xue Zifeng for a year, but I haven't heard that he has a son. What the hell is going on? Mother-in-law's words really hurt. What do you mean I'm not a living woman? I didn't expect my mother-in-law who smiles at herself on weekdays to think of herself like this. This is really a matter of people's hearts. If I hadn't heard this message sent by mistake, I really didn't know that my mother-in-law was such a character.

I put down my chopsticks and walked out of the restaurant angrily. I immediately called Xue Zifeng and asked him what he was hiding from himself. At the other end of the phone, Xue Zifeng pretended not to know anything at first and asked what made his wife so angry. I told Xue Zifeng the sound just now. After a moment of silence, he faltered and said, "Wife, I'm sorry. Let me explain this to you slowly."

I've been fidgeting all afternoon, and the more I think about it, the more I feel wronged. After coming home from work, Xue Zifeng told me the whole truth. It turned out that before he got married, he had long liked a female college classmate. The female classmate also gave birth to a son for him, but under the obstruction of her mother-in-law, the two of them failed to enter the marriage hall. Now, my newborn son lives with his grandmother, and his female classmate also works in another city.

I didn't expect this bridge that only exists on TV to actually happen to me. Since Xue Zifeng already has a girlfriend, why abandon others to marry me? Since the mother-in-law despises her son's female classmate, why should she try to get her grandson back? At that time, I felt very dizzy, as if I had been slapped by reality.

After careful consideration, I can't accept the fact after all. Xue Zifeng is really heartless. In order not to make his mother sad, he abandoned his pregnant girlfriend and secretly broke up with his ex-girlfriend without telling me. Now my mother-in-law misses the grandson who is not sensible and wants to take her back. This is ridiculous.

A few days later, I asked Xue Zifeng for a divorce. He knew he couldn't let go of his ex-girlfriend and his distant son, and he agreed guiltily. At that moment, I didn't blame Xue Zifeng, but I forgave him a little. Then I smiled and advised him, "Don't be silly. No matter what difficulties you have, you shouldn't wronged other people's mothers and sons. You are 30 years old. You should have your own opinion on this important matter, and don't always live in the shadow of the old man like a child. "

Xue Zifeng nodded, tears unwillingly to flow out.

It was a refreshing afternoon, and I left my home where I had only lived for three months with my luggage. I didn't dare to look back when I left, for fear that the tears in my eyes would accidentally fall down. Looking back on this relationship, I was so ignorant that I didn't know that the man lying next to me missed another woman so much in order to make do with sleeping with someone I didn't love. Whether this is a joke or not, it seems to be a kind of irony, which makes me understand a lot in an instant, but I feel very lost.

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