The ex-boyfriend said that he needed time to think about getting back together, and he was eager to get back together.

I don't know if you have such an experience. An unforgettable love, the two ended after all. Finally, after a long and painful breakup, I finally took my ex-boyfriend out of my life. I don't need to smile. Suddenly, my ex-boyfriend who didn't even break up contacted me: "What happened?"

You look at the unread message on your mobile phone and use a trick of not displaying what you have read to make sure it is really him! At this time, I began to think: "No return?" "What does he want from me?" "What do I want him to come back for?" "In what tone?" "Go back to the map. What do you mean by sending a message at four in the afternoon? Get off work early or change jobs? " "He has a girlfriend? Why else do you care about me? " "What is this whisper?" "How can you ask me,' How have you been recently?' " .

This kind of contact without origin will make you feel at a loss. After receiving the text message from your ex-boyfriend, you panicked. Are you confused? Ex-boyfriend who broke up, why did he suddenly contact you? Is it to get back together? But I can't read between the lines to feel his intention.

Many girls will encounter such troubles. Now tell your ex-boyfriend the signs of wanting to get back together and teach you how to face the goodwill released by the other party.

1. I often contact you after breaking up. Didn't I say that "the best ex-boyfriend is like a dead man"? You don't have to contact each other forever, don't give the other person a chance to appear in front of you and break your heart, and you won't hear friends say, "My ex-boyfriend vomited blood after giving birth." Now that they have agreed to break up, it won't be long before the other party will keep contacting you, as if to force you to be his "friend". What does this mean? In fact, this is the first signal that the other party is eager to get back together. After breaking up, he felt that he could not and was not used to losing you, so he had to approach you on the grounds of "friends" after breaking up, so that you could be bound and cared for by him again. He can seize the opportunity to arrest you again.

A friend around me also received a short message from her ex-boyfriend, which read "I still miss you", "I can't live without you", "It's all my fault", "Please hug me" and so on. At that time, this friend was so scared that he changed his mobile phone before cutting off his ex-boyfriend's compound offensive.

After breaking up from 0 10 to10/0, even if all contacts are not broken, if there are friends from the same family who stay in the same company or even attend the wedding of college students, what to do depends on everyone's personality. Meeting people at parties is inevitable. But after breaking up, if you continue to receive invitations from your ex-boyfriend to meet alone, you should be more careful! No matter how aboveboard the reason is, asking you out and meeting alone is similar to dating, which shows that he has malice and ulterior motives. You who have been with him know best whether he is so short of friends and so free. To put it bluntly, he just wants to know you.

A friend has an ex-boyfriend and has been asking her to be friends for some time. "Buy one movie for one, get one free", "Open a new store in your favorite bakery", "Help me choose my mother's birthday present", "Keelung Night Market" and so on, which made her unable to refuse until one day he said, "So you really think I don't want to get back together?" The friend admitted that he had done a good job, but only out of sympathy was he allowed to go out. I didn't expect things to turn out like this. It really taught people a lesson.

I still invite you to meet alone. Some ex-boyfriends will keep in touch with their ex-girlfriends after breaking up and constantly update their emotional dynamics. This is also an initiative to tell each other that they want to get back together. In this way, you can not only imply that the other person is still devoted to yourself, but also test whether the ex-girlfriend is still attached to herself. On the friends list of social software, I saw the signature of a friend who seldom contacted me was "Single". All I know is that he broke up with his ex-girlfriend for some time. I don't know if this will work. On the contrary, after breaking up, your ex-boyfriend is very interested in your emotional dynamics. From time to time, he asks you if you have met another object, and jokingly tells you that you are still single, but you just want to get back together but are afraid to say it. Have you ever made such a megaphone? Every once in a while, a friend's ex-boyfriend will come to you and ask who has a new date. He wanted to get back together and didn't know how to shoot it, so he had to use this trick.

3. Confirming each other's feelings is another sign that the ex-boyfriend wants to get back together, that is, the other party repeatedly advised him not to listen, but suddenly changed it to what he wanted! Sometimes it makes you think that if only he had changed earlier. For example, he works too hard and the environment is too bad, but how can you convince him? He just didn't want to leave his comfort zone, and even shortened your meeting time, but he didn't find another job to try. One day, you suddenly saw his dynamics, called a new place and said that he had changed jobs. Or you told him for a long time to lose weight, but he went to the kitchen to steal ice cream while you were asleep. I didn't expect to meet him for the first time after breaking up for three months, and you suddenly found that he seemed to have lost weight, as if he had found a shadow at the first meeting. This may be the first step for him to want you back. If he appears in front of you again, he wants to get back together with you. A friend quit smoking immediately after breaking up, saying that in order to save his girlfriend, he had to force himself to give a strong medicine.

At present, my boyfriend volunteered to get back together. How should I handle it properly? Especially when you are confused and unable to make a correct judgment, do you really want to agree?

? 1. Do you still love him? When you are confused, it is recommended to go back to the original point first! Re-examine your heart-do you still love him? Think about why we broke up in the first place. If you break up because you feel like family without enthusiasm, do you really feel the horizon after separation? Or is it like losing a corner of your soul to realize that you really love him? Or after being separated from this person, although I feel lonely, the pressure on my shoulders has eased, and I actually know that it is better to break up.

2. Has the reason for breaking up really been solved? Although it hurts me to be shown kindness by the other party, has the reason for breaking up been fundamentally solved? Did he tell you that he won't do it again? Did he quit smoking and drinking? Did he stop fighting? Did he contact his confidante? But is it really credible? It seems that he took your advice, and in order to show his sincerity, he gave up all the bad habits you didn't like, but will he really not relapse after getting back together? I suggest you think it over before you decide to get back together. Will the group jump back into that pit? Or after jumping back, you have the ability to jump out again.

3. Is there anyone around you? There is also a basic consideration: is there anyone around you? If you have let go of your past feelings and started the next journey, now is not a good time to consider getting back together. Think about whether the one next to you is a good match! If you actually like your ex in your heart, you also need to get on well with your current one and say goodbye.

4. Do you think you haven't breathed enough free air? After breaking up, I want to be free for a while, which should be the voice of many people after breaking up. What is rare is that you can do what you want without considering the weekend trip. You don't need to socialize with your partner's family, and you have more room to get along with your female friends. The free air after breaking up is different from the general one, representing the liberation after being imprisoned. If you still enjoy this freedom, you are not ready to return to love, let alone respond to your ex-boyfriend's request for compound. I suggest you enjoy this time; Don't we often hear that "peach blossoms flourish after breaking up"? Because now is your most dazzling time!

Did your ex-boyfriend's attentions scare you? Don't be afraid, if you really don't know if you should get back together, then don't get back together! Because if you really want to go back to the grassland, this impulse of "wanting to be together" will not make you so hesitant and uneasy. If you have a lot of small theaters in your heart and want to discuss with your sisters in a panic, it is that you are not ready. Suggest to respond to your heart, don't make a hasty decision, make things difficult for him a little and try his sincerity.