We like each other, but we never return messages to him. It is usually the woman who takes the initiative. What should I do?

This is very contradictory. If you don't reply, you will be ignored, that is, your information will be ignored, you will be despised, and you will not be cherished. How can I say I like you? Because of your initiative, he can get you without doing anything. If it is too easy to get, it will not be cherished. You chase him, he has a sense of superiority, a sense of superiority. You pay more, he pays less, and both sides pay unevenly. This is the problem.

If you want to change the status quo, you must change your practice. You have to adjust the balance of the scale, reduce the number of times you take the initiative and reduce your efforts. When he senses it, he will be anxious and will take the initiative to come to you. If so, it means that he has you in his heart, so he should keep this balanced state.

If you reduce the number of initiatives, he is still the same, but he doesn't like you very much, so you should continue to reduce your efforts and find that balance.

If your efforts are reduced to almost no contact, and he is still indifferent, you can see who he is, but there is one last resort. If you make friends with another man and stimulate him, he will change his mind and come to you, and you can start over. If it doesn't work, it won't work.

If it really doesn't work, there is actually a last resort, that is, don't contact after breaking up. Let a close friend, a friend who can talk to him, tell him all your good intentions, tell him everything and give him one last chance. If he can wake up, he will come to you. If this doesn't work, it really doesn't work.

If you get to this point, he will come to you for your wealth in the future. No matter how many requests he makes to you, he will flatly refuse. This man is already unreliable.