If the long-distance love is saved, how to save the long-distance love by texting?

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Long-distance love is a way of love that needs careful maintenance and is easy to break up. Although many people say that distance is not a problem, it is not too far. Well said, some transnational feelings are really hard to meet. The only way to communicate may be the Internet. Need to adjust each other's time difference, it is difficult to produce timely results, can only wait for the problem to heat up.

It is difficult for two people in long-distance love to keep the frequency of life synchronized. It is impossible to communicate face to face in the first time, and it will aggravate the severity of the quarrel. If couples in the same city may meet and hug, go shopping and watch a movie, the problem will be solved naturally. But in a different place, we can only freeze each other and wait for the right time to communicate. After a long time, feelings will be in crisis. However, if a long-distance relationship lasts for a long time, it will not break up even if it is often quarreled, even if the probability of breaking up is much greater. Because of their deep feelings, they would rather stay in a long-distance relationship for so long, which requires more efforts than ordinary couples to maintain a relationship.

First of all, the response rate of information content should be high. If you have just had a quarrel and the other party is still cold, you certainly don't want to receive the harassment information that belongs to you, then your information content needs to be simple and easy to answer. Don't feel that receiving your message or replying to your message is a kind of pressure, otherwise it will easily annoy the other party.

Secondly, you can send something that the other person is interested in, such as communicating with the other half's hobbies. If he likes the World Cup, you can say, "I went to see the latest football match in Brazil yesterday, which was very exciting. I know you didn't have time to watch it that day, but it's worth seeing. The ending is reversed. You can watch the replay when you are free. " This kind of content is relaxed and pleasant, and it can also bring more topics, increase communication opportunities and slowly recall your beautiful memories and feelings.

Of course, you can also send some help information appropriately. For example, "I seem to have rhinitis again." Can you tell me what medicine you bought me before is very effective? " This kind of help-seeking content can not only make the other person reply to your information immediately, but also remind him of your memories and your concern, and increase your chances of saving him.

The information content in long-distance love is much more important than that of ordinary couples because it may be the only communication channel for each other. After breaking up, you can't ask the other person to video and phone with you as often as before, you can only show your status through information or friends circle display, so the content of information can easily affect your emotional trend, so learn to become your love through SMS and give the other person trust.

In saving long-distance love, information is the basic way and carrier for you to keep in touch, so whether the content of short messages is appropriate is the key for you to keep in touch. Don't send some negative and accusing messages, because a long-distance relationship that has broken up or faded is inherently fragile. If the content of short messages is always pestering the painful topics of both parties, it will only increase the difficulty for you to save him by making him depressed or even forcing him to accept your ideas.

Therefore, it is a very tricky thing to save long-distance love and send messages. When you find the right angle and understand his needs at this moment to convey information, you may get unexpected results. If you really don't know how to grasp the information content, you can also seek the help of a professional emotional counselor. Sometimes it's better to know that nothing has been sent than the wrong message.