How to ask a girl you just met out?

Boys will have this kind of distress. They want to ask a girl out to play, but they don't know how to ask. They are afraid of saying the wrong thing and being rejected. Today, Bian Xiao will tell you about girls' speaking skills. Learn these skills and make you a master in seconds.

First, the preparation before the appointment

1, notify in advance.

The most important thing about asking girls is to inform them in advance. Making an appointment in advance is a sign of respect for girls and shows that you attach great importance to this date. The content of the notice should tell the other party the place and time, and the more detailed the better. Making an appointment first can also give girls enough time to prepare, so the success rate of dating will be higher.

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2. Telephone invitation

If boys are shy, they can also ask girls out by phone. Through the other end of the phone, your voice may be calmer, less nervous and more confident. I really don't know what to say, so I'll write down what I want to say in advance and invite you by phone.

3. Determine the time for girls to give answers

Ask girls out to talk about skills, and be sure to confirm the time when girls give answers. When you ask a girl an invitation, she may not say yes immediately. You can make an appointment with her and give you time to reply.

4. Make a good dating plan

When you ask a girl out to talk about skills, you must make a date plan. If you don't make a good plan and the other person asks you where to go and what to do, and you can't answer, it will be particularly embarrassing. It's best to make two schemes for girls to choose, which is the best. Planning in advance can also control the date within your own economic scope, so that the date will be happy.

Second, matters needing attention in formal dating

1, avoiding topics that she is not interested in.

Ask girls out to talk about skills. When you speak, you should look interesting and avoid talking about topics that she is not interested in. Prepare some topics in advance to make her think that you are a humorous boy.

2. avoid showing off your wealth

Ask girls out to talk about skills and avoid showing off their wealth. Most girls are money-worshippers, and they like capable and handsome men. But don't be too straightforward in front of her. You can tell her by innuendo that you are a capable and self-motivated boy and show more self-confidence, so that some girls will like it better.

3. Avoid just saying nice things. Many men keep saying good things when they ask girls out, which is wrong. Praise her, but don't exaggerate. A girl may be more delicate and lovely, but you exaggerate her beauty. Girls are not good at this. You said she was good at it. It is too deliberate and hypocritical to say good things blindly.

4. Respect privacy, ask the girl about her speaking skills, and remember to ask her about her privacy. Especially when we meet for the first time, don't ask girls about their privacy like checking their household registration, which is especially impolite. Of course, you can't ask girls how many boyfriends they have had, and don't mention topics like girls' income. We can start with the hobbies of both sides.

(1) The purpose of the reservation is clear.

People are afraid of meeting each other, but trees are afraid of uncovering their skins.

Many times, the girl is cold and pushing around on the phone, but if you cheat her out, she will have a good time.

The purpose of the invitation is to meet. As long as we can meet, we can say anything. All the demands of girls can be compromised, such as girls saying, "I can't come back too late." "I don't like singing." "I'm not feeling well. I can't climb the mountain." How to answer these excuses, the following (7) specifically talked about it.

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(2) Overcome the fear of dating.

Looking at the eight-point number in the mobile phone, she is so beautiful and rich. Can I catch up with her? Do you want to call her or not?

Otaku seems to have endless fears in his heart. I'm afraid to talk to girls and ask them out. You can watch How to Overcome Fear before chatting up.

I remember how I asked the girl I like out, picked up the phone and put it down, thinking about whether this time is appropriate, what should I say, whether the place to ask her out is appropriate, whether she will come out, and what we should do when we meet. ...

First question, do you want to contact me if you have a phone number? The answer is always "contact!" At most, the other party doesn't answer the phone or send text messages back. The loss is just a little phone bill.

When will you contact? The sooner the better! Especially in big cities. In a small town, it is possible that after a month, you will contact again. The girl still remembers the scene where you accosted that day. But in big cities, girls don't remember who you are the next day. My habit is to send text messages or call girls on the spot. Generally, I will say, "I am the cheeky Ah Yue just now, and your eyes are really good at talking." Let's go out for a cold drink another day. "

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(3) the text is short.

Invitation is not chatting, and the skill of chatting with women is not rambling, without head or tail. Express the invitation simply and clearly, but in special circumstances, the invitation can be used as a means to keep in touch, and the invitation is the topic of communication. For example, if you regularly invite her out to play or eat, even if the other party refuses, you can call to harass her in this way; Every time the other party refuses, it will form a refusal debt and finally come out.

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(4) reduce expectations.

As soon as he came up, he said, "Let's get a room!" No girl can promise. You said, "Let's go shopping and get something to eat!" Many girls won't refuse.

Don't make too many demands at first, use the strategy of camel entering the tent and make demands on the girl bit by bit. Although the first thing I said was to go out for dinner and chat, I had a good time chatting. Sure, I can go to the park again.

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(5) stimulate interest.

Curiosity kills the cat! Girls are naturally curious.

There are two ways to invite girls to dinner.

The first way is to tell her that there is a restaurant with western-style decoration and steak pies, and the atmosphere is very romantic;

The second way is to tell her that there is a romantic restaurant. She asks you what you look like, and you will know when you go. You will never be disappointed.

Obviously, the second way is more exciting and attractive!

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(6) stick to it.

Stick to the end, in other words, have a strong desire to satisfy.

For the rejection of girls, insist on at least three times!

I dated a girl, spent a month, texted, called and invited many times, and finally came out.

At the end of this article, I will attach a post I found online, which is the voice of a girl. Everyone should be inspired to read it.

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(7) Pay attention to tone and intonation.

In fact, this is more important than all the dating topics and dating skills mentioned above. Girls come out to see you not because of what you said, but because they are attracted by your magnetic voice, infected by your enthusiasm and conquered by your strength and confidence.

If it really doesn't work, practice in front of the mirror, look at your expression and smile, record your voice and listen to it yourself.

I have a deep understanding of dating. I just said in a casual and anxious tone, "Are you free tonight?" I want to talk to you about something. Let's meet at the gate of Jin Guanghua Square! "The other party came out without much thought.

But it's still an old saying, in fact, it doesn't matter what you say, what matters is how you say it!

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(8) handle objections skillfully.

Here is a dating technique called "biting the end of a conversation". This skill is very useful. After you learn it, you will also use it when you bargain in shopping.

That is, no matter how the girl objects, you will push the hand of Tai Chi on the basis of what she said, unload your strength and fight back with your strength. The specific step is to express understanding-re-demand.

For example,

You: "Come out to play at night!"

Girl: "I work overtime at night."

You: "it's so hard, your boss is so inhuman." I'm going to the industrial and commercial bureau to report him! " (show understanding, stand in the same position-unload)

You can't live working overtime all day. You have to give yourself a vacation. (Her excuse became the reason for your invitation-leverage)

I know a place to eat midnight snack, which is cheap and delicious! When do you get off work? "(request again-counterattack)