A word for a man to reply in seconds (a trick for a man to reply to your WeChat in seconds)

I met many girls who came to ask questions about quarrels and the cold war. After understanding, I found that the boyfriend's "no news" actually accounted for a very large proportion in the fuse of the quarrel.

There are many girls who can't wait for a reply after sending messages to their boyfriends. So I am anxious and my mood is getting worse and worse. Contact your boyfriend and find the other person indifferent. It seems that I don't take my anxiety and sadness seriously at all, and I don't care so much about this relationship.

It's just that the wrong way not only fails to convey their feelings, but also makes boys misunderstand that they are "daughters" and "difficult to serve" ... both wrong and distressing.

Today, we will systematically talk about the correct way to deal with your boyfriend's failure to return your information.

Send a decent and mysterious message

I don't know if you have such an experience. When I woke up, I saw 20 missed calls or 50 unread messages on WeChat. What is everyone's first reaction at this time?

Of course, it is: "Will it be okay? ! "When you find that these 20 missed calls and 50 unread messages are all from your girlfriend, I tell you that she is bored at home alone. What's your inner reaction?

This is also the reaction of men when they see your serial phone calls and long WeChat messages. Of course, sleeping is still a trivial matter. If the other party happens to be under great pressure, complete the proposal to the customer. Or I finally waited for the game of my favorite team and just finished talking with my brothers.

I'm in a good mood and I'm going to ask you out for dinner. As a result, I picked up the phone and saw a series of questions from you: Why didn't you talk to me and which woman were you chatting with? What are you doing? ……

At this time, even if a man loves you again, he will feel that he has been poured cold water and his heart is uncomfortable. What information does he want to see most at this time?

"Honey, I sent you a message and you didn't reply. Are you busy? Pay attention to your health, remember to eat, and contact me when you are busy. "

The news first gave the man a step down. No matter what he was doing just now, you gave him an excuse-"Busy".

Secondly, show your consideration and remind him to take care of himself.

Finally, the most important gentle knife-remind him to contact you after work.

Then, put down the phone, watch a play, read a book, or do something else to keep yourself busy. When he is finished, he will contact you naturally.

Some students raised their hands and asked, but after waiting for a long time, he still didn't contact me. At this time, we should consider the following question.

How to express your needs during the period of love burnout?

There is a long-standing period called love burnout period. During this period, the two sides have lost their original freshness, and the intensity of contact will also drop significantly.

During this period, girls often feel insecure, and if they are slightly negligent, they will start to worry about whether the other party has changed their minds. Therefore, it is their favorite thing to "bind" each other with information and try to contact each other.

However, if you use the wrong method, it will often be counterproductive. For example, one of my students recently felt that life lacked interest and sent a WeChat to her boyfriend at work.

W: Can you guess what color shoes I am wearing today?

M: I don't know, Huang?

Woman: Have you noticed me? Where are the yellow shoes?

M: White, then.

Two people had a big fight. In fact, the real purpose of this girl is to hint at her dress today. I want my husband to take me out on a date at night, and I want to have some fun and guess. As a result, there was a quarrel, and the date naturally fell through. If she had changed her way, things might have been completely different.

W: You left early today. Is there much work in the company?

M: Well, a lot.

Woman: Oh, it's so hard, but you worked so hard that you didn't have time to look at my new clothes!

M: It's the same to go back at night.

Woman: Don't wait to go home (coquetry expression). There is a restaurant in XX, which is very difficult to book. Today, we finally have a table. Let's go after work!

M (seconds back): OK.

Look, first of all, praise the efforts of men.

Then aroused his curiosity-wearing new clothes.

Then throw out the demand and go to XX restaurant for dinner.

This not only gained interest in dating, but also enhanced feelings. Give a man a better emotional experience and he will love you more and more.

When you care, you should understand the "heroic feelings" of men. What they need most is your respect and understanding when they are working hard outside. Students who are really not sure what to say, remember the universal formula I compiled for you.

Praise his dedication to work+arouse his visual curiosity+accurately ask for needs = a woman that men can't refuse.

Don't say eat the restaurant you want to go to. You may see your circle of friends say that he will secretly place an order for you!

What should I do in the face of a man who disappears into thin air?

If this happens, the other party will "disappear out of thin air." That's probably because there is something wrong with the chat content, which makes him lose interest or feel unable to reply. That is what we call "talking to death."

Faced with this situation, we have two solutions.

(1) Take the initiative to make yourself interesting.

The first thing is to do what you want. He likes football, so you can talk about football with him. He likes games, so play games with him. It's best to cultivate two people's hobbies, which will not only get twice the result with half the effort, but also make you have fun.

Secondly, from each other's perspective, it is easy to guide each other to express their ideas. For example, if the other person is busy at work, you can ask him wittily: Woman: Did you make big money again today? Have you exhausted my dear again? What do you want to eat? I will satisfy you at night!

For example, if the other person wants to go out for dinner, you can say:

Woman: Did you go out to eat delicious food behind my back again? Drink less ~ if you drink too much, be sure to let me know and take you home. Be safe and don't get drunk.

Here comes the point. Knock on the blackboard and take notes. The reason why men like confidante is that besides confidante, confidante is the key.

Can understand him, can understand him, the important thing is never to blame him. Only in this way, he will feel very accomplished and attractive, and he will want to talk to you more actively.

Finally, it is to spread less negative energy. Complaining too much about trivial things in life will make boys feel like your mother-in-law and sprout the idea of trying to escape. Girls who love sunshine and smile positively will make men want to be close to you.

Hold your horses and take him down with a gentle knife.

It is still a tense working day. Your boyfriend has been busy all day. You don't send him a message when he takes out his mobile phone to watch it. At this time, he will start to wonder if you are angry with him, and even a little upset. When he thought of ten thousand reasons to complain and question you, you suddenly threw out a sentence:

"My dear, you finally finished. Are you tired? Do you want to go to bed early? "

At this time, men's affection for you must be doubled. Because you didn't blame him, but showed understanding and respect. This kind of tolerance and understanding can cause his inner guilt and make him eager to compensate you.

Let us remember ourselves. If you make a mistake at work and think that the boss will deduct your salary, the boss will comfort you instead: "Just try your best. When everyone makes mistakes, keep trying. I am optimistic about you! "

When you hear this, do you feel guilty and want to work harder and make some achievements?

A gentle knife is the most deadly. Without complaining or being angry, the other person feels guilty. In this way, sweet words are used instead of blame, which not only comforts one's mind, but also won't make the other party a "sweet burden".

I recommend you to use the "gentle knife" more, because this is a natural advantage of women, and most men eat soft and don't eat hard. I believe you will try again and again. There is another situation that girls can't accept most.

He didn't return my messages, but commented in someone else's circle of friends.

He is not busy, but he is still hot and cold to you. Even chatting with others is hotter than chatting with you, then he probably just doesn't really like you that much.

Clever use of WeChat to attract male gods to fall in love with you and make male gods addicted to chatting with you. In addition, I often emphasize that you should shift your focus to self-investment and self-improvement.

My friend Qin Qin, in order to manage the housework, not only doesn't dress up all the year round, but also has no time for beauty. Completely become a yellow-faced woman. Because her husband suddenly wants to go abroad for half a year, she is very upset.

So she asked her husband to report his movements from time to time, and she had to inspect the post from time to time. Because of the time difference, her husband was sleeping when Qin Qin called. After being awakened, I have to report my whereabouts and even take photos to prove that I really didn't go out to "fool around".

Only a month later, my husband had a big fight with her, saying that he couldn't work with peace of mind because of Qin Qin. Colleagues also laughed at her husband for being a hen-pecked wife. Since then, I often don't answer the phone or return to WeChat, just like disappearing out of thin air.

I told Qin Qin directly that "you are his wife, not his mother". Everyone is independent. He is, so are you. You can't live for each other as soon as you get married and completely lose yourself. You can't follow him and supervise him every day. You should walk in front of him and let him follow you voluntarily.

So she began to stick to her hobby and live a fine life. Qin Qin resumed the Latin dance she had been learning before marriage. After practicing self-confidence, she came back. Because of the need of dancing, she began to pay attention to dressing up again.

Half a year later, when my husband came back from abroad, he saw that Qin Qin was radiant and in better shape, which was completely different from the "scum wife" at home! Now her husband is reluctant to leave her every day, and the two have returned to the sweetness of their wedding.

Therefore, as long as there is room for change between you, you don't have to be disheartened too early. As long as you practice yourself more perfectly, the "male god" will still revolve around you. What happened? Now that he won't return your text messages, you won't be confused, will you?

Be calm and cautious, don't be bored. As long as you follow these skills step by step, I believe you can take the initiative in your love with ease.

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