How to send text messages to the opposite sex at night

I once heard a saying:? The development of the opposite sex is like a hyperbola, which can be infinitely approached, but it can never be touched. ? The correct way to deal with heterosexual relationships should be like this. If you want to maintain a long-term and stable heterosexual relationship with him, it is necessary to keep a proper distance.

Everyone should know what to say and what not to say when dealing with friends of the opposite sex. Not everything can be discussed between the opposite sex. Some topics should be avoided.

Especially in the middle of the night, chatting without boundaries can easily make people think too much and even bring some unnecessary troubles.

So, what kind of topics are best not to talk about between friends of the opposite sex at night? Generally speaking, it is nothing more than these three kinds, don't understand.

1. I am lovelorn, but I am lucky that you can still accompany me.

People always want to find new emotional sustenance when they are lovelorn, and release their sadness by talking with the opposite sex. But I don't know that it is easy to make mistakes in a fragile and relaxed state.

When a woman sends a message to a man saying. I'm lovelorn? What is the implied message of this sentence? I'm single again? . But if this man is a little interested in her, he can use this small talk to get close to her and finally get it.

At this point, the relationship between the two will heat up rapidly and even produce inexplicable sparks. If you add the following sentence, are you lucky to be with me? It will make the other person feel that you need him, and he is your support.

Most men can't resist the dependence of women. As long as a woman signals that she needs company, men will basically satisfy her. But just because a woman needs someone else's company doesn't mean she loves this person, she may just need it? Companionship? Not necessarily? Your company? .

But men don't necessarily know what women are thinking, so they often have such misunderstandings. So, if you don't want the other person to misunderstand, don't say it easily? I am lovelorn, but I am lucky that you can accompany me? Such a misleading statement.

I think of you when I have something to do. Does your girlfriend mind?

In life, any woman will encounter some troubles. Many things can't be solved by ourselves. At this time, they will want to find a close person to help. But asking friends for help is also a very sensitive thing. Some women are used to asking male friends for help, because subconsciously men are more powerful and can help themselves. As time goes on, there will be a sense of dependence.

But when a woman expresses this sense of dependence on men through words, it will cause waves in men's hearts.

A friend of mine told me that he has a very good relationship with a female friend. When he is in trouble, she will ask for help. Because he has a girlfriend of his own, he didn't think much at first, but felt that friends helped each other.

But one night, she suddenly sent a message to my friend, saying? When I have something, I will think of you for the first time. Would your girlfriend mind? ? My friend was shocked when I saw this scene. He doesn't know what women think when they say this. He wasn't sure if there was any implication in these words, but in order to avoid misunderstanding, he began to keep his distance from this female friend.

I am in a bad mood. Can you chat with me?

Everyone loves face and doesn't want others to see their bad side. But there are always times of depression. At this time, if you don't say anything, it will be really uncomfortable. Usually, when you are unhappy, you want to talk to a familiar and trustworthy friend. At this time? Opposites attract? The law appeared. Women, in particular, always like to chat with friends of the opposite sex when they are in a bad mood, hoping to get his comfort.

When you consciously talk to this person, it means that in your heart, he is closer than ordinary friends At this time, if he can try his best to comfort you and calm your emotions, then your feelings for him will be greatly improved.

When he accompanies you, he will see a different you, and you will see your trust in him in your conversation, which will easily make him feel that he is more important than your friend.