How to persist in military love in different places

First of all, enough love between two people is the premise of military love. If one party is hesitant or uncertain about the relationship, it will be difficult to maintain it.

So you have to make sure that girls really love you and are willing to wait for you. At the same time, two people should communicate well, whether they are ready to fight against difficulties together, what problems they will encounter, and how you should deal with them.

2. Fully understand tolerance and trust.

The two often can't meet each other, and girls are prone to lack of security. This requires you to prove to her that your relationship needs no suspicion, be honest with each other, have something to say, and dispel girls' concerns.

You can start from yourself, for example, your girlfriend tells you to play with friends and don't interrogate her-where to go, who to go with, when to come back, will you still love me when you come back? ……

So girls will think you are suspicious and don't trust her. You can say: Go ahead, have fun, and remember to send me a location to let me know that you are safe. It not only expresses your due concern, but also does not interfere too much in her life. )

When two people have conflicts, they must communicate in time, and don't have a cold war. Call more if you can't get through, at least let the girl know that you are worried about her; Prepare more expression packs to admit your mistakes, or take out the red envelope killer if you can't.

3. Multi-perspective thinking

Don't kidnap her as a soldier-

"I am a soldier, and I can't decide many things, so please accommodate me."

"You can go wherever I go in the future."

"I am very difficult, can't you listen to me?"

Don't be selfish.

Girls also have their own careers and ideals. Whether she wants to or not is one thing, and it is another for you to think for her. Think about what girls need, nothing more than your company and love.

If you can't be with her often, you should know how to make up for this shortcoming, especially on some important occasions and festivals, such as Valentine's Day, her birthday, your anniversary and so on. Don't forget to prepare gifts, even if a phone call says "I love you".

4. Maintain a certain contact frequency.

(1) Telephone or WeChat

If possible, take more time to send text messages and call at least once a week to share your situation in the army and care about the recent situation of girls.

Except for force majeure (answering your cell phone during training), no matter how busy and tired you are, you should say good night to each other.

Although it is normal, it gives girls a different feeling. If you can say good night to her every day, she will feel at ease. This habit can consolidate your feelings.

(2) create opportunities to meet.

If you have a holiday, you must meet. It is recommended to travel together often. Because we have been apart for a long time, we lack the opportunity to get to know each other, so traveling together can show whether they are suitable for each other.

In addition, talk about happy things when you meet, and don't let her worry too much about you. If you complain about life, it will only make her more stressed. After all, girls have many difficulties, and she has put up with them.

Jay Chou's "Confession Balloon" sang a lyric: Create a romantic date, and don't be afraid to screw everything up.

So, make every date full of good memories, try to meet her requirements, accompany her to the place she wants to go, take her to eat delicious food, and make her feel at ease that she can't see you often.

5. Think about your future.

Since you have chosen military love, you should think about your future. The girl's youth has been given to you. What do you want to give her in return? Never let her down.

You need to think clearly, where are you going to settle down in the future? Are you going with your resident, to your hometown, or to stay in her hometown? Discuss and decide before marriage, so that girls have a heart.