What is the way out for the deaf-mute people?

Question 1: Where is the way out for deaf-mute people?

Answer: Deaf-mute people are also human beings. Don’t focus on your shortcomings, but look for advantages: your eyes can still see. , both hands and feet can be used, so we must start from these aspects. Personally, I feel that apart from listening and speaking, I can live like a normal person in other aspects.

Question 2: His parents don’t let him study now because they have to make plans for his future. He was very depressed and wanted to continue studying, but continuing to study like this was not an option.

First of all, you need to know clearly what your parents’ plans are? Whether it is in line with his own wishes, interests, etc., you must know that you have to walk the road of life yourself, rather than living for your parents. It is yourself. Even if your parents have arranged it, it is your own business how to go. Your parents cannot help you. He considered arranging it for the rest of his life.

Secondly, you said that he is very depressed and wants to continue studying, but continuing to study like this is not an option.

That shows that he still wants to study instead of obeying his parents' arrangements.

You said: But continuing to read like this is not an option. ? Then I have to ask again, studying does not mean studying for a lifetime. Everyone will enter the society and face work after studying to a certain stage. What does it mean that continuing to study is not an option. He is currently in the second grade of junior high school, so he must at least graduate from junior high school. Well, the nine-year compulsory education stipulated by the state is until graduation from junior high school. This is also the obligation and responsibility of parents. I think he should at least finish junior high school and then consider whether the next step is to continue studying or work to make money. If he continues to study, he can go to high school, technical secondary school or learn technology. He can find out if there is a school that is suitable for him and is willing to accept him, or if there are There is no such school for the deaf.

Knowledge belongs to oneself. Without education, one becomes illiterate. Now, from the perspective of ordinary people, college graduation is basic. If the family's finances are feasible, it is recommended to go to college.

Information:

A deaf-mute realizes his college dream

Anhui Online-Anhui Daily

In the past few days, the deaf-mute Liu Guoliang For me, it is the happiest day in my life, because he has become the only deaf-mute person in Hanshan County who has been admitted to college.

Liu Guoliang, 23, was born in Kangliu Natural Village, Yuanchong Administrative Village, Xieji Township, Hanshan County. He became deaf and mute due to illness when he was 3 years old. As a student at Hefei Deaf Vocational School, he cherished the hard-won learning opportunities and studied hard. Hard work paid off, and this year he passed the bachelor's degree in art design from the School of Special Education of Changchun University with a score of 493.

Question 3: If you go to work, the requirements are relatively high. ?

Is it because he has high requirements for work? In that case, his ability will be improved. If he is not capable, he will choose you to work; if he is capable, you will choose to work.

But society is real. Will he get a job with good conditions? I ask the question, if you have the ability, are you afraid of not having a job?

Everyone says that it is impossible to find a good job. If you don’t look at your own abilities, good jobs are only matched with good abilities. People who don’t know anything can’t talk about a good job.

Question 4: Hey,,,, now the whole family is worried about his future. I don’t know what to ask him to learn in the future. It would be best if he could do a job he enjoys doing.

I said, he is only 22 years old now, not 30 years old, so there is nothing to worry about. People should keep their feet on the ground and work hard instead of reaching the sky in one step. If they can't see the future now, it doesn't mean there is no future. The main thing is to set your direction and then know how to work hard. How to determine the direction? Starting from your interests and doing what you like, you can devote yourself wholeheartedly to it and develop quickly.

I don’t know what to ask him to learn in the future. ? You said: It's best to do the job he likes to do. This is the answer, you have to ask him what he likes.

Question 5: Are there jobs specifically recruiting deaf-mute people for oil painting or computer design jobs?

I think you are looking down on yourself by asking this question. Looking for a job is not about looking at your own problems. How can you find a job like that? You should see how well he has learned in this area, what his skills are, and whether he is strong enough. I am exaggerating. If he is the best in the world in oil painting, don’t say he is the best in the world. As long as he is the best in the country, he is not afraid of not being the best in the world. Is there a way out? Everyone rushes to buy the paintings, which cost at least one million yuan each.

If he is an expert in computers, it doesn't matter whether he is deaf-mute or not, the boss will treat him as a treasure instead of a piece of shit. Therefore, when looking at problems, don’t look at shortcomings, but look at actual capabilities. Like I said, if he can't find a job despite his first-class painting or computer skills, then he can come to me and I will ensure that he has a high-paying job. At last year’s 2008 Beijing Paralympic Games, weren’t there many disabled people who fulfilled their Olympic dreams and brought glory to their motherland? Therefore, people with disabilities are not terrible. What is terrible is the mentality of themselves and their families.

Question 6: What is suitable for deaf-mute people?

You can do both speaking and listening tasks. You have to look at what is not suitable for deaf-mute people. Otherwise, everything else is suitable. What is suitable for deaf people? You say it as if there are really very few jobs suitable for them, and it mainly depends on ability, not the problem of deafness.

Question 7: What is suitable for deaf-mute people? What kind of job will he choose in the future? He just graduated from junior high school. Is there any skills test specially provided for deaf-mute people? Can he get more certificates or something?

It’s so complicated. You can find it in Baidu’s search engine: Jobs for deaf-mute people. There are a lot of answers (in the Solved Questions section), some of which you are satisfied with. I don’t know where you are. Go to the Baidu website and enter: Disabled Persons Website. There are many organizations that can help you.

Additional questions about: 1. I have thought about opening an online store, but it is not realistic. You may have never come into contact with deaf-mute people. Their expressive ability is limited and not as good as normal people. If you open an online store, how do you communicate with others?

To open an online store, you only need to type to communicate. If you know how to type, you can use Pinyin if you don’t know Wubi. An online store refers to opening a store online. It does not require face-to-face communication with customers like a store on the street, nor does it require voice communication. You can purchase goods online, and you can write words on cardboard when communicating with the courier. , and when the time comes to open an online store, you can open it with your family, instead of opening it alone. When the time comes, you can contact the courier company and let your family members call. These are details that will be encountered later. Anyway, there are no problems that cannot be solved, there are only people who cannot solve them. So why is it unrealistic to open an online store? There are reports in newspapers about deaf-mute people opening online stores. I have read them. Also, I have met deaf-mute people. Except that I can't talk to him, he can't hear. Just like normal people. Deaf and mute people can still use mobile phones and send text messages.

2. If he continues to study, he is now 22 years old, and he doesn’t know how far he can learn. His family is in a small county, and the conditions are not particularly good. Even if he gets a Ph.D., he is almost 30 years old, and will this guarantee that he can find a good job? When will I marry a wife and have children?,,,,

What’s wrong with being 22? I’m no longer an old man. I’m 28 now and still doing an ordinary job, but I’m just starting to think about starting a business. What do you think he will be like at the age of 22 or 23? Are you a millionaire, or do you need to earn tens of thousands a month? Regarding his current situation, I can give him a plan: 22-25 is the stage of professional knowledge, 25-28 is the stage of professional and technical maturity, and 28-30 is the entrepreneurial stage. Of course, if you start to open an online store now, that's a different story.

What’s wrong with studying for a Ph.D.? Do you still need to consider your age if you want to study? So why would anyone read it nowadays? If you think so, no one will study anymore. If he can really get a Ph.D., then your whole family should be happy for him. It would be national news that a deaf-mute can become a Ph.D. You must know that it is rare to see a deaf-mute doctorate. I checked online and found no information about this. If you don’t believe me, try Baidu webpage: Deaf-mute doctor.

And will this guarantee that he will find a good job? If a deaf-mute can get a doctorate, it means that his ability is not very strong. Is such a strong person not yet employed? Don't look at deaf-mute people through the eyes of disabled people. Determine jobs based on their actual abilities. Why are you so unsure!

When will you marry a wife? You still have to have children. Can a deaf-mute doctor not be able to marry a wife? I think there are a lot of people vying to be his wife. She still has to give birth to a child, that is the daughter-in-law’s business.

Although the legal age for marriage stipulated by the country is 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women. But since ancient times, with the development of rural and urban areas, it has been found that rural people are getting married early, while urban people are getting married later and later.

In the past, people in rural areas became parents at the age of 16. Now the laws are stipulated by the state. As soon as they reach the marriage age, they are eager to get married. This is basically the case for rural people. People in cities are relatively under pressure from work (they have no land) and they all get married later. Nowadays, the normal age for urban people to get married is basically 28-30 years old (it’s not that the country says they get married late, but everyone does). Nowadays, the latest ones are They are rich people and celebrities. I won’t mention this information, but their marriage age is 30-35 years old.

Finally, regarding what you mentioned about work and marriage, I feel that you are both in a hurry. It’s not that there is something wrong with your ideas, but that in the long run, you think too far and lack the planning. If you have goals and plans, you will still have a long way to go in life starting at the age of 22. As long as you decide what you should do every year, there is nothing to worry about. If you all think like you, then I am 28 years old now, I have no good job, and I am not married. Is it a failure or a misfortune? I don’t think so myself. My past life experiences are not in vain and will be helpful in the future. Everything must be done step by step. Lay a good foundation first and then consider the next step. Therefore, he is 22 years old, so it is not a big problem. As long as the direction is accurate and he follows the route step by step, everything will be fine. It takes ten years to sharpen a sword, one minute on stage, and ten years of hard work off stage. Also, does his parents have the final say on when to marry a wife, or does he decide on his own? If your parents want your child to get married when, they should prepare the money for the wedding and decide for themselves. Just ask yourself how old you want to get married? Then think carefully about what preparations you need to make before getting married. At least you must learn to take on family responsibilities, learn how to be a good husband, and how to educate your children in the future. You must prepare and learn everything well. You must not be careless and decide casually. You can only get random results.

I have answered many such questions. They seem different, but in fact they are all similar, that is, they all lack career planning. If you don’t understand anything, you can leave me a message and wish him good luck!