A male colleague doesn't talk to you at work. What if I keep texting and calling you after work?

This situation may be complicated because it is difficult to determine the intention and mentality of this male colleague. Here are some suggestions to help you deal with this situation:

1. Clarify your feelings: First, determine your attitude towards this male colleague, whether you are interested in him, whether you are troubled or upset, and so on. Only by knowing your own feelings can you handle this situation better.

2. Understand his intention: Try to understand why this male colleague avoids talking to you at work, but sends you a text message after work. This may be because he likes you, or he has some emotional problems to solve. By observing his behavior and words, we may be able to infer his intentions.

3. Keep your distance: If you are not interested in this male colleague, or think his behavior makes you feel uncomfortable, you'd better keep your distance. Don't answer his text messages, call him back, or tell him clearly that you don't want him to keep contacting you.

4. Frank communication: If you are interested in this male colleague, or want to know his behavior better, you can try to communicate frankly with him. Ask him why he avoids talking to you at work, or why he sends you text messages after work. This will help you better understand his intentions and help you build a healthier relationship.

In a word, we need to take different measures to deal with this situation according to the specific situation. The most important thing is to maintain your own feelings and needs, while respecting the feelings and needs of others.