Why does it take a long time to send a message when you meet and chat on a blind date?

I think it's very likely that the blind date doesn't send messages on his own initiative, or he doesn't want to talk to you.

Obviously talking about love, I feel very lonely. Two people don't have much emotional communication and interaction. This is probably an emotional neglect, which means that both parties need to communicate, but there is no change after communication, and it may be necessary to stop loss in time.

What is emotional neglect like?

Emotional neglect refers to one party's long-term failure to perceive, participate in and respond to the emotional needs of the other party. Different from obvious emotional abuse such as ridicule and humiliation, emotional neglect is an emotional "inaction" and a silent injury.

If a relationship has the following situations, then one party's emotional needs may be ignored:

1. Although I am in an emotional relationship, I still feel lonely and can't feel emotional connection and intimacy. When you need to talk and rely on, you feel that you can't rely on your partner and can only turn to friends or others for help;

2. I feel that my feelings have never been valued and responded by the other party;

3. Disagreements or conflicts appear repeatedly, but they cannot be effectively resolved. When you start a topic and expect to continue the discussion, the other party will either stop your expression and avoid the conflict with silence, or drift away and be careless;

4. Problem-solving discussions always focus on rational argumentation centered on facts, without considering the more fragile emotional needs that are stimulated.