Old classmates are all boys. How to politely ask each other if they are married? If you want to know the latest situation, will it be impolite to ask directly? Or how to say hello.

I. Preparations before blind date (I. Precautions for makeup and dressing 1. Men's clothes should be suitable for this occasion. Too dark: black and dark gray don't mean it can't be used, but please try to add some highlights and changes, such as some accessories. This is the best place to reflect your taste and pursuit, and it also makes you feel closer. 2. Whether formal or casual, first of all, clothes should be neat, and neat clothes can show a positive mental state. 3, avoid wearing too formal clothes, suits, shirts, ties, tie clips armed to the teeth, although blind date is also a very formal occasion, but the atmosphere should be relaxed and friendly, you can wear leisure suit. 4. Too avant-garde: Personality is not a bad thing, but something that immature children love to do when they can't wait to express their personality. So tattered jeans and knee-length T-shirts are best not to appear. 5. Use perfume with caution. Blind date takes a long time to get close, talk and communicate, so perfume should be light and not strong, and it must not bring people a sense of depression. If you are not sure, you would rather not use it. What girls should pay attention to 1. Dress appropriately. Don't dress too professionally, and don't wear professional clothes. Are you here to talk about friends or customers? To properly reflect the flexible beauty of women, we must not be too sexy and exposed, which will give him a bad impression! Dress like a woman, put away your fancy clothes and put on a feminine skirt or sweater, which is closer to the ideal woman in a man's mind. The principle is clean, comfortable to look at, inconspicuous warm colors are the best, and the design is foreign. Don't wear wide clothes (you are going to blind date and meet friends, not bars, disco and karaoke ok)；; Don't wear clothes that are easy to run out of short skirts; It is not easy to wear suspenders in summer; In winter, I personally feel that it is not easy to wear short skirts with high boots (I feel that the lower body is divided into three sections); Don't wear a coat like a bear in winter; Don't dress up like a bumpkin; Careful design enhances your image and respects others at the same time. Everyone knows that we should wear light makeup. Don't deliberately do hair style and clothing design, try to be neat and generous. Wear light makeup, at least look like a lady (no matter what your status in life). No heavy makeup, no big mouth, no bright red lipstick, no exaggerated earrings, no white face like a layer of lime, and no eyes like giant pandas. Personally, I think a light foundation and a light blush are good. It's best not to wear high heels, but wear soft soles. If you meet a cheapskate, refuse to invite you to dinner and only take you shopping, you are dead. Try to go to bed as early as possible a few days before the blind date, and don't show tired expression. 5. put a little perfume on your wrist, remember, it is faint. Don't wear perfume on other parts. The faint fragrance left on the hair washed the day before the blind date can leave a pleasant impression. (2) psychological preparation 1. The matchmaker's words can't be trusted, and the words of an unfamiliar matchmaker can't be trusted at all-remember this sentence, the matchmaker can't help exaggerating because of the psychological drive of matchmaking, so the matchmaker says that he is a handsome boy and he is also an ordinary person, and that he is more than one meter seven or five, which is estimated to be one meter seven. Especially those matchmakers who take many turns to realize that their words are not credible. As for those who have interests with you, forget it. Be sure to find out when the matchmaker saw someone for the last time. If it was 10 years ago, then ... 10 years would be enough to turn a handsome guy into a bloated fat man, let alone change people. I would rather introduce my relatives to my friends than my parents. The understanding between generations is too different. Most old people just want to give you stability. As for whether their hobbies are right or not, they are rarely considered. The more detailed the situation of that person, the better. If he is a rural cadre, and you happen to be engaged in fashion work, or his weight exceeds your psychological bottom line, and there is such a serious injury, you'd better get rid of him from the beginning. 5. Prepare and be familiar with some relaxing topics, such as talking about movies, books and websites. It is best to know about the current works and have your own opinions. You can also talk about what you like, although it's all the same. But according to the practice of the broad masses of the people, it is easier for these topics to understand each other whether the most basic taste preferences are consistent with yours. Of course, it would be better if you also have your own experience in sports, cars and other topics. 2. Matters needing attention in blind date meeting (1) Boys 1. You'd better send a short message to let mm know that you have this person and this phone number. Then call or send a text message to ask the specific time of the blind date. It is best to meet at a place far from mm's home or a place convenient for commuting. 2. When dating, boys should be prepared to bring at least 300 yuan cash and a bank card for backup. When dating a boy, you should arrive at the appointment place 5- 10 minutes in advance. When you arrive, you should send a text message or directly call (recommend) to describe your dress out of courtesy, so that the other party can easily recognize each other. Remind mm that she has arrived. After mm arrives, ask mm where to sit and chat. Ask the tone. Boys should not show off their wealth or family background or own cars. It is forbidden for boys to borrow friends' cars or company buses for blind date. Don't be rigid, men should take the initiative to start a topic. The man should say hello to the woman first, even if both sides don't like each other, or one side doesn't like the other, he should make plans after greeting. 6. Take the initiative to pay the bill after drinking tea, coffee or meal (never mention the problem that AA can't serve the table, and it is strictly forbidden to ask girls to pay the bill) 7. At the end of the blind date, the man should take the initiative to act as a flower escort, thinking that it is ok for the girl to offer dinner or lunch or send the girl home. At least offer to send the girl to the station, subway station, etc. In case the woman politely refuses, that is another matter. 8. Out of politeness, you should say that you get along well and have a chance to meet again (whether or not you really have a chance). If you think you want to see that girl again, you should contact that girl within 2 days to 1 week to express your intention to meet again. It is best to contact her directly by phone at an appropriate time to show sincerity. (2) Girls 1. It is best not to be late for a blind date, and it is strictly forbidden to be late to keep the other party waiting for more than half an hour. 2. It's best for girls on their first blind date not to hint or express that they go to high-end places to eat or spend with boys. 3. Girls should not show off their wealth when dating. Don't show strong initiative in conversation. Welcome a lady with a little sense of family. 5. The blind date should choose a relatively open and quiet public place. Such as parks and restaurants. Avoid narrow spaces. Such as KTV rooms, hotel rooms, rental houses, etc. To avoid a short trip and a long-term regret. Looking back, I'm a hundred years old. 6. It is best to make an appointment for non-weekend appointments. In case the other person doesn't like you, you have to get up early for work tomorrow. Is a good reason to end it. 7. Just find a place to have a cup of coffee. You can refer to why many people choose KFC McDonald's as a blind date recently. In this way, if it looks good, continue to eat; NONONO, if it wasn't for him, then you could get away with it. 8. Remember to bring your wallet and mobile phone when dating. Remember to bring tissues and toiletries in your bag. If you wear a skirt, remember to bring spare stockings and business cards (there is no business card replaced by paper and pencil, you should know that it is impolite to let the other person take out his mobile phone and enter his phone number and MSN). (3) Matters that boys and girls should pay attention to * * * 1. Both people on blind date aim at getting married. Let the other party know that everyone is not suitable as soon as possible, and don't waste time, money, feelings and expectations. It's not even appropriate to be friends. It is best not to contact in the future (except in special circumstances). It is forbidden for men who want to play blind date. 2. When dating, it is best for both parties not to be accompanied by parents, colleagues, classmates, brothers and sisters, three uncles, seven aunts and eight aunts. The matchmaker takes introduction as the principle, and the two sides should leave after meeting. 3. When dating, don't be overbearing, have high taste and scare away the blind date, but be peaceful and natural, generous and decent! Even if you have many emotional experiences, don't brag. Even if it is said, it should be said very lightly. Don't be afraid to show off anything. Blind date can't leave a good impression on each other, but it's hypocritical. Look at it a few times, and your fox's tail will be exposed, which will make the other party feel that you are inconsistent and disappointed. 6. When dating, both parties should talk politely, and the topic should be simple and clear, relaxed and happy. Be careful not to talk about family income, real estate and so on. When dating, don't talk about personal income, don't ask each other (it will seem silly and meaningless), and don't talk about personal ideals, such as wanting to make a lot of money, being a boss, being a leader, climbing up, etc. (Empty and will scare the other party), don't say that you are dissatisfied with various unreasonable phenomena in society (it will also scare the other party, and the other party thinks that you have a brain problem). Don't say those fake big empty things, but say some interesting things about life, such as culture, popular movies, TV programs, social hot spots, such as life around, work, previous study time, interesting things about students, and occasionally ask each other's hobbies, as well as their attitude towards life and requirements for expecting the other half. 7. Be polite and generous when dating, and be careful not to make gestures, especially when sexual relations are forbidden. The blind date should be honest, kind, calm and reliable; Lively and lovely, cheerful and generous. 8. When dating, let nature take its course, let nature take its course, and follow the natural path. It is also natural for men and women to love each other. Don't rush for success. I believe that as long as you have a beautiful heart, you will embrace spring one day. After the blind date, wait for good news. If both parties are satisfied, we look forward to further understanding. If the man is affectionate, he should choose the right time to invite the woman to meet him. If a woman is interested, she should not refuse. 3. What should I do if I am not satisfied with the other party? The easiest way to refuse each other. If you really don't feel it or the other person's behavior and appearance are really pleasing, you can go shopping for a period of time, such as 15 minutes, or you can offer to break up and go home after drinking a cup of tea or coffee (both men and women can say it and get up the courage to say it). Most people who can handle it clearly understand. If you didn't make it clear at that time, you can stop contacting each other, or send a text message within 1 week. To put it mildly, say something appropriate, such as: Nice to meet you. I was very happy when we met, but I felt a little less. I hope so. . (omitted. . ) or let the introducer reply.