How to maintain the relationship between children and parents when women's high-speed rail insults their mothers?

In fact, in real life, almost all feelings and relationships need to be managed, and so does the parent-child relationship. If children and parents want to establish a good relationship, they also need the management of both sides, especially in the new era, there may be differences or even gaps between different generations. Without management, it is difficult to maintain a benign parent-child relationship.

Management is multifaceted, and it requires mutual efforts and intentions between children and parents to achieve good results.

First of all, we must understand each other. People of the same age still have many different views on problems and events, not to mention children and parents with decades of age gap. Parents and children should establish a good attitude and try to understand each other, that is, they should think from each other's point of view instead of always? I thought, do I want it? Trying to change a person's mind and let the other person act according to his own principles will only make the relationship worse. Therefore, putting yourself in others' shoes is an important part of mutual understanding.

So how do we put ourselves in each other's shoes? We need effective communication between the two sides. Only through effective communication can we have a clearer understanding of each other's situation, as well as the position and reasons for the other party to put forward a certain point of view. In today's China, many ordinary conversations between parents and children are trivial and rarely involve deep-seated problems. This should actually change. We should strive to establish a relationship of mutual trust, mutual respect and even heart-to-heart.

Want to harvest good communication effect, is the mutual respect mentioned above. Parents respect their children, treat them as independent people, and children respect their parents and stand together on an equal footing, so as to achieve good communication results. Any party trying to control the other party will only blame the other party and only make their relationship worse.

In addition, I think the relationship between children and parents also needs a little sense of ceremony, such as each other's birthdays, family holiday dinners and so on.