My colleague insisted on staying at my house. How can I refuse?

It depends on why colleagues have to live in your house. If they have temporary difficulties and need to stay for a few days, they should help at this time. But he wants to live for a long time without any reason. Such people are too unconscious.

At this time, if you are with your parents, or have a husband and children at home, you can directly refuse your colleagues and say that you have family at home. They are not used to living with outsiders, so I'm sorry I can't help him.

If you rent a house by yourself, you can tell your colleagues that your parents and relatives will come to see you in your hometown these days, and so will your former classmates. There will be a lot of things at home these days, and the place is a little crowded. He may have no spare place to live.

In short, it is normal for someone at home and colleagues should understand, but it will be embarrassing to refuse him at this time. We can relax and tell him that we can invite his relatives to stay at home for a day or two when they leave. This is a kind word. If colleagues take it seriously in the future, you can continue to find reasons to shirk it, saying that your parents will stay for a long time, and they will not be able to leave for a while, and there is nothing he can do.

If you are afraid of exposure, no one will come to see you. Then you can tell your colleagues that you have something to go out these two days, you won't go home at night, and you can't bring your colleagues in. Let him find another place to live!

There are many reasons for not going home at night, saying that your friend's house is empty and he is scared at night, so he needs you to stay with him for a few days. It can also be said that some friends and family members are hospitalized and need to go to the hospital to accompany them. If you don't go home at night, he won't ask himself to live in your house.

If this colleague doesn't come to your home, you can refuse him directly. The space at home is too small, so it is just right for you to live alone. If there is one more person, it will be inconvenient to crowd. There is really nothing I hope he can understand.