Send text messages to her parents every month after marriage.

She did this for the following reasons:

First of all, she is a filial daughter.

Once a woman gets married, she will lose a lot of freedom and know that there is nothing she can do. After marriage, women will feel that they owe their parents too much. It seems that her parents raised themselves and married the man's family to be a free, long-term paid nanny, and she would not be willing in her heart. So they will secretly give their parents some money to compensate for their kindness.

Second, she didn't tell you to avoid conflicts.

Most women will give money to their parents behind their husbands' backs, fearing that their husbands will not understand and that such filial piety will cause conflicts between husband and wife. If you meet an enlightened husband, you will support yourself. If you meet an unreasonable husband, he will go looking for trouble if he knows. They know that marriage is a besieged city, and some things are involuntary. They can't do whatever they want as they did when they were not married, and only they know what they think.

Third, you should review yourself.

Now that you know that your wife is loved by you, you feel a little uncomfortable giving money to her family. But if you are smart, you will actively support your wife, so she will do the same when she sees that you don't care about her parents. Put yourself in others' shoes. How would you feel if your daughter didn't care about you after marriage? If your wife marries you and doesn't forget her family, it means that she is a grateful woman. You can keep pretending you don't know.

She has the right to control her salary.

Your wife didn't lose her rights by marrying you. She has the right to control her salary. In other words, if you give money to your parents, she won't interfere with you, because filial piety is the responsibility and obligation of every child. Everyone will understand and support the virtue of filial piety between husband and wife, because everyone is old and every parent's property will be left to their children in the future, so it is natural for your wife to give money to her family.

A good woman will be filial to her parents, and also to her parents. If a person is not filial to his parents, then she will not be good to anyone!