What kind of man can give a woman happiness after marriage?

It is beautiful for a man to really love a woman, but only love may not necessarily lead to happiness.

In a family, the foundation of happiness is love, but it is difficult to maintain happiness by love alone. There are many two people who had a good relationship, but they are even more disappointed in the days after marriage because of their love. The attitude of men and women towards marriage after marriage is also an indispensable condition for a happy marriage. Moreover, for women, the happiness of marriage is actually inseparable from men's attitude towards marriage. In a marriage, if a man has a good attitude, a woman will have a high probability of happiness, which has nothing to do with how much material things are and how poetic life is. Most importantly, a woman's heart is full of the warmth of a man.

I know a courier brother because I occasionally send a courier. He is very nice. When delivering the courier, he will politely ask hello, are you at home? If he is not at home, he will definitely put the courier away and send a text message and WeChat to remind you to pick it up. Over time, if I need to send a courier, I will go to him. He'll come downstairs and take that piece. No matter how many couriers I send at the same time, he will remember them clearly, never miss them once, and wrap them carefully every time.

Last year, I found out that he didn't send express delivery, but opened a temporary service point with his wife to send express delivery. He drives a small tricycle through the whole small city every day, goes to various houses to pick up the express delivery, and then goes back to pack it and send it to the express delivery site. His express service model is very popular with everyone, but what impressed me is his efforts, rain or shine.

Once I wanted to send a courier. I thought it was getting late. He came the next day, but I didn't expect him to arrive in a few minutes. The night is very heavy, many people go home to rest, but he still insists on working, in order not to give up every opportunity to make money and to leave a good reputation for his service.

A man who works so hard, I think that although they live in a small town with his wife, his wife should be very pleased to see him working hard every day and never slacking off.

A good man, a man who works hard at home, will have a happy marriage if he knows how to love his wife and appreciate her contribution. Just like this courier brother, he rarely sends a circle of friends, but occasionally goes out to take a photo to promote their site and make a publicity for his work.

The rest of his friends are relatives of his wife. I have seen his wife's one-month birthday, the cake he bought for her, and the fried food he cooked for her. The cake is not so exquisite and the food is not very rich, but for ordinary couples who work hard in a small town, it is their happiness and his concern for his wife.

Every Valentine's Day and Tanabata, he will also take photos in the circle of friends, thank his wife for her company, and attach gifts he prepared for his wife, sometimes a silver necklace, and sometimes a funny and naughty good wife card. Although it is not a particularly expensive gift, his wife has always been in his heart.

In fact, the happiness of a married woman is easy to satisfy. As long as the man she loves loves loves her, they are soul mates and have equal strength. I went to their store once or twice when I delivered the express. It can be said that the environment is average, because there are many things to pack every day. The door is where they pack and deliver goods. There is a low bed in the back and a desk in the middle, so a family of three lives.

His wife smiles every time she sees it, and her hands are unhurried with the express delivery sent by those men. In fact, as long as the husband and wife love each other and work together to face daily life, this is a beautiful marriage for women. Husband and wife's hearts are together, and each knows that the other has been working hard for a better life. In this process, there is no slack and no second thoughts. No one will fail his lover and betray his marriage. Such a marriage, each other's efforts are willing, satisfied and practical.

Due to different emotional needs and gender differences, women are always more likely to be single-minded in marriage, while men are even more reluctant to put down and explore new things (of course, this is not absolute, but in most cases). Therefore, many women who are disappointed in marriage have been betrayed while fighting for their families. In this process, some men have not carefully thought about what they want to do for their families and what they will undertake.

Men who betray their families mostly use their selfishness and greed to satisfy their exploration of extramarital affairs, while ignoring their responsibilities and contributions to their families. A friend's cousin is almost 40 years old. She was married 15 years. It is reasonable to say that husband and wife have been together for 15 years. It should be a rare time, but she dare not recall and look forward to the future, because memories are painful and the future is confused.

After only a few years of marriage, she found that her husband had betrayed her. At that time, their family conditions were not good. While all her friends around her are trying to make money, her lover is in love. She not only doesn't know how to abide by the principles of marriage, but also doesn't know how to undertake the actions that a man should pay for his family. Later, she chose to forgive and her husband promised to come back. In the following years, men didn't have stable jobs. This job is too tiring for several months. That job is not suitable for him for half a year, and there are also things that are ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex.

Now I'm almost 40 years old, and my friends around me are doing well. Only their families are the same as in the past, with no savings and little change. A marriage that has no future and dare not imagine the future may be the most helpless and desperate for a woman, and such an unhappy marriage is largely due to a man's lack of respect, dedication, responsibility and effort to marriage.

What kind of man can give a woman happiness after marriage? I think it is the most stable happiness for a woman to put aside things outside her body and have a good relationship with her husband and wife and create a life together. Men can give women happiness. In fact, he knows how to do these three things. Or it can be said that he can have those three strengths like a courier brother, and he will certainly give women warmth and happiness in marriage.

The first point: men can work hard, are willing to work hard for marriage, and have the strength to live seriously with women.

A man who knows how to live seriously and won't give up because of a little difficulty can really have the ability to give a woman a stable life, can really know how to work hard and be willing to make progress after marrying a woman, and the family will become richer and richer under their efforts.

The second thing: men can be grateful, have a sense of responsibility for their families, and have the strength to care for and love their families.

If a man doesn't love his family enough, he will always feel that things at home have nothing to do with him and he won't care about everything at home. Then his lack of family responsibility will definitely make the family lack a sense of warmth and security. In the long run, women will be lonely. A man who loves and is responsible for his family will make his family warmer and women happier if he responds and pays for his marriage.

The third thing: men can be kind and single-minded, have the strength to love and care for their wives.

Men give women happiness, only love is not enough, and it is impossible without love. This love may not be as vigorous as when they were madly in love, but it will become various forms in marriage, with occasional surprises, constant care, understanding and maintenance, and of course, being single, plain but unforgettable.

A man knows how to restrain his behavior for marriage and keep his feelings exclusively for his wife. The power of love and care for his wife will certainly make their feelings warm and women happy.

Happy marriage is very simple and difficult to say. The difficulty is that it is not easy to stick to the initial heart with long-term companionship. The simple thing is that as long as people who enter marriage remember to stick to their original intentions and put them into action, they can get close to happiness.

For women, a happy life is also very simple for them, that is, a man has the strength to live a good life with her, love her and her family, and it is enough for others to work together.

Those who treat marriage with care will be treated well by marriage. A man who treats his marriage with care will be treated well by his marriage and lover. A man knows how to make his wife happy, and life will give him back a happy life.