About "white lies", we need famous sayings in this field and 3-4 famous examples (preferably with names).

Speaking of lies, I dare say that none of us have never lied since childhood. Yes, everyone has lied, but some lies are white and some lies are malicious! A white lie, with a good starting point, is a lie that you have to make up when you lie and cheat in good faith.

First, a white lie does not hinder honesty. Let's talk about our country first:

In the late 195s and early 196s, China had a dispute with the former Soviet Union, and the former Soviet Union government tore up the contract and withdrew its experts, which made our country's industry once paralyzed. In order to pay off the debts owed to the former Soviet Union, Chairman Mao called on the Chinese people to practice steel and launched an unprecedented Great Leap Forward. At that time, no one in China would know that our country was still in debt to others, thinking that our country would lead a carefree life after liberation, but the party and state leading comrades shouldered this burden. At that time, the lies told by state leaders to the people were well-intentioned and did not hinder honesty. At that time, the people in China worked hard without any pressure, which created an unprecedented miracle. At that time, Wang Jinxi, an iron man, was created, and Wang Jinxi led his oil drilling team to drill our first oil well in China ...

Second, talking about us personally, I would like to give two small examples here:

I read a TV report that an old mother had kidney disease. If you don't change your kidney, your life will be threatened. At this time, the eldest son stood up and asked to donate his kidney to his mother, which hurt the old mother. The old mother strongly opposed it, saying that if so, he might as well die. There is no way but to wait for a kidney source with matching conditions, but it is really not easy to wait for such a kidney source. My son was afraid of delaying his mother's illness, so he cheated his mother and donated one of his young kidneys to his mother. After the success of the operation, my family kept it from the old mother. The most touching thing is that my mother and son lived in the next ward. My mother didn't know. When my mother wanted to see her eldest son, my family just lied to her that her son had gone on a business trip. After reading this report, I was moved to tears. Friends, is such a lie a hindrance to honesty?

A little girl with leukemia, in the later stage of her life, when the doctor asked her what her greatest wish was, she said that she wanted to go to Tiananmen Square to see the flag-raising ceremony. What reason can doctors and parents not satisfy the last wish of a dying girl? However, because her family lives in distant Xinjiang, if she meets her requirements, the doctor is afraid that the girl can't stand the fatigue of the journey, so a collective activity of fabricating lies organized by more than 2, volunteers, doctors and the girl's family began. From boarding the train to taking a tour bus, along the way, from the newspaper station to the waiter serving tea, and even to the conversation of the passengers, everyone deliberately arranged it. Finally, they came to a school, accompanied by the national anthem of a military band. The blind girl thought that she had really come to the long-awaited Tiananmen Square. When she saw that she was unable to raise her little hand to salute the direction of the national flag, all the people present shed tears. This time, the collective lying action organized by more than 2, people, can you say that their white lies hinder integrity?

Also, many elderly people are not feeling well and refuse to let their children know at the first time, for fear of affecting their normal work and study! Many children say they don't hurt when they fall, in order to let their parents say they are brave! There are many women who are quietly dedicated behind successful personnel who are tired and never complain, so that their husbands can do their work better with peace of mind and care less for their families ... There are countless such examples in our country with a long history of civilization. Facts speak louder than words here. To sum up, they are all lying, but their lies are all well-intentioned and do not hinder honesty ... < P If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust. Just like the child in The Lying Child, he cries "Wolf is coming" every day to seek excitement and happiness. When the wolf really comes, he has to face it alone and bear it by himself. No matter how much he shouts, it won't help, and no one will come to help him again. Because the people who may come to help him are used to his shouting and think that he is "teasing you" again. It can be seen that lies hinder honesty.

But today, when we talk about "lies", there is an attribute-well-meaning. With this qualifier, the nature of lies has changed fundamentally. "White lies" are people's good wishes for things, the dialogue of people's kind hearts, the warmth of people comforting each other, and the tenderness revealed from people's hearts ... No one will investigate its credibility. Even if people who hear white lies know that they are lies, they will try to believe them, and they will not feel the hypocrisy of liars, and sometimes they will be grateful from the heart.

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by a doctor, his parents, lover, children and all relatives will not directly tell him, "Life is beyond saving" or "How long can I live in this world at most". Although all these are true, who will tell the truth to the relatives who are already in pain as cruelly as the judge sentenced the prisoner to death? At this time, everyone will form a United front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make patients full of hope for treatment, so that patients can spend the rest of their lives in a peaceful mind. Does this hinder honesty?

when a child who is not in harmony with the world suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his loved ones, how can he explain to him where his loved ones have gone? We think the best way is: don't tell him the real situation for the time being, just talk about going on a business trip to a distant place, or studying and working abroad. When the child is sensible and has a certain tolerance, he will tell the truth, and the child will understand the practice of his loved ones and will not be angry because he did not know the truth early. Don't such words also hinder the integrity!

When the mother of a soldier who is on a mission in other places is terminally ill and dying, I wish I could see my son for the last time. However, my son can't come back, and he can't do a little filial piety for his old mother and take care of his mother who once broke his heart for his son. He is very sorry and very nostalgic. The old mother understands her son very well and tells her relatives around her that she should not tell her distant son after she left, and should not distract him. She should say that her condition is stable and let him feel at ease and do his best for the country. Don't such white lies hinder honesty!

Therefore, I insist that white lies not only do not hinder honesty, but also greatly enhance the friendship and feelings between people, and have an indelible effect on social stability. I suggest you: white lies should be used when they are used, and there is not much serious conflict with honesty or not.

White lies do not hinder the four arguments of honesty

Good evening, Chairman, judges and fellow students:

A serious debate needs a serious stand.

next, I will make a concluding statement on our position.

first, white lies are motivated by kindness, with the purpose and starting point of safeguarding the interests of others. As we all know, contradictions can be divided into universality and particularity, and particularity is included in particularity and different from universality. The nature of a white lie determines that it is not a bad benefit, but based on the sincerity and goodness in the heart, while a malicious lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar, treating others only as a means and not hesitating to hurt others with a strong desire for profit and weak rationality. The lies that people who are kind in themselves are "forced" to tell in a certain state are well-intentioned, which is a kind of friendliness and concern to the subject. However, unscrupulous people, no matter how to disguise, how to rhetoric, how to rack their brains to crown their malicious lies with malicious purpose. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty.

second: white lies are a way of life and a reflection of the quality of being considerate.

The relatives and friends of a terminally ill patient always tell his illness lightly with white lies, encouraging him to cooperate with doctors. I believe everyone here will not accuse them of dishonesty, will they? ! On the contrary, it is malicious and true. A prisoner was lured by the enemy to tell his own troop deployment. Does anyone think he is honest? Sincerity to the enemy is betrayal to the country!

The director of forensic expertise department of Guangzhou Brain Hospital said: "Lying is an instinct of human beings. As for honesty, the key lies with which kind."

a lie that refuses to love without directly hurting the suitor; An expressive lie that is not willing to disappoint the inviter under the hospitality of a man is indispensable in interpersonal communication. It makes us more comfortable in dealing with the world, not like a hard stone with many edges, which cuts others' heads and bruises ourselves.

It can be seen that people need a layer of protective color and lubrication. Since being expelled from the Garden of Eden, people have not been naked but surrounded by bark and grass leaves, haven't they?

Third: Although a white lie is a kind of lie, it will definitely hinder honesty if you can't tell a lie. We should analyze the specific problems.

Honesty is respected by everyone because it is kind and does not cheat. On the surface, a white lie seems to hinder the principle of honesty, but in essence, it exists because telling the truth hinders the principle of kindness.

White lies and honesty are actually the relationship of unity of opposites, and the so-called violation just provides a beneficial supplement to honesty, not an obstacle. For example, it is stipulated that pedestrians in the same direction can only occupy half of the road, which does not hinder everyone's passage!

fourth: a world without lies is like a dust-free earth. We agree that a white lie does not hinder honesty, which does not mean that we advocate it. The key lies in the degree.

what is lying? If it is indiscriminate, it is defined as: not seeking truth from facts, telling lies, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the truth. Then our life is full of lies, big and small, from inflammatory advertisements to sweet words between lovers, all of which are full of exaggerated words, and even Lian Wenxue's works have become lies. Everyone has a standard of lying in his heart. How to grasp this degree is our first consideration. Compared with lies with bad motives, white lies will make people's feelings more harmonious, harmonious and life more interesting. It can skillfully avoid conflicts and realize emotional communication and smooth communication. How can it hinder honesty?

Therefore, we should learn to distinguish malicious lies and protect ourselves from harm. At the same time, improve your self-cultivation and think about the best way to solve the problem. "The way of university lies in Mingde, being close to the people, and ending in perfection". As for those that are warm and make life full of interest; As for those lies full of kindness and compassion, let them bloom!

I believe that under the sky of goodwill, our world will be better! !

thank you! ! !

The B-ultrasound is finished. "Please help the patient out." The doctor whose face was covered with big masks and glasses told me. I was anxious to know the result of the diagnosis, so I hesitated and didn't move. "Help the patient out first!" The doctor said it again in a commanding tone.

Help father to sit in the chair outside the door and return to the B-ultrasound room immediately. At this time, the doctor has taken off his big mask and said to me with a newly written diagnosis, who are you? I said he was my father. From the results of B-ultrasound examination, it is a space-occupying lesion in the liver area, that is, liver cancer, and it is advanced. "Can you be so sure?" "The accuracy rate can be said to be 99%". How much we hope that this diagnosis is wrong and belongs to the inaccurate 1%. I went to another hospital with luck, and the result was the same. My father is too old for surgery and can only be treated conservatively. Liver cancer is a malignant tumor, and it is estimated that he can only live for three months at the longest. A bolt from the blue, five thunder enlightened, I don't know how to face this reality, I don't know how to tell my father.

We know that many patients can't bear this heavy blow after learning that they have cancer, and their mental breakdown suddenly aggravates their illness. After careful study, everyone agreed not to tell the truth to mom and dad. I asked a familiar doctor to write a false diagnosis of gastric ulcer, telling my father and mother that it was nothing serious and that taking some medicine would be fine. In order to hide people's eyes and ears, we tore off all the labels on the medicine bottles and asked my father to do "iontophoresis" once a day. Although "iontophoresis" is of no benefit to my father, we still insist on doing it, in order to create an illusion of being treated and support our lies.

Father is easy to fool. He can't read, even if he was taken to the oncology department, he didn't notice. I don't know what "iontophoresis" is all about, but I still insist on walking to the hospital for treatment every day.

It was my mother who first discovered the lie. One night after dinner, my father went back to the back room to rest. While my father was away, my mother said that your father was getting sicker and sicker. Why didn't you do something? Anshan can't be cured. If you go to Shenyang and Beijing Hospital, you can't stand it! Seeing my mother's eagerness, I had to tell her the real situation. The main reason for hiding the truth was that my parents couldn't stand it. Unexpectedly, my mother was unexpectedly calm. People who live to be 1 years old will die. It is right not to tell your father. I agree, but tell me so that I can make some preparations. The next day, I informed my elder sister and second sister to go home, and our five sisters got together. My mother made arrangements for my father's funeral.

My father's health is getting worse day by day. Finally, one day, he suggested that he could not go to the hospital for iontophoresis, and then he stayed in bed, and then he began to have severe pain, which was maintained by injecting painkillers. We kept our mouth shut about my father's illness, and my father never asked about his illness. When I was in front of my father's bed, I didn't dare to look at his tarnished eyes, and I was ashamed of my father's kind eyes, because I made up a lie, a white lie, and deceived an illiterate old man.

The analgesics worked. My father didn't suffer like other patients. His body was extremely weak, he had difficulty eating, his abdomen was shriveled, and the tumor in his liver showed a hard bag. Until the day before he died, he stroked his abdomen with his dry hand and said to me, "This is my illness. If this bag can be removed, it will be fine." I'm speechless. What can I say? Does it make sense? My father watched me shed tears, and then he said, "Don't be sad. It's only a matter of time before people die. I know that this disease can't be cured, and you have tried your best. I am satisfied. " I suddenly feel that not only are we lying to our father, but my father is also cheating us. He knows that he has an incurable disease and we are cheating him, but he doesn't want to expose this scam.

a white lie, between two generations. Lying, yes.