When adolescence reaches menopause,

According to the regulations of the World Health Organization, people's puberty is fixed in the range of 13 to 19. However, due to the physiological differences between men and women and everyone, everyone's specific adolescence is different, and there may be individual differences between the ages of 2 and 5. And often women's puberty will start about two years earlier than men's and end two years earlier than men's.

2. Use wisdom to mediate the power of hormones

When a well-behaved child suddenly talks to you, gets along with you or even contradicts you in a way that you are not used to and don't like, don't get angry in a hurry, let alone slap it. He (she) is announcing to you in this way: I have entered adolescence!

Since puberty, both boys and girls are occupied and controlled by a huge force, and their thoughts and behaviors will undergo tremendous changes-this force is hormones.

It is not difficult to find that the health status of teenagers is often unbelievable and they can recover from the flu within 24 hours; Eating every meal doesn't necessarily increase your weight. Some children stay up late to watch football or catch up on their homework, and they are still full of energy the next day, which is unimaginable for most of us adults.

We sigh for this:

Look, this is youth!

However, this exuberant vitality is hard to be associated with hormones, and in fact, adolescence is largely due to the excess hormones existing in children!

The effect of hormones on children's health is obvious. For example, a tall, chubby boy will suddenly become a bearded boy, and a thin girl will suddenly have a graceful female posture.

In addition, hormones have complex effects on the brain. When hormones flood into the brain, an invisible chemical reaction occurs quickly and lasts for years.

Scientists have found that hormones make the amygdala, the part of the brain responsible for emotions, particularly active, so teenagers' emotions fluctuate greatly.

Knowing that hormones make children unstable and impulsive, we will be more considerate and less blamed, and our mentality will become calm and calm.

For example, if a child loses his temper, we know that he is venting his emotions, instead of deliberately "opposing" his parents and challenging their parents' bottom line; When they cry for a little thing, we know that this is a normal reaction, so there is no need to make a fuss or worry. When they are complaining, we can tolerate them without interrupting them rudely. ...

If parents understand their children better, the parent-child relationship will be less tense and the child's adolescence will be smoother.

3. Parents should adjust their mentality in time.

Children enter adolescence, and most of us are around 50 years old at this time, which is menopause. The relationship between husband and wife is irritable, irritable, neurotic and nervous. There is a strong smell of gunpowder at home, and any little thing is enough to be the fuse of war.

In this case, parents, especially mothers, should adjust their mentality in time, insist on dancing and practicing yoga, and keep a sunny and happy mood every day. Use an optimistic and positive attitude to influence children. Let the children feel the warmth of home and the love of their parents!

Conclusion:

Parents should strive to stand in the same camp with their children and maintain smooth communication between parents and children. This is a panacea for disciplining rebellious children!

The education of adolescent children is like letting him (her) run wild on the grassland. Run backward, run forward, and run if you want. All we have to do is hold the reins and control the general direction!

# Puberty #