What should I do if I encounter the same situation as "Werther"?

Most girls will not take the initiative to pursue the boy they like, unless they really like it too much or are brave girls with more personality. So, if you like a girl very much, And if you think she is interested in you, then take the initiative and don’t get into a tug-of-war with her. If you feel uncomfortable, the person you like may also suffer.

Whenever a girl is being chased, , the psychology is very complicated. She may be very happy, but also a little scared. She has an ambivalent attitude towards this boy who breaks into her peaceful life. She is unwilling to welcome this boy. She didn't mean it. Don't think that she When she is testing you, she is actually fighting with herself. She is afraid of being hurt.

Don’t be afraid that your initiative will arouse her resentment. If you don’t take the initiative, she won’t take the initiative either, so she will slowly fade away. It’s down. If your initial confession is rejected by her, that’s normal. Don’t be discouraged. Who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess your love twice more, she will be rejected. You are moved by a good girl with a kind heart.

If you suffer a setback, leave immediately and never talk to the girl again. Protect yourself tightly and silently. Licking your wounds, while you are in pain, you don’t know that the girl may also be feeling regretful and regretful in her heart! Maybe she will cry secretly and regret rejecting you. She will also be very sad when she sees your indifferent eyes again, but she But she will not tell you that she will never ask you to come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl’s sensitive heart.

She will think that you do not sincerely like him and want to How could he just give up on her?

Some people say that it is so difficult to be a boy and it is not easy to chase a girl. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is related to the social roles of men and women. Inseparable, from a physiological and social perspective, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are shy and women become courageous, the world will be in chaos! Women's shyness is always beautiful and moving. Yes~~~I always heard that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are very few examples of the opposite.

Some boys are afraid of what others say about them. What a stalker, it gives you a bad reputation. But I think when a boy pursues a girl he likes, and continues to treat her well after some setbacks, it means that he really likes her and is sincere. If he doesn't succeed, he will It’s not a pity, it’s nothing? Who makes people like it? I hate other people messing around the most, and I also hate the kind of boys who have no ideas and care too much about other people’s opinions of themselves. Such boys deserve to be unable to find a girlfriend.

Be brave as a man. Girls are inherently emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you have worked hard, once your sincerity impresses her, you will get more and more lasting love. Double love. Examples like this are everywhere around us. Girls are very gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. In exchange for this sweetness, what is the hard work in the beginning? And most good girls love them. You are very devoted and dedicated.

So, I suggest some boys to be brave and pursue the girl they like. Don’t be so timid. Firstly, it will make people think you are not manly. Secondly, It's your own fault for feeling uncomfortable, but the most important thing is: you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you!

One more thing, I I think it’s good to be proactive, because your goal is something you really like. Girls are often passive. Passive people can only choose to accept or reject, so I would rather take the initiative and love what I love without any regrets

1. Thick-skinned: This point is very important. Jordan Chan once said in the movie Young and Dangerous: If a man is thick-skinned, half of the success in chasing a girl will be achieved. hey-hey! ! Later, I tried everything and tried everything.

2. Infatuation: No matter how wronged you are, you have to show that it doesn't matter, and you have to find an opportunity on a special occasion to say to her: "XXX (name of person), I know you don't like me, I I also know that feelings cannot be forced, but... (remember: your eyes must be gentle to the extreme at this time, and then you look at her affectionately) said: You can't stop me from liking you, I To love you. I beg you not to regard me as your burden. You can live your own life. I only hope...just a small hope (the eyes must be wet) that you can keep me company. I will take care of you and protect you by your side...even if...even if (tears, tears are needed at this time, and it is very difficult to say it), treat me as an elder brother, younger brother, and do nothing to anyone, As long as you don't let me leave you, (cry, you must cry, as sad as you can), that's enough, that's enough... (Mumbling to himself) Remember this Never say anything to a girl like my life is yours and I can’t live without you. Girls hate it when a boy is in front of her.

3. Sweet mouth and smooth tongue: I can't teach you on this point, I can only rely on you. At this point, I would like to remind you: no matter what clothes she wears or what makeup she puts on, as long as she asks you, you must say "good-looking". ”, and even add some extra flair. Girls naturally like to be praised.

4. Stability: This point is compatible with the third point and is indispensable. Stability is missing. Girls will say you are a playboy. Without a sweet mouth and smooth tongue, girls will say you don’t understand taste.

5. Romance: This is also up to you, choose the right one. It's enough time to give her a surprise. Those who are rich will benefit greatly from this move. Don't be afraid of spending money.

6. Be careful: No matter what, think about her first. (Don't. Thinking that you will suffer a loss...etc.) Take good care of her, and you must make her feel like she can't live without you.

7 Summary: If you have learned all the above points. If so, I would like to say "there is no girl you can't catch" (this sentence does not include the huge difference in appearance, for example: the man looks like a tortoise, and the woman looks like a fairy). In short, the word "heart", Use your heart to understand what she is thinking and what she is thinking. Finally, I wish all lovers in the world to get married.

(Warning: Never use the above points to deceive girls. If you are caught, I will. Notice to all the infatuated brothers)

[Repost] Tips for chasing girls! ! !

1) It is better to pay attention to her so that she can pay attention to you -

If you want her to pay attention to you, it is actually best to start with yourself, including paying attention to her daily clothing. , pay attention to some details of her life, what she likes to eat, her hobbies and interests, etc. Once you have the opportunity to chat with her, you will naturally open up the topic and explore it. When she knows that you are paying attention to her, she will be surprised. The ground will also draw her attention to you and may leave a lasting impression.

2) Avoid erratic first dates -

After all, the first date is important. Most girls prefer frank words to hesitant words. , therefore, it is better to boldly assume a date to show your sincerity. This is worse than simply asking her when she will be free and other empty questions. Otherwise, the girl will be confused and wonder whether your date is true or false. Uncertain dates lack sincerity and can easily lead to trouble.

3) You should be careful, caring and sincere -

If she agrees to your date, it initially proves that she has no resistance to you, and even has a good impression of you, and has the potential to develop into a friend. If you have the opportunity, you might as well pay close attention to her dress that day and give her a compliment, which is enough to make her happy.

In addition, you should make preparations before dating, such as asking in advance what dishes she likes to eat, and then booking three restaurants with different atmospheres and food (of course, it is best to be in the same area). Let her choose at that time, so that she will naturally feel that you are so attentive and the most important thing is the sincerity from the heart. It will be even more unacceptable for you to open the door, pull up the seat, send her home and other opportunities to show your grace. If you ignore it, remember, she will pay special attention to and care about your performance in these details.

4) Avoid talking endlessly about past relationships -

If you like a girl, it is understandable that you have a lot to say to her, including your past and present. But many men make a mistake, that is, they talk about their past love history on the first date, hoping that the other party will understand their past. However, this often ignores the girl's feelings. When she goes on a date with you, is she just listening to you? Telling about your ex-girlfriend? Moreover, most girls like to be unique in their boyfriend's heart, and they will never allow their boyfriend to still think about another person. Jealousy has long been closely linked to love and cannot be controlled by reason, so once it comes to talking about the old When it comes to Japanese love, it's better to be careful and be more considerate of each other's feelings.

5) It is advisable to give her a small gift to make her happy -

Just think of it as a small meeting gift, and choose an exquisite small gift for her in advance, such as a A fresh and bright tulip, a box of beautifully packaged chocolates, a necklace with a simple design, and an interesting little book. Gifts are more about heart than money, and they are also small. Don’t be too hasty. The first date will be a success. Buying her gold jewelry or expensive leather bags will only scare her, and it will be even more embarrassing when she pushes you and gives way.

6) Avoid boring topics, boring conversations, and dullness -

Since you can seize the opportunity to talk to her, you should communicate well. You can listen more carefully. Ask questions about her current situation, hobbies or views on things to deepen your knowledge and understanding of her, and let the topic continue naturally instead of saying yes or no, which would be boring. of.

Similarly, you should also talk about topics that you believe the other person is interested in, instead of just talking about your expertise or ambitions. Pay more attention to her reaction, and don’t get bored on the first date. If you leave her, there may not be another date.

7) The whole date should end successfully -

After the meal, you can ask her what she thinks of the meal and whether she is interested in going to another restaurant or continuing. Stay for some desserts, which will make her feel your thoughtfulness. Desserts after the meal are a good suggestion. You can use this time to talk and laugh. After dinner, you should send her home and say simple words to her before leaving. Say: [It felt really good to spend this evening with you], which will make her even more happy. At this time, when you ask her gently: [Can we continue to go out to eat and talk like this? 〕

I believe she has no room to reject you anymore.