My boyfriend sent me a message of breaking up. Is it possible to continue this relationship?

Look at your rambling questions. You don't recall what happened in the past in detail. You only mention the information your boyfriend replied, and then ask if it is possible to continue. It can be seen from this behavior that you cherish this relationship and you attach great importance to your boyfriend. In this message, I seem to see that you are still reluctant to part with this relationship, but you chose this result because of something. The man broke up, you asked him if he had any questions, let him make this decision, and because the news was afraid of disturbing his boyfriend. Is it possible to continue this relationship with the information my boyfriend gave me back?

Is the existing problem a problem of both sides?

When two people are together, they will find a way to get along after running in. You didn't mention it, but your boyfriend said he had given up the idea of falling in love and having children. We can know that you have had an argument in these two aspects. People are disappointed after many expectations, but they can't get it. Then why does he have no hope for love in his message? I am fit to be a lonely person. This sentence of your boyfriend shows that he blames himself for the problem, feels that he has no ability to love anymore, and doesn't want to drag you down in this state, but the real question is whether there are individuals or both parties. Only you know better.

Give each other some time.

Two people who love each other, no matter how weak their feelings are, will not forget each other in a short time because they are used to each other's existence. According to the information, your boyfriend is also very hurt and sad. Maybe he needs time to think about your relationship. He is still willing to reply to your message. You can send him a message and give you some time to seriously think about this relationship.

If we both cherish this relationship, we can list all the existing problems. You can try to change through communication, and don't disturb each other at the appointed time until the appointed time gives the answers of both parties. No matter what answer you give, you will respect each other. We all learn to grow up slowly in our feelings, but we didn't learn to love each other at the beginning, so you will be in a good mood. Try to calm yourself down and think about this relationship in some ways:

1. Cry: According to the information, your boyfriend wants to be alone for a while, so during this time, you need to endure this sadness and sadness by yourself and allow yourself to vent this sadness and sadness. Crying is a good way to relieve emotions, and the depression in your heart will be discharged through tears.

2. Enrich yourself: When you are sad, try not to leave yourself alone and do nothing, which will make you more depressed. You can enrich your life, be busy with work, exercise and watch comedy variety shows.

3. Learning: Long waiting time. No matter what the result is, you can face the result through learning first. If it is irreversible, what are the reasons and how to face it? If you redeem it, can you solve the problem with one heart?