Have you ever been cheated by true love?

I registered in Jiayuan, and I believe the routine is the same. I want to share it with you. I registered because I wanted to find the other half. Just after the registration, the prompt came: an excellent man sent you a message. Take a quick look. I read it carefully, replied carefully one by one, and soon found something was wrong. Because there are only a few questions coming and going: I like traveling, would you like to accompany me around the world; I am filial to the elderly. Would you like to join me? Anyway, that means I love to enjoy money. Would you like to enjoy it with me every day without work? This makes me confused, so unreal. Then, the system tells you that the amount of information you can read for free has been used up and needs to be recharged. You keep reminding men to be nice to you. Decisively ignore. Then the matchmaker called to mobilize money to join the club. Now that I'm suspicious, I won't be fooled. After so many years, I gradually forgot about it. My mobile phone often receives calls to promote real estate, and another "jiayuan" called that day, always wanting to know where this real estate is. I don't understand. Q: Where is your property? It is said that this marriage is good, matchmaker. Oh, I suddenly understand: this is cheating on that good luck. The other party immediately hung up and never contacted again.

My personal experience: advertisements for true love are everywhere. I usually see advertisements when I brush my mobile phone, and my hands are cheap. I click on my mobile phone number and enter it. It's a mess Well, until I got tired of the phone and you went to the store, I was mainly single and needed the other half. In addition, their so-called chief matchmaker's bluff eloquence is really good. Seeing that I am hesitant about the price, I will use her year-end bonus points to help me become their member. From 1 to 8 pm, you were followed when you went to the toilet, just to delay the time and make you tired of bombing tactics. You paid a service fee of 23,800 yuan for six months and arranged for at least six men to meet. If it is not suitable after six months, the service period will end. After paying the money, you immediately changed to another matchmaker to dock with you, so that you can see some photos of high-quality male members before paying the money. Anyway, you won't see the man you like in the end. I arranged for two men to meet, neither of them met my requirements, and I woke up immediately. This is their routine. Only after Baidu did it know that zhenai had too many stores all over the country, and every store had complaints. I asked for a refund immediately, but I didn't agree. Fortunately, I collected many refund events from all over the country and pointed out their overlord clauses. There are also many violations of consumers' rights and interests in the contract. Finally, the students who moved out of the TV station gave them free advertisements before agreeing to refund. They are afraid that you will go to the store to make trouble, because many fools will be fooled into going to the store. So now as long as they see precious advertising information, they should complain immediately, once and for all!

A girlfriend of mine spent 18800 to sign up, and all the blind dates were crooked melons and cracked dates. The first blind date, meeting in the park at noon in summer, may be a stranger to everyone. The first date is to meet in the park, mainly for fear of spending money.

The second blind date said that she was a university teacher. As a result, only after meeting her did she know that the man was 10 years older than her. The man said he didn't have a car, a house or a deposit. Ask your girlfriend if she doesn't like it. My best friend does have a house and a car, but she can't leave an old man empty-handed!

After two blind dates, my best friend got angry and questioned the staff in zhenai. The result is kicking the ball and various excuses, promising to continue to introduce high-quality men. In a word, to put it bluntly, it means not paying back the money. 18800 that's it!

Later, my best friend was still in love. I found it myself, a colleague at work. I don't want to be fooled by signing up if I have more money. Blind dates there are basically entrusted. Single men and women should not blindly believe in advertisements, and beware of wallet damage!

After reading your answers, I want to talk about my personal views:

1. The person I hate most in my life is a liar. Whenever I meet a liar, it's really killing me. I take the initiative.

2. I have registered in zhenai before, but there is a feeling that the staff has been trying to lobby you. I am disgusted with this kind of lobbying. Moreover, the quality of these staff members is extremely low, which is enough to lobby me. This is an insult to me. I don't want to comment on it, but I really dare not compliment it.

3. Later, I also ran a newspaper, but the effect was not good. Later, I registered a famous dating network (the name of this network can't be said, lest others say that I am an agent or advertise to others) and succeeded.

I think so, too. In the information age, the younger generation can't live without mobile phones, computers and the Internet almost all day, and the population is extremely mobile. In many areas, the foreign population even exceeds the local population. If we only rely on the model introduced by previous acquaintances, the contact surface is quite narrow, even if it is published in newspapers, it can't keep up with the times. Therefore, the network platform is indeed a good choice and a helpless choice.

At this end of the network, you are real, and at the other end of the network, you are also a him. Of course, this man is not virtual, but it may not be real. To be sure, no one will casually put all his real things, especially his privacy, on the internet to let people who don't know him know. But one thing is certain, on this network, there is a person who needs this at one end and a person who needs it at the other end. Both you and he want to find the right partner. -This fact has nothing to do with any website. Online scammers use the platform to cheat, and subjectively cheating on the platform is also two different things.

6. Because both men and women have the need to find a partner. And the content of the network is not credible (even if you rely on the staff of the website), then you can only rely on your own identification. In fact, it is not difficult to identify. Even if it is introduced by an acquaintance, you need your consent to get married, right? People on the internet, you can also use your head and think of some ways to identify them.

7. There are many identification methods, for example,

(1) Appearance comes from the heart. Appearance precipitates a person's history and inner world. From appearance, we can gain insight into a person's true character.

(2) etiquette. People's character has memory, and people's actions also have memory. The memory of this action is deeper, firmer and more direct than the memory of the brain. Through subconscious actions, we can recognize a person's true face. This is more accurate than anything. Even spies who have received professional training will reveal their true colors through casual subconscious actions or words and deeds. This identification method was widely used in the anti-special war in the early days of liberation. For example, there was a woman who posted three topics on the Internet to get married. I remember one of them was "How to calculate my hair accurately?" This is a good method. Those who can pass this level will never be liars. You can also think about your topic and see the other person's reaction by observing the change of poverty, so that you can know the general possibility.

(3) Birds of a feather flock together. You find a person with your level of ability, and they are very suitable for each other. There is a wooden cart behind a BMW, and no one is comfortable. Therefore, on the internet, you should not be insatiable, and you should not dream of becoming immortal overnight through marriage, so that no one can cheat you.

I have already said the rest in Wukong's answer, so I won't repeat it. Generally speaking, the network is the platform of the times and a helpless choice, and so are people at the other end. There is nothing wrong with the internet. The website may have its purpose, but it doesn't affect the reality that you and he have the same needs. The key is to recognize yourself carefully. Don't dream of becoming an immortal overnight, so you won't be cheated.

I have also told my students many times that times have changed. After coming out to work, you should take the initiative to contact some people and actively fall in love, but don't have the psychology of falling in love at first sight or being successful in one love, and accumulate more experience for yourself. Failure in love is better than failure in marriage. Don't stop falling in love for fear of failure.

Me too. I have seen Jiayuan before. I can be a liar on one condition, but I don't like it very much. I met another one, and the first time I saw him, I was malicious. We made an appointment to have dinner together, and he didn't react until he came out of the toilet. You know [covering your face], damn it. Scared me to find an excuse to run away. Third, the photo looks over 30 years old, but the real person feels over 50 years old. When we first met, they drew me a pie and told me that he was the general manager of a listed company. I get along well with him. First, I paid a 4 million card and gave me a sports car and a shop. As a result, I ate 168 for dinner, checked the bill for five minutes, and blacked him out when I came back. However, I have a friend whose husband was found by Lily. They have been married for five or six years. My friend is very beautiful. Although that man is not handsome, he is worth tens of millions. Both men and women are not liars. This is one of the few successful cases, which needs luck to touch.

Both zhenai and Jiayuan have used it, and I have used almost all blind date platforms in China. I have a full say in this, but the most pit of domestic blind date platforms is not cherishing lilies and the like. Huatian makes you want to cry and feel like a dummy, including early Asian dating. You can still talk to real people.

In China, Jiayuan has a poor reputation, but the year I used is still quite reliable. Others say there are many liars in Jiayuan, but I haven't met any. I marked myself in my self-introduction: "I am engaged in psychology, and I am a ghost catcher in love. I have to get out of the way." Marking this information is a hint to potential scammers. Don't come to die, and don't waste time and energy with me. The effect is very good. I haven't seen any of them.

Many people use these platforms because of Bai Piao's mentality, such as jiayuan. When you start to register, the system will send you some stamps so that you can communicate with others, but the stamps will be used up in minutes. As the saying goes, I can't bear to let my children catch wolves, so can blind date. You are too lazy to pay the fee. Do you want to cast a wide net and focus on training? This is not a blind date gesture, so at that time, as long as I used these platforms, I would recharge. I wanted efficiency, but it was useless to recharge even if I cherished Lily. I think there are more liars there. Why? Because I spent money, should I meet at least one person I can talk to among the blind date crowd? But no, there are many zombie objects on Cherish Lily, and the information is sent out, either not returning or pretending to be dead. What's more, the system will push some robots to you. For example, someone you have never met or contacted will write to you inexplicably and say thank you for your message. Thank you for reading his information. In fact, this is all directed and performed by the platform system, and its purpose is to make you pay for it. This routine is very tempting for people who have an urgent need for blind date-when you are worried that others will not contact you, the system suddenly gives you a wave of people who are suitable in all aspects. What would you do? You must contact someone else. If you contact someone, you must pay the membership fee.

Of course, it is also beneficial to open a member. For example, if you open a diamond member, the usage mode of Lily True Love Jiayuan is similar. My posture has several labels: age range, geographical range, unmarried, divorced without children, bachelor degree or above. Set these conditions, search, and the system will recommend a large number of qualified girls to you. The rest is to edit it in advance and send it in groups. Then I began to take chances and wait for the beautiful woman to contact you. If you don't have a member and plan to go to Bai Piao for blind date, you will have to look for a needle in a haystack. For platforms like jiayuan, there are still many potential targets, and choosing one by one may make you feel tired.

My peach blossom luck has always been good, so the success rate of blind date is very high. I mainly use two platforms, Jiayuan and MarryU. I have played on other platforms, including Lily Cherish, even 58 City, and the second-hand information network. It's all a little bullshit. I met a woman in 58 city, and she was in full swing with me with her children. As soon as I found out, I hacked her and uninstalled the software. Comprehensive use, Jiayuan is still good. Jiayuan and later Lily cherish these things very much, and their word-of-mouth has actually deteriorated for two reasons. First, the platform audit is not strict, some women cheat money and things, some men cheat free sex, and second, the personal problems of blind date. From the whole society, people who are eager for success and greedy for petty gains are always the easiest to be deceived. Although liars are clever at deception, many problems are on themselves, because some people have the constitution of being easily deceived.

The reason why Jiayuan is not bad is that Jiayuan is good. At that time, as long as you don't meet a liar, you usually talk to people back and forth in words. Whether it is appropriate or not, everyone will filter from basic information and photos. If it is appropriate, they will make an appointment to have dinner together. If it is not appropriate, they will stop talking and continue to find their next home. Everyone has a strong purpose. This is also the reason why I say that Jiayuan is still reliable. Those who are serious about finding someone on it are serious.

I have a blind date with a dozen girls on Jiayuan. Many of them have met and eaten, and five or six of them have become real friends. In other words, everyone thought it was ok online, but in reality they thought it was better to be friends, so they became friends. One of them is my sister. She is very interesting. Her blind dates with several men, including me, have all developed into buddies. At that time, she also wanted us to get married, but I thought we could watch it again and let it go.

The last time I used Jiayuan was several years ago. I saw my present wife on Jiayuan, so I contacted her decisively. After I got in touch with her, I met, dated, got married and had children. Is the process omitted? Much the same Everyone has experienced it. So from my experience, Jiayuan can still be trusted, provided that you have certain confidence and the awareness and technology to prevent wolves and swindlers. If you don't even have the ability to identify the object, what is the difference between online blind date and real blind date?

If you want to make a blind date online, be honest when you meet, let the other party tell you your ID card and work unit, report it to each other, and then ask in person. Don't be embarrassed. When I go on a blind date, I just need to show my ID card and report it to my work unit. Honesty is always the most important step. Any act of defending falsehood and concealing the truth should have zero tolerance. No matter how suitable this person is for you, don't be a bitch yourself.

Last but not least, MarryU, this is not bad. The year before I met my wife, I met an official second generation, who was beautiful and had good conditions. But blx, an ancestor, spent a year together, and I resigned, naked resignation. This platform is not as big as jiayuan. At first, it was made by individual developers, but it developed slowly. There are some high-quality objects in it, which of course need you to identify.

Finally, when online blind date is difficult to succeed, almost all platforms will prepare offline services for you. 9800 yuan played once. To be honest, I think offline efficiency may be higher, but those matchmakers are not as good as me. I have seen my sisters several times before and after, but I still can't stand the stubborn beating of those marketers. And I still can't see them.

The process of meeting online and offline on the platform is like this: the location of the appointment will be set at the offline service outlets of the platform, generally near the business circle, and the houses of the outlets are cubicles. The matchmaker will make an appointment for both parties to be present on time, and then go through the identification formalities, and then you can chat with your partner in the compartment, which is closed. The success of chatting depends on fate. Doesn't mean you're successful if you have a date. Some people may think that there are many excuses for this situation. Actually, it's very difficult to do. As long as anyone has the heart, it is easy to find the object of repeated blind date. Besides, this kind of offline matchmaking starts from several thousand and ends at tens of thousands. If there is a platform, people will be responsible for you to some extent.

In short, don't be afraid of blind date. No matter where you are dating, on the platform or in reality, you must be willing to spend money. Secondly, you should practice the art of judging people. If you are cheated, it must be that you are not studying well. Why haven't others been cheated? Think more about your own problems.

I saw zhenai's advertisement in Tik Tok last year, so I clicked in and left my phone number. The next morning, a staff member called and said that a boy was very interested in me. The staff invited me to meet in the store and talk about the basic situation. I specifically asked if there was a charge. The caller said it was free, and then he went. I met the matchmaker, asked about the basic situation, work and so on, and then showed me the photos of their successful marriage proposal. Read the proposal, read the photos of high-quality male members, and ask me what kind of boys I like. Then I began to say that when I became a member, I could introduce you to boys who like photos. Then I began to say, with your good conditions, you should find a boy with better conditions. No matter how extravagant the matchmaker says, I have only one purpose to be a member of 18888. I always thought I was an ordinary person, and I didn't think about looking for Gao Fushuai, so I thought it was too unreliable at that time, so I decisively refused, and then the three men took turns to go into battle. Finally, I didn't become a member. Later, I called every day to brainwash. On the third day, I was so annoyed that I said I found a boyfriend. I haven't called since my classmates introduced me.

Jiayuan is a liar's shop. Don't go to the offline store to lobby you for money. After paying the money, I recommend two casually. The other party is not a member, and then I ignore it. Don't be deceived!

The charges are all from liars.

I am a member of zhenai, and I registered only after being persuaded by my relatives and children. I think it's better to identify information carefully. If it's a public institution or a civil servant, it's better to identify it. I talked to several people, checked that there are indeed, but they are all eager to meet. I won't meet without talking about it to a certain extent. You can brag about other professions-I don't care. However, no matchmaker called me. But after the membership expires, the platform keeps sending you messages. Who sent you the message? Who deserves you? Let your heart beat, pay a membership fee of 388 yuan. There is no information after handing it in. Now I just look at it occasionally, and I feel that I have not registered. I don't want to think about it. It's comfortable to live alone.