what can I do? See the chat record of children using QQ on the mobile phone.

Is the landlord afraid of delaying the child's study or worrying about the child's puppy love when he buys a mobile phone for his child?

Answer the landlord's question first.

QQ chat history of mobile phone can only be viewed on this mobile phone, which is the only way. Therefore, if the landlord wants to see the chat record of the child's mobile QQ, he can only give the child a mobile phone, or take it when the child is sleeping or has no mobile phone. There is no other way. Because the QQ chat record of the mobile phone can't be synchronized to the computer yet.

However, there is one thing to explain to the landlord.

First of all, the law stipulates that anyone who looks at his diary, letters, etc. must obtain the consent of minors. Violation of minors' privacy constitutes a violation of public security administration, and the public security organ shall give administrative punishment according to law.

Parents should not peek into their children's privacy. Even children's personal privacy should be protected, and can't be violated at will! How many children are extremely upset now? Parents always peek at their children's diaries!

Everyone has inner secrets. Adults have children and care about each other. Who wants their secrets to be known?

What children and parents need is understanding and communication, not voyeurism. Many people think it is not illegal for parents to peek at their children's diaries. However, they only think that parents are good for their children, but they don't consider their feelings. How chilling it is to let children know that their trusted parents communicate with themselves in this way!

I don't want to have a few lonely children like me. We are human beings, and we need love and care!

I hope these will help you, and I also hope to tell parents that peeking at their children's diaries is the most unbearable way to "communicate" with their children.

Therefore, if the landlord wants to know the recent situation of the child, the best way is to communicate with the child and let the child trust you.

When I was a child, my parents often patronized my schoolbag. My parents want to know what secrets I have. But I'm different now! Why? Because what happened to my parents changed me when I was a child.

I stole my mom's 10 yuan when I was a child. When I was a child, 10 yuan was a huge sum of money. In order not to let my parents know about it, I have been hiding it. My parents haven't found out for more than a week, but I really want to spend the money. But I'm worried about exposure. Later, I decided that I couldn't spend all this 10 yuan, so I secretly told my mother about it (my mother loved me very much when she was a child, and basically didn't hit me, but she also reasoned with me). I didn't expect that my mother didn't scold me for it, but took me out to buy a lot of delicious food. At that time, my memory was very deep. My mother told me that as long as I made a mistake and knew where it was, it was worth it. If you can admit your mistakes, you are the best.

I remember crying.

Now I have a good relationship with my mother and tell her everything (but later, because of my father's work problems, I didn't communicate much, but I also have a good relationship with my father, just like friends. ) including my girlfriend.

So the landlord, if you are really good to children, it is impossible to be hard.

Communicate with your child, make him trust you, and make him understand that it is good for him to tell you this. Then, I can say that the landlord will be the best parent!

I hope what I said can help the landlord. I saw this question with great psychological fluctuation, which reminded me of my childhood.

Landlord, think about it and communicate with your children more.

thank you